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Sun 02/15/09 08:15 PM




This picture makes me furious! While this picture can be harmless a parent needs to think about what could happen. And angry grandparent and or non-custodial parents have a free pass more or less to step in.

It is nearly impossible to guess how much and infant can gulp in a matter of seconds. By the time you are aware how much your child coule get very close to accute alcohol poisoning.

As little as 1/4 cup of beer can cause permenent brain damage, seisures, kidney and liver failure which will cause clubbing of the fingers, vomiting, and convulsions. It can profoundly delay developement and cause cognitive failures. Failures that are undistinguishable from Autism. It can definitely affect balance and result in falls against the soft sides of the skull. .

If your child is hospitalized or seen by a helping professional and alcohol is on their breath they are definitely going to do a tox screen. Among extensive and expensive other tests. And the likelyhood of your child immediately going into Protective Services is very Good. You will not get visitation or even kiss your child good by.

You will be ordered to pay child support to the state. And the hospital is not going to mess around about going after the bill while you still have some assets left. It is possible any other children and pets will be turned over to Protective services or the Humane Society often the later to be put down.

You will have to get your own lawyer. It is highly likely that you will be arrested and charged with child neglect and abuse. Your face might or might not make the evening news but you will find your friends will drop away like leaves in a strong wind. Everyone in jail will know what you have been charged with even if you are not convicted. A search warrent will be issued and the the police will go to your home. If they find these pictures, unsecured lighters, out of date medications, paraphanila, pot, a dirty diaper, unsecured firearms, spoiled food the list of charges will get longer and longer.

If it establishes a pervasive pattern that would give many states what they need to fast track your infant out of the fostercare system and into an adoptive home before the childs developemental disabilities can be documented and the child might no longer be viable for adoption.

It will be made clear to Grandparents or siblings that even if they take custody that they are going to be jumping through hoops and have catestrophic expenses. With how the courts are backed up you can bet it will be a good two plus years before you can even hope to get your kid back. By then they will have been through a series of placements and could be placed as far away as possible and still be in state borders. Foster Care is and industry in poorer counties. Some of the homes are bi-lingual and your baby will probably not recognize you if they still recognize English. Infants in foster care often are put in state supported Daycare which means they get very little card and or affection. Useually they regress.

If you have a car or home you can pretty much guarantee to loose it for legal fees. A convicted child abuser you can pretty much count on haveing severe difficulty being hired again. You will be in jail long enough to loose your job. Most of the times spouses will abandon their rights which makes it even eaiser to take your child.

If you think I am being harsh or reactionary you are conning yourself. Children go into the system and can stay there until they are shipped out to the military at 18. Most don't graduate high school. By then grandparents can have died off or gone to nurseing care and the child will not be assisted in finding any of their family. In affect one careless act can cause your child to experience the entire social genocide of their family.

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Sun 02/15/09 06:47 PM



She got a medium brown, that's right isn't it, gypsy?
yes medium brown but dont have any other tones to it.

<-hairstylist for 20 years specializing in colour correction.


I don't mean to get off-topic, but I have a question for you Gypsy that I keep getting conflicting answers about.

I've always read that pregnant women should not dye their hair. Recently, I just read that it's okay and that no research has been found to cause harm to the baby by doing this.

The smell alone, which doesn't seem that strong not pregnant, can make you vomit violently.

So what's your opinion?

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Sun 02/15/09 06:47 PM



She got a medium brown, that's right isn't it, gypsy?
yes medium brown but dont have any other tones to it.

<-hairstylist for 20 years specializing in colour correction.


I don't mean to get off-topic, but I have a question for you Gypsy that I keep getting conflicting answers about.

I've always read that pregnant women should not dye their hair. Recently, I just read that it's okay and that no research has been found to cause harm to the baby by doing this.

The smell alone, which doesn't seem that strong not pregnant, can make you vomit violently.

So what's your opinion?

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Sun 02/15/09 06:33 PM
Yea now days Proms are too expensive with Limo's and Banquets and Hotel Ball Rooms. What ever happen to free dances at the Armory where the girls came by the carload and the guys filled the bed of a pickup.

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Sun 02/15/09 06:21 PM
Dateing someone "Seperated" is emotional suicide. They aren't really ready to move on and you are getting walking wounded. I know there will be a lot of people who will come up with every excuse about how it doesn't apply to them. But; if you talk to them 2-3 years after the divorce is final, they will tell you it is right.

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Sun 02/15/09 06:01 PM
Depends on the height of the woman how it looks but the pounds are the pounds. Of cource knocks me out how guys lie about their height. And they have enough dunlap it is hard to see their belt.

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Sun 02/15/09 05:51 PM

Now THERE'S a thought! Have guys post pictures of themselves wearing their tuxes! :laughing: Lots of us have stood up in weddings and such.

But I ain't goin' first.
noway


Ooooooh Nothing makes a gal hot like a guy in a TUX.

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Sun 02/15/09 05:39 PM
Only seems fair if you run over my Easter Bunny! WAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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Sun 02/15/09 05:31 PM

That green M&M guy!!! blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing blushing


You know what they used to mean?

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Sun 02/15/09 05:27 PM
OMG Only One?????

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Sun 02/15/09 05:23 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sun 02/15/09 05:24 PM
That means you have to buy me Chocolates this year then Peccy

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Sun 02/15/09 05:20 PM
EEEEEEK that would be embarrassing.

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Sun 02/15/09 05:04 PM
Sing I bet you were so pretty.

Rare I figured you would wear one of those tuxudo T-shirts or major decked out with your long hair.

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Sun 02/15/09 04:58 PM
With how many people seem to know each other I figured you got a chance for a Do Over you would take a Mingler...lol...what party poohs.

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Sun 02/15/09 04:53 PM
Now see I would have thought you all would be great fun at Prom?

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Sun 02/15/09 04:47 PM

ijust want a woman who doesnt remember when i was huge cause i'm not going back


Probably a haircut, updated eyeglass frames, better photo, a divorce.

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Sun 02/15/09 04:41 PM
Who would you ask to Spring Prom?

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Sun 02/15/09 04:40 PM
His, Her's, or a hotel this year?

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Sun 02/15/09 04:38 PM
Advertised on Mingle.

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Sun 02/15/09 04:37 PM
A "no I didn't chop down the cherry tree whopper you told your folks?

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