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Thu 06/17/10 07:02 PM

Screw it, I quit!!


I'm sensing some anger and frustration.
But you don't have to act on those feelings.

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Thu 06/17/10 06:52 PM
Edited by VacantDreamer on Thu 06/17/10 06:52 PM




Considering that most homophobia is based on an unsubstantiated fear that is perpetrated mostly from the religious, who we know are not coming from facts at all.

People are born either heterosexual, homosexual or bi.

So there will always be babies being made.


I really don't think anyone is born a certain way, we all have choices to make as we grow. To say we're born any one way is kinda using that as a crutch to me.


I would agree with you if people weren't born gay or born attracted to the same sex. It does present itself in children before they can make choices in that area.

And you speak of feelings as if they are something bad and we should not be defined by them.

We are all defined by our feelings every single day every minute of every day. We don't even realize when we are reacting to our feelings because it happens so much in our daily lives.




We still have the choice to act or not act though in the end. No one is forcing us in one direction or the other.


So by your logic, it is better for people to lie about who they really are and be miserable because they can never truly be themselves.


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Thu 06/17/10 06:44 PM

Depends, two financially responsible people will help each other. Two financially irresponsible people will destroy each other. One responsible and one irresponsible, the irresponsible is going to hurt the responsible one.


Very true. Took the words right out of my head.

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Thu 06/17/10 06:40 PM


I am not 0



I agree. I'd say you're an 8 or 9flowerforyou


6 cuz that was sweet :wink:

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Thu 06/17/10 06:39 PM

The top of their head noway


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 06/17/10 06:37 PM


Too many teeth


How does that happen?


offtopic Nice cleavage Vacant!:thumbsup: tongue2 :laughing:


I don't know.
But it does.
I've seen it.
Wasn't pretty.

And thanks :wink:

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Thu 06/17/10 06:31 PM
Too many teeth

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Thu 06/17/10 06:30 PM
I am not 0

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Thu 06/17/10 06:29 PM
I wanna go to bed.

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Thu 06/17/10 06:28 PM
Fingernails.

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Thu 06/17/10 06:12 PM


I can't live your lives you're right, but we all have choices to make. We are not defined by feelings alone.


I didn't CHOOSE to be alienated by many of my family and most of my friends.

I didn't CHOOSE to put myself at risk for hate crimes.

I didn't CHOOSE to be denied the rights that other US citizens have.

You can't look at a certain female and automatically CHOOSE to be attracted to her. Attraction happens on a cellular and chemical level, and feelings aren't even HALF of it. You can love someone and not be attracted to them.

Studies, actual scientific studies, have shown homosexuality to be far more than a choice to rebel, as you seem to think it is.

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Thu 06/17/10 05:59 PM


Considering that most homophobia is based on an unsubstantiated fear that is perpetrated mostly from the religious, who we know are not coming from facts at all.

People are born either heterosexual, homosexual or bi.

So there will always be babies being made.


I really don't think anyone is born a certain way, we all have choices to make as we grow. To say we're born any one way is kinda using that as a crutch to me.


Unless you yourself have experienced the things that we do as we are growing up and discovering who we are, you really cannot possess an educated opinion on that, and therefore should not try.

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Thu 06/17/10 05:19 PM

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Thu 06/17/10 05:10 PM
Ok who wants to school me on how to post a picture in a reply?? I wanna play!! :wink:

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Thu 06/17/10 04:59 PM
I saw it. Fell asleep halfway through it and didn't bother to finish it.

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Thu 06/17/10 04:52 PM


Wow.
And that is all I am going to say.
Oh there are plenty of things I COULD say.
But I won't.
Just wow.


Don't be shy!flowerforyou flowerforyou


Not being shy. I want to keep my posting abilities.

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Thu 06/17/10 04:34 PM

btw, like the new pic.


. . .


Thanks

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Thu 06/17/10 04:12 PM

Okay, I guess I'll be honest here... boobs. Then the eyes, or smile. Just so you know, I tested this theory out on your picture. :smile:


At least you're honest about it :wink:

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Thu 06/17/10 04:05 PM
No snakes, no spiders, no gerbils, no ant farms. And especially not all together. *shudders*

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Thu 06/17/10 03:55 PM
Edited by VacantDreamer on Thu 06/17/10 03:55 PM
Whats the first thing you notice about someone?

I realize this is probably boring, but I'm curious :wink: