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Believing my Ex would be a good father because he looked like a loving Uncle. If I would have waited longer to get pregnant I would have left him before I had children.

Well looks alone won't get me to eat it but it sure could stop me from eating it. Thus the old saying you eat with your eyes first so it is important that presentation is good.

Well with women's superior intelligence and intuition we really don't need to speak to men to know what they are up to. Any of you gentlemen want some Oleander tea?

Funny Post but yes I can cook and like the fast and easy stuff that looks/tastes great the best.

That would sound like a really good reason to go see a urologist and make sure your plumbing is working. If you find a problem it is much better to find it early when it can be fixed.

If it takes 3-5 beers to urinate which you should be doing several times a day that is a LOT of beer. Might want to check yourself about being addicted to alcohol. Just because you are still functioning day to day doesn't mean you don't have a problem.

That would sound like a really good reason to go see a urologist and make sure your plumbing is working. If you find a problem it is much better to find it early when it can be fixed.

If it takes 3-5 beers to urinate which you should be doing several times a day that is a LOT of beer. Might want to check yourself about being addicted to alcohol. Just because you are still functioning day to day doesn't mean you don't have a problem.

That would sound like a really good reason to go see a urologist and make sure your plumbing is working. If you find a problem it is much better to find it early when it can be fixed.

If it takes 3-5 beers to urinate which you should be doing several times a day that is a LOT of beer. Might want to check yourself about being addicted to alcohol. Just because you are still functioning day to day doesn't mean you don't have a problem.

Of course now you know this is a myth.

It is pretty good. Think deleteing the first part of the next to the last sentence might improve the vibe. You sound like a good guy so hope you meet some of Mingle's best. More pictures wouldn't hurt especially if you have a bigger smile.

Welcome. You hang around you will feel more at home and the regulars will start to be recognizeable. Good Luck.

Develope a personal relationship that compliments both our lives.

Pursue my business interests.

Build a home on Blackberry Hill.

I have a hard time figureing out what is so difficult about an introduction. Not like it is rocket science.

" Dear (Screen name),
I enjoyed reading your profile. Something we have in common
is ( ).
I have had a good day (doing?).
I hope to hear from you soon. (Screen name)

Hit the nail on the head here. Some guys think what they are saying is a compliment and in any other venue it would be a "cat call" or direct insult, or at least sexual harrassment. That women choose to ignore these emails sounds generouse to me.

I would be interested to see what 2108 might look like to the imagination of Mingler's. What they think might be?

Your profile tells a potential date virtually nothing.

You repeat your age and where you live which is already known.

Then a bunch of esoterical ideals but nothing about who you are. Where you live? What you like. What you would enjoy doing on a date.

Don't think you said anything about what kind of woman you are interested in.

You say you are active and positive and in most of your pictures you are sitting and not even smileing.

You say your are in sales. Think about yourself as a product and tell women what your features are and how you are going to enhance their life.

That is why I always stockpile groceries on the shorter months and buy staples like flour, beans, rice, and a few canned meats. Having the groceries has saved my budget from unexpected expenses many times.

I am a niteowl. I would rather do just about anything late at night. Can't wait for Wal-Mart to put in there new superstore so I can shop really late. Do a lot of crafts late because my Dad is in bed out of my hair.

Trust is something I think no one is entitled to.

If it is someone wants trust from me they have to earn it.

If they come to the table with a good track record they start even with the boards but if it is shakey then they don't have a lot of hope I am going to waste time on them. Maybe that seems hard but I made the sacrifices to have a good record and I don't see why I have to give someone a "do over".

I also think I have to take some responsibility for the Privilege someone gets with my trust. I am not going to go behind someone every time to see that they are trustworthy but they need to expect that I will occasionally check. And that there are just some lines they better not cross because the cost is carved in stone.

I think I need to trust myself too. If you become so vunerable that your life crashes when one person you trust lets you down I feel like you are being lazy and handing over your saftey. I don't feel like I have to give so much of myself over that I would be that vunerable.

A lot of it is below sea level. It doesn't snow here but it does less than 100 miles away. Roses bloom all year around.