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Ghosting
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Ghosting (relationships) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ghosting_(relationships) Ghosting refers to the act of breaking off a relationship (often used in the context of intimate relationships) by ceasing all communication and contact with the former partner without any apparent warning or justification, as well as avoiding and/or ignoring and refusing to respond in any way to the former partner's ... |
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Ghosting
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From what I understand, , ghosting is a conscious decision to permanently cut off communication from a loved one without giving them an explanation. Im sure people have valid reasons for doing it sometimes but it seems rather cold to me
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Happy Birthday Pink! You ve had a very tough year. I hope your health is on the mend and the year ahead is filled with joy , fulfilment and prosperity
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Gentle....and gentle
Edited by
peggy122
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Mon 10/23/17 11:32 AM
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Its interesting that you raised this question jazzinc. Just today I was commenting in another thread that chivalry to me is basically acts of human kindness which shouldnt be confined to just men. Women can open doors, hold a bag for someone and give their seat up for an elderly person on the bus. Therefore to me, a gentle woman is someone who practices kindness and consideration to humanity on the whole
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where? how? when?
Edited by
peggy122
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Mon 10/23/17 07:55 AM
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For me personally, when a guy is charming, smart and funny,and we share a natural connection, even a coffee date feels special . Im impressed by the guy... not the date. AMEN!! If only all of them were that way.  theres a lot of us still around here like peggy I'm sure there are. But, the amount is getting smaller and smaller. There are more shallow people now than ever before. I hear all the time about women thinking that men only want one thing. And that may be true for the most part. But, on the other hand, I not only hear it, I've seen it for myself. With many women now, and a lot of those that claim they don't need a man, the measure of a man is what he has and what he can give her. For many, it's about how successful he is or has been and what he has to offer monetarily. Now, for many, It's more about, "I love you if" than it is "I love you, PERIOD." I've actually seen different women walk off and leave a man because he got sick and couldn't work anymore. After 20 or more years of being together. I've seen some real cold hearted. If a woman is dating for a longterm relationship, wouldnt she need to choose someone with whom they can mutually make each others dream come through? If a woman adores travelling for example , is it materialistic of her to look for a mate who is financially capable of covering his end of the trips that she hopes they will take together? ? If she dreams to live independently of in law conflict , is it materialistic for her to seek a partner who can at least pay his half of the rent towards the home they move into? Im wondering if compatability isnt being labelled as materialism? |
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Chivalry is it dead.?
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Feminism killed chivalry. "What men can do, we can also." And they complain when guys don't open doors for them anymore... Chivalry is less practised than it used to be but I still see it often enough to know its alive. What I wish is that chivalry was ingrained in both men and women because to me it embodies simple kindness to humanity that we should all practice If a man or anyone else for that matter is behind me when I open a door, I leave it open for them to ealj through . If an elderly man cant find a seat on a bus, whats wrong with a woman giving up her seat for him? I dont see why kindness should be gender-based |
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My birthday pals
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Happy Birthday Godsfriend! I hope you had a spectacular day!
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Record your voice
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Random thought... https://vocaroo.com/i/s0DMJQM6izUI Or maybe they prefer an air of mystery Rosie 
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Record your voice
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^^^^I needed to listen at a very low volume and it was okay.  Thanks waterloo
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Record your voice
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Here's mine. Hope it doesn't sound muffled lol
https://vocaroo.com/i/s0fBh9frylFy |
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Edited by
peggy122
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Sat 10/21/17 07:21 AM
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Life. From my experience, even if two people connect initially, people change. Life changes them, so being happy within the first year or five, does not mean that you'll be together forever. Work, school, kids, friends, tragedies, stress...unlimited number of reasons why relationships end. I agree with this, but I also think that because of all the stresses described above, people stop making the time to nurture their relationship ie to communicate, to date , to have fun. In the beginning of a relationship , there is more adrenalin that carrying the uniom, but as that fades with time, genuine conscious effort is needed to keep that fire alive and many are not committed to the ongoing effort that's required I also think that many of us choose incompatible mates and those stark differences pull a couple apart over time |
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Women are involved...any questions?  
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Topic:
What don't you have
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You are a brave girl Peggy Thanks for the vote of confidence Lu
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What don't you have
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come on peggy you can do it!!!!!! Thanks for the vote of confidence Eric |
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What don't you have
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the courage to change my career That takes a lot of courage, Peggy... Especially if you have family depending on you. Well to be fair Max, I dont have a husband or kids so in that regard , there are less complications to the process. Im still scared to do it though 
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i'm thinking peggy is going to go dancing  No Eric. Dancing was not even a temptation for me that day with all that delicious rain I'm thinking Peggy has a lovely new photo posted. Thanks Poetrywriter!
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What don't you have
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the courage to change my career
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Diwali
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My country celebrated diwali yesterday. Happy diwali to the hindu community!
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All this glorious rain! and Im home to enjoy it! :)
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It's complicated staMeryl streep and Alec Baldwin
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