Community > Posts By > PacificStar48
Hotcakes mix. (Southern term for pancakes)
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I don't see the average girl in your age range thinking they should run the other way just looking at you. A smile always improves face value. You are not that unlike my son and he snagged a lot of attention on his looks alone; especially when he added a couple more years and had a job. It is tough being a student but stay in school it will definitely make you more attractive on many levels. I would be hard pressed to say what younger women would find stylish but I would stick with the clean shaven face and ditch the hat and sunglasses. Don't flatter your features and makes people wonder if you have hair. I will say don't give up; hang out around other students and be pleasant and you will have plenty of opportunity for dates.
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Prayers for the Princess
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Thanks so much. I really appreciate it.
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Prayers for the Princess
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I would like to request Prayers for and elderly lady I affectionately call the Princess. She has given a great deal to society as a hard working professional woman and volunteer. At times exhibiting tremendous courage and compassion for others. She is now resting peacfully in a hospital tonight after being moved out of the second MediCal funded nurseing home to give her substandard care. Please pray that the decisions that are made in her behalf help her and make her remaining days safe and comfortable and stress free until the Lord takes her home.
Wouldn't hurt my feelings a bit if you throw in a few prayers for my elderly Dad and myself as we are exhausted and frightened that the system is too broken to take care of her with the resources we have. Thanks now to the Mingle family that has always stepped up for those who need their prayers and friendship. |
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Sorry you got played. Not a lot of fun.
It happens to women too. Guy plays the romantic gentleman and then when you call their bluff they evaporate like water on a hot car. Some even have fake pictures they send and addresses but when you look them up they are never there or have any of a million excuses. Most are married or divorced and think because they have employers or enough resources of their own to pay for cell phones, accompanied travel, and sometimes even alternate addresses that they can woo women into relationships that will go no where. Too bad since you get burned it makes you question wheather it is even worth the effort. |
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A few.
"Attitude" doesn't help your odds though. |
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pedophile/pop star
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No sane person approves of the abuse of a child but it has to be proved and unfortuneately that was not done.
Would I allow my child; desperately ill or not, to spend the night with a star or any other stranger? No. But if you are poor and think it might be the one magical moment in their life and you have a host of "do gooder's" pressureing you to make your child's dream come true (and were promised supervision) maybe you would be too intimadated into saying no. The sad fact is society pays lip service to the saftey of children from preditors. We do little or nothing to screen adults access to cildren. If you try to keep your child out of mainstream activities such as sleep overs, summer camp, school trips, showering at a sports facility, even useing a public bathroom because we let convicted preditors loose in society you are seen as the crazy one stunting their normal social developement. |
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Close Proximity
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It is probably the the fact that celebrities tend to act as datelines in our own lives and make us think about our own mortality.
Ed is my father's age or there abouts. Someone who I think lost his home and probably needed the checks he passed out as desperately as those who also hope for them. Farrah a little older than myself. A parent of an addicted child and a cancer fatality I am sure she has many people who identify with her. Michael the perfect example of someone who spent most of his life and assests, including some you and I will get to pay for, trying to mold himself into what he mistakenly thought would get him the attention/approval he couldn't get from the people he wanted but every other person who bought into the hype who died before his time for the self abuse and maybe a disability that contributed to his self mutilation. While most of us would not want to identify with the pain celebrities suffer that they do have our miseries inspite of their fame feeds the curiosity. Maybe it is the small comfort that in all their beauty and money even they don't escape human frailities of life. |
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What a woman think?
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While it sounds good to occasionally continue a relationship with a child you became attached to, and she you, considering the relationship you have to cope with I am not sure it is in the best interest of the child. A decision a court could easily come to if a "crazy" Mother was aggitated by a new girlfriend in her Ex's life.
Maybe that is unfair but it would make you a man I would avoid dating. |
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Picking Grapes in Houston
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Sounds like savy marketing. Think of all the free PR and community support they get even if the free labor is miniscule.
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Close Proximity
Edited by
PacificStar48
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Fri 06/26/09 11:09 AM
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Yet most people forget about our soldiers that are away from their families risking their lives & getting killed, you don't see the kind od media coverage like MJ is getting.........it's sad! So true. Or policeman or fireman, or school teachers, or people working the nightshift at a convienence store to keep their families off welfare. What is obscene to me is the millions of dollars of debt that will be passed on to the people who actually work for a living by the "Jackson empire". |
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terrible names
Edited by
PacificStar48
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Fri 06/26/09 10:49 AM
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I figure if someone resorts to calling names in and arguement they are very limited in their reasoning or maybe just faceing facts about you. Kind of depends on the names and if they are true. If the recipient is not very bright, selfish, unfaithful, poor performer sexually or what ever you can not expect an angery mate to state so in such mild tones. Verbal abuse on the other hand is and excellent warning to end a relationship.
