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Fri 06/11/10 05:57 PM


If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree!

so if you dont like what you doing or not doing change or or your life will go nowhere and you be doomed to have a miserable life!


Quit explaining things so easily, obviously it is a lot harder to change things...I just can't think of why or how right now, but it will come to me.

But seriously, get off the pills, that **** will kill you.


ok ok ok fine..can i round house kick some sense into him?

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Fri 06/11/10 05:34 PM
they dont want to pay for the site that the whole thing.with them being on a limited income they can only spend so much

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Fri 06/11/10 05:33 PM
If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree!

so if you dont like what you doing or not doing change or or your life will go nowhere and you be doomed to have a miserable life!

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Fri 06/11/10 05:28 PM
im trying to build a website for my grandparents because they want to sell their jewelry and photographs they take.

but they dont want to have to pay for a website and they want to know how people will be able to pay for the items off this website.

i figured while im looking for a job might as well do something nice and constructive!

thanksflowerforyou

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Fri 06/11/10 05:24 PM
blame Canada for all their shenanigans!

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Fri 06/11/10 06:59 AM
well i like the thought of being in a relationship.but i tend to get bored quickly and will self sabotage a relationship close to the 3 week period and i pick guys that i know arent good for me..

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Thu 06/10/10 06:18 PM
well i dated a guy who i swear was bi polar i couldnt prove it his babies momma said he was and i looked up the signs it was a constant battle to work with what ever mood he happend to be in at any given second

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Wed 06/09/10 01:44 PM




Wow. Remember when MTV was cool?


Not only do I remember when it was cool, I remember when it really was a 24/7 music video station.


oh wow i did too if mtv wasnt playing a good video i try vh1 but that channel has failed me too now a days!

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Wed 06/09/10 01:18 PM

Hummmm but what gets me is when you hear someone complain about someone not paying them back but yet they owe money they have not paid back to another person!!!noway noway slaphead



yeah after i originally had made this posting i had found out from a mutual friend that she owed them $200 bucks but was bragging to the mutual friend about buying a ring and possible going to an amusement park.we were sharing info about this mutual friend that owes us money so we agree that this person that owes us money has a definite spending problem of some sort.

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Wed 06/09/10 10:01 AM



See, this is what I see as the problem. Everyone lets people get away with things. I'm not against letting someone borrow money, but to just shrug it off is kind of a sad thing.

We gripe about the morals of people, and the apparent lack of responsibility but ya'll are your own problems if you're shrugging it off and not expecting and demanding those people to pay you back.

No wonder something as extreme as a murderer essentially gets away with it. He or she knows he will. No one will truly be expecting him/her much less demanding him/her be truly punished for the deed.

"If you aren't going to stand for something, then you'll fall for everything" comes to mind reading this, and seeing people just telling the OP to write it off. She tried to do a good deed, and deserves to get paid back. To tell her to ignore it, is basically telling her she's not much better then a doormat and to heck with it.

It's a simple respect issue.


thanks a lot!flowerforyou i was raised and taught that when you loan somebody money you will get it back im not going to just let it go,she said multiple times that she would pay me back and i told her several times that she could make small payments and she never did but deiced to run out and buy concert tickets but yet she told me she was struggling.

and as for slander,no i never ever said anything negative about her,or her character i told her she can pay my back or do it in payments or ill take her to court.i said nothing about her being a bad person at all.

so yes im fine the friendship ended but im not just gonna forget about b.c she was a friend at the time she always says shes hard up for cash but goes and spends money on concert tickets?

when every time i spoke to her she always promised to pay me back its been 3 months sense i gave her the money and she always told me id get the money back but 3 months went by with the same story so no,im not just going to let it go.

after all the things i did to help her out to get back on her feet and she tried to turn around the next day and ask if she could borrow 300 dollars for me.

it is a matter of her being a friend and respecting me and obviously she choose to spend her money on things like concert tickets but she told me shes struggling interesting..how respectful of her to keep to her word..
I have noticed that you mention your friend buying concert tickets quite often. Are you upset that your friend didnt invite you to go to the concert? To mention the concert so many times, seems like you are jealous you didnt get to go. JMO


no i did notice that but wasnt meaning too i did find out she bough a ring owes somebody else 200 bucks and mentioned about going to an amusement park down here

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Wed 06/09/10 08:39 AM
yeah they do suck now i was actually having this conversation with somebody the other day i miss the batman shows and Doug and Daria and ahhhhhh real monsters!

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Sat 06/05/10 10:05 PM
hello and welcome!

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Sat 06/05/10 08:48 PM

Where is the Godfather when you need him???


haha andy!love it!

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Sat 06/05/10 08:13 PM

:thumbsup: Good for you southern.


thanks hun!

at least i can lay my head down at night not feeling bad and knowing i tried to work with her!flowerforyou

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Sat 06/05/10 08:12 PM


so i went on my friends facebook that owes me the money i told her she can start making payments to mek or pay the whole thing or or i can look into small claims court

this was her reply

" really you dont have to be mean, you know that I have been without a job too, I have been working parttime. and babysitting, trying my best. you need to quite talking to people like this. I will get your money to you $60 by the 15th. we have lost 1200 a month. we are trying to get caught up on things too. wow I thought you were a friend. guess not .you get your money!!!!!!"

i always told her she could pay me back in installments and im the mean person?

good to know


I think she should have been showing an effort by paying you something each week or month. 5 bucks or something at a wack. That would at least show good faith.


i always told her i would work something out with her to do payments.like i never hounded her

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Sat 06/05/10 05:48 PM

Tell you the truth that has never worked.She has lost her money.And will never get back.Worst thing she did was loan money.Never loan money to friend or family. Only strangers.winking



i think ill take the other option dont loan money to anybody lesson learned!flowerforyou

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Sat 06/05/10 05:23 PM
i just got my zombie killing permit!

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Sat 06/05/10 05:21 PM
yup sure is thanks

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Sat 06/05/10 04:41 PM


Does this mean there will be no milk chicken bomb?


Haha brilliant! Clearly, I need to get out more. I am not familiar with such traditions.


lol well im ok with this idea~!

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Sat 06/05/10 04:38 PM

When you loaned her the money, did you set a date for her to repay it?


i told her she could pay it back in small month/bi weekly or monthly installments.i told her this start next month and that was in February ..and she didnt do it i never got a dime so again i asked if she was able to pay me anything and her reply was i repay you soon.

i would remind her each time she spoke and would be nice about it and said when will you be able to start to pay me back she always said soon.

and i asked her one day on a friday b.c i know she gets paid on fridays they said they were behind on rent.then i saw last month she ran out and bought concert tickets...

so i figured if she able to buy concert tickets i guess she wasnt so hard up for money as she told me..