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Love Scammers
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They must get somebody to give them money but how can anyone be that dumb?
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Love Scammers
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I had one I played with him for awile. It was fun till he figured out he was getting nothing from me. So he left me alone ditto |
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SEX OVER FIFFTY
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Wow I never got that memo. Like it more now than when I was able to get preggers for sure.
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What's Your Gripe?
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Ticks me off you can pay into the social security system all your working life but if you die with out next of kin they don't have to pay a death benifit. Don't think anybody should have to pay for something they can't collect.
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Is it better to say nothing
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At times you may sound a fool to some but maybe they don't get the whole picture.
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"Can't earn money in an honorable way." What a crock. At least in the USA. If you want to work you can find work. It might not be glamorous and you might have to work long hours to make a lot but if you are willing to follow the system you can get help to help yourself pull yourself up the ladder. FOr some it is just easier to spread their legs.
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Is It Ever Okay To Lie?
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Tell the truth. It is easier to remember.
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Frustration
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Wow you sure had your angels today. I think I would get the message and stop smoking and get a safer mode of transportation guy. Glad you made it home.
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Oh Holy Mother of God
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This whole insurance medical stuff is a mess. I think we have to start getting our Elected Officials on the stick and fix this. It doesn't make sense they are closeing all the public hospitals and clinics and you can't get insurance with pre-existing. Now even if you are on state medical they don't do dental. Stupid because if we could get preventive care it would be a whole lot cheaper.
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Oh Holy Mother of God
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Having congestive heart failure or a stroke from and unattended dental infection poisoning the delicate heart muscle would be a lot more expensive. Yeah, I understand. At the same time I MAKE UNDER 15,000 A YEAR. I just picked up a second job. Okay, I need to cool off. sorry, I get irritated when people don't understand. Actually I do understand. I have been fighting the same problem for years and I am far from rolling in the dough. I support two on what you have. I could probably give you some hints on making ends meet. |
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Love
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Love is when you shed a tear and still want him, it's when he ignores you and you still love him, it's when he loves another girl but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you really do is cry. Yep, this is all true! That sounds more like self pity than love. |
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Photo will do for the small version but looks grubbie on your profile.
Text of your profile is ok if you are wanting to chat someone up. Don't see it gives much information. The other shots are ok if you are trying to promote tourism for Austrailia but I don't see how it does anything to move forward any interest in you. Which is kind of the reason to be here. |
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Which Picture should I use?
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Profile pictures have two purposes.
The lead shot is to sell your face. The other shots are to sell your interests and make you look like a fun guy to get to know. Remember your market. You are not showing off your toys to the boys. You are trying to impress a woman you have interests and a life you can share with her. |
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The lead photo is very personable. Text is a little over the top. All the lovey dovey stuff sounds romantic but a little info about what life would be like with you makes more sense. Some of the body photo's are overstateing the obvious and a little cheesy.
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Cold shower..............
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Now you know what he had on his mind.
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How do you feel?
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I've felt love, and happiness...I don't recall feeling hate, though I'm sure I did when I was younger (Post Truamatic). I don't feel emotional pain, hurt, or sadness. I simply feel content most of the time, every once in awhile I laugh...otherwise I'm content. They call it ataraxia but it isn't completly accepted medically, either way it really does suck. I lack sympathy, compassion, and passion all at once. Makes friendship difficult to keep, I don't have a problem making friends...I just have issues communicating emotions, or I'm simply emotionless. I don't have memories, dreams, or aspirations. I don't set goals, or timelines for completion of something. I don't walk the same line most people do...I don't really care too. I'm smart, but am far too logical, and I have creativity. I write, draw, and create music...but at the same time it is just for fun. I exist solely for survival and happiness, this works for me, but I don't like the fact that I can't feel what other people can. I've gone through my last resort on more than one occasion, and came out walking. I've held the power of many people, in the small steps I took in life...I lived when I was supposed to die, walked when I was supposed to be a vegetable...and it all doesn't matter as I can't regain that same strength or drive. Why can't I feel basic emotions anymore? I feel detached from everyone and at the same time I can't change it, my brain just doesn't respond...I'm sure it used too, I'm confident it did. After my accident I just don't feel, much at all...I wish I could again, it seems like it is fun for a lot of people even if some of the feelings at times are terrible, it is a learning experience none the less...one I'm not sure I will ever learn. How can I feel again? A person's core has and amazing ability to protect itself from what it percieves as a threat. If some of the emotions you block now were a threat it just survival to block them out. When you find a place you feel safe you will start testing the waters. Take the time you need to heal. It will come when you least expect it. |
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Dang if it gets were what; a couple months survival money, is all it takes to get in my britches I hope I sew it up and throw in the towel.
My body is all I have that nobody else can own I be Dam* if I am going to sell it out from under myself and make myself a slave to the almight dollar. Sex is only a symbol of that gift I have to show the person I want that it is them that I want. Pass it around it around like a handshake then what is beautiful and pleasureable becomes not a lot more than any other bodily function. To me sex should be more than relief. |
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Dont know where to put this
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Honey pick the seeds out of this lemon and just make lemonaid.
Sounds like you had a guardian angel that was looking out for you to find out about this jerk. Give her a high five and rock on. So you got yourself a passport. Great one more thing out of the way if you get a shot at a job that travels or take a class that goes somewhere exciteing. They are offered at community colleges. So you threw out some things. Lord knows you are young you will replace with newer and better more than likely. Or really didn't need them in the first place. As you can see you are not the first and sure won't be the last that gets stung by a romance. Compared to most you just got your feelings hurt. Do yur dilligence and make sure you change your passwords and whatever you can to make sure this guy can't access your identiy or credit. You might want to check yourself before you start useing dramatic phrases about wanting to die. Someone might take you seriouse and give you a very uncomfortable "little vacation" at your local mental health facility. With that on your "redcord" you really will have something to boo hoo about. |
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Prepared
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Sometimes it is hard to see the forest for the trees. People might like you but you don't even notice.
Lot of times I think it is more about just finding out you are ok as you are and owning that without getting belligerent about it (not saying you specificlly) and then keep putting it out there often enough to let someone trip across it. Sometimes the trying to be and individual our self definition can be so criptic that other people don't get it. I personally find you a really nice guy. Not in the creepy cyber way but the way that if I knew a friend I would hook you up. I think your self image is way way more negative than anyone else sees you. You have a great sense of humor and you are fair in how you assesss situations except the ones you factor yourself in. All I can say is maybe you need to see what we see in you. And take that to the world a little bit. You can talk to this coputer sponge until it sucks you dry. Fine if you need a time out but just make it a recess not a way of life. You are way to young and way to cool for that. |
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Looks never really have done it for me. Maybe because I learned early that pretty is is not always as pretty does. Or that money can only polish a rotten apple so much.
What I find attracting my attention, for me, is a person's "tempo" and their "voice". That is why I am having such a difficult time to be attracted to the men in my area. The speech patterns here are much faster and it seems like a lower voice is very rare. It must be a competative location because the men either seem frantic to meet or have totally given up. I am surprised more people aren't useing the voice recognition software. It is awesome. As much as I post I would have carpal tunnel for sure. lol |
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