Extream verbal abuse is almost always a very good predictor that physical abuse or other submissive aggressive abuse is coming. Such as wasteing your money, or property, or cheating on you. Why wait around for someone to escallate. Cut your losses and end the relationship. |
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Bum Dialing
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Not false dialed anyone but invariably changeing the volume on the ringer so it is messed up. Makes you wonder what kind of genius designs phones.
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Farrah Fawcett
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I think the burning bead did more for bringing domestic violence forward than many things and millions of family should be grateful.
I have to wonder how the fame wrecked her family life. True each person makes their own choices but it seems that this son has had problems for many years. |
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Your story is my biggest fear because I know one day that is exactly what is going to happen to someone so dear to me.
He was warned by co-woorkers he was marrying a woman he should not be involved with but she was young, pretty, available, and he was lonely and wanted a family. She was pregnant immediately. A bridezilla and neglectful angry Mother she has made all kinds of excuses for fighting with everyone from her family, his, neighbors, bussinesses, employers, and her children's playmates, teacher's, even doctors. She lives on the computer. If anyone crosses her they are likely to be flipped the bird, sworn at, spit on, slapped on, hair pulled, pinched, punched, flopped on, or threatened. He is terrified she will take his kids if he divorces her. She keeps him peniless and and alienated every friend he has. He makes excuses for her rough behavior with the children because he wants them to be able to defend themselves. One child is incredibly submissive and the other a bully. Yes this is a dateing site and I have not read the OP's profile but you talk to friends or employer you are likely to be shut out. For a man to find a program who will support him is nearly impossible. I don't know what the solution is because it is not like people who conduct themselves show the whole bad self and they become masterful in making excuses and finding a reason to move when their behavior becomes noticed. As a retired social worker I can tell you it is extreamly difficult to document. |
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Mail Order Brides
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so I hear that in Alaska the ratio is like 10 men to 1 women I think I am moving When I went to Tacoma in the 80's it was about five employed men to one woman and they really knew the odds and treated women with respect because of it. I am not sure that made my husband make a bigger effort because he had been a dyed in the wool bachelor that said he would never marry until he retired his military career. "Guess when it is right it is right." was what he often told friends. |
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Just Be Friends
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I would not do it. One or the other maybe even both are going to end up having feelings that will mess things up. What do you do if you new mate is naturally uncomfortable about you hanging out with a past lover? Too complicated for me.
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pedophile/pop star
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You can really dislike a person's personal choices and still admire their craft and the many people who worked for and profit from enjoying it.
If the artist in question has done, and more importantly been convicted of, the crimes he is accused of then tie up his assets for the victims makes sense. However boycotting the product; or thinking people who enjoy the decent things he did are weird or supporting his terrible actions does not make sense to me. That is like blameing a child produced by a rape a rapist. Fine to loath this kind of criminal but you can not make evil people suffer by spreading the misery to their family, friends, coworkers, or employees. |
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Flirting......
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Roses are red violets are blue, i have a list of things that i would like to do to you ![]() Not sure what happened Pats... I thought your poem was hot! It rhymed and everything ![]() mods are SEXY! am i allowed to say that? ![]() ... ![]() nine out of ten nigerian scaammers find me extremely attracive..i just need five thousand bucks to earn my millions.. Didn't they want to meet you so bad so they could get married? Honey your slipping. Oh yea Mods w Mustaches are sexy. lol |
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complicated
Edited by
PacificStar48
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Thu 06/25/09 12:51 AM
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Your asking here it is likely you know this relationship is REALLY going to COMPLICATE both of your lives.
That you say you met her when she was Drunk should be a red flag. You really need that kind of relationship? You are single now and probably lonely but don't fantasize something that was no go in your teens as a possibility now just because you are feeling down and she gave you the eye when she was loaded. It means nothing. Chances are you are going to make a fool of yourself and ruin a friendship. You want to date someone you might ask this long term friend to introduce you to someone nice who isn't a drinking buddy. |
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