Personally I don't think there is a thing wrong with nice.

It isn't something you advertise as self assigned. Women like to draw that conclusion themself rather than have you dictate it to them.

This profile doesn't tell a woman a thing about you except you contradict yourself. None of the photo's are flattering. You might want to try again. List some interests. Get a photo smileing.

Stop advertiseing your failures in judgement in dateing. No woman wants to follow a crazy.

Fear is really a nice guy (Honey you know I mean that in the good way) he just does the weird to death because he is bored; I think. Now do I give you Cary Nation's ax or later Fear?

You can learn a lot about people from their angry rambeling.

Anyone will vent now and then but if it is too repetative you got to wonder.

Goes both genders. Both can be bitter ect. some I think just get worn down.

Some just talk them self into what they get used to and sometimes it is habitual single. Easier to save face by saying you like being alone.

You can take leaves that drop off to most nurshery's or your state's grange office and find out if you have a pest or fungus that may be eating on your plant. While they like humidity you don't want to drown them letting water pool around their feet/roots. I personally use filtered water on my plants and dried banana peels and fertilizer and that works pretty good for me.

I have been waiting for this post.

Roberta you look fantastic! So glad to see you doing it with grace and style.

Makes me feel all warm and like the world is gonna make it.

I challenge all Mingle family that think this is and awesome thing to think of at least one person you know and do something similar that you can afford. Sometimes the smallest things give people hope.

You can also go to Habitat For Humanity Restore and buy a toilet for about 10-25cents on the dollar of a new one.

And check out a book from the public library for free. Sometimes even video's.

I do recommend going to a high traffic store if you are going to buy a wax ring seal because if it is old inventory it will not work as well. A good seal is very important if you do not want water damage in your floor.

If you are in a rental property I would not recommend changeing more than the ball and flapper without written permission of the landlord. You mess it up you can be evicted and sued for damages.

Also you can not put intact fixtures in your trash. If you decide to break them up do so very carefully because the porcelean shards can be razor sharp.

Well I would never be so extream to shave my head but can say I really regret having my long hair cut short. Never do it again. Thank God it is finally long enough for a ponytail again.

If a guy uses any part of his body includeing hair to be a sexy lover more power to him. Last I heard soap and water does the same to hair that it does to skin. If a guy is not "fresh" all over you can forget romance.

That is just so wrong on so many levels. You want to pay tribute to an entertainer there seems to be a more dignified way than that.

It depends what looks good on the person. Long hair/facial hair can be great on some guys; others just makes them look lazy or nasty or accentuates their worst features. Good hair=good hair; bad hair= well might be part of what is stalling a social life. LOL that actually applys to women too but usually I don't notice them so much. Kind of think avoiding the idea that hair is a costume makes sense to me.

Thinking about you all today...looking at a THINGSREMEMBERED.COM catalog. Some pretty stuff. Unusual double locket and waterglobes.

I don't know about anyone else but when someone comes on with complaints about their choices, plural, I figure they need to fine tune their selection process more than casting a shadow on everyone on line.

I tend to believe very little that I read on line until I have the reality to compare for validity but you don't have to be rude about it. The old actions speak louder than words give people the time to prove themself before you get serious.

Always cringe when they tell how sensual they are. Delete lol

Stop beating yourself up for being bummed. Break ups, even for cause, are tough. Have a good cry and pamper yourself a little without going overboard.

Try to focus on the fact that you can love; not who you loved, and now have faced the facts about. It is part of a learning curve. If the Ex can move on so can you. Who he is with is no slight to you.

What worked best for me was figureing out a place I wanted to be and going there. School is never a bad choice and gives you a temporary new residence and circle of friends. Be surprised how out of site helps with out of mind. Things are easier than you might think to replace so ditch the memorbilia and move forward. Staying busy and having fun is very theraputic. I am not necessarily saying becomeing a Hardy Party but a little fun does wonders for the self esteem.

Tons of new friends to move forward with here.

You are as welcome to input as much as the next. Wheather people respond is really luck of the draw more than anything. You can be funny or serious or anything inbetween and someone will probably notice and eventually get back to you. If people don't it is probably because they don't "feel at home" with you. That comes with exposure.

For some unknown reason I am getting repeats on my mutual match. Doesn't seem to matter if I say no or yes they will loop back up.

I don't know what happen to the community groups that used to get together and throw dances, bbq's, book sales, community clean up days, holiday parties for special populations and promote them to fund their charities but that used to be a big part of dateing. These groups used to act as hosts and introduce people but it also was not a big deal who you went with but that you showed up and made and effort to have fun and be social. It seems to have gone the way of white sidewall tires. lol

Oh Hang now I am going to be craveing an apple kruller all day!

I would just relax about it and think positively. She talked to you any length of time she was probably mildly interested and will drift back through. People are generally kind of creatures of habit. Show back up around the same time for a while and see if you can chat some more. If it is ment to be it will happen.

LOL Krup everybody loves you Darlin. Don't think it has anything to do with being gay or straight. You have a good Fourth of July?