You are very right but also can be really tough on single Dad's so wish both a great holiday and hope that you will turn to your friends when you need us.

The taller the better. If I put on heels I am easily 6'. A petite guy would have a face full. lol.

The guy who plays Sully on Third Watch OMG makes me weak in the knees.

So why can't anyone come up with better male birthcontrol?

Better Her than me! I make pretty babys but if I did it now it would be front page news. Hope you have a wonderful time enjoying this with your sister. If you want some idea's for a baby shower hit me up.

For a pushy broad you aren't going to believe it but I really wait for the guy to make that kind of move.

Actually there is. It is called Emotions Anonomous. Or Greif counseling.

I can do the whole nine yards that seems required in some situations. It is even fun to put on the ritz once in a while.

But when I feel intimate I rarely wear lipstick or gloss. Want all things that are not us gone.

It feels so gross and the taste I would think would be such a turn off.

When I kiss I want that wonderful feeling of being touched.

Somehow not feeling like I am slideing off his mouth or pasteing a wash off tatoo on him would be distracting when I want to make a memory that lasts to thrill over and over.

Well that would be fine if he were writing for an Editor. Perhaps he is speaking to another heart he thinks is listening. I find the thoughts interesting in their tempo and insight even if it is not perfected.

Thank God I am retired.

Not in California! Would lay off 'ole Arrrnold if we could.

Hopeing this is a great day for all. ..............(((((HUGS)))))

My opinion is that women are probably not unlike myself.

They want a man who is truthful.

If I ask my partner do I look fat in this dress I am looking for information not ego strokeing. Does it look like the button or zipper is straining? Is it bunching up over my butt? Is my bust looked pinched in? Is the hem hitting where it compliments the shape of my leg? Or is it just snug enough you think it looks sexy?

True a man may not be well versed in all these factors but he does know what he likes and if the dress is not all that flattering it is nice to know. If I am making and effort to look good 95% of it is because I want it to reflect positively on both of us.

Yes it is nice if you can use a little tact with your opinion but how hard is it to say "Yes it is not the most flattering fit but I like the color and I think it will be fine for tonight."

If I ask my husband does he want to go to the store during a football game I want and honest answer there too. I may have no clue how the game is going, or I may know that his supper is going to be very late, or he won't have a lunch the next day if he waits to go and the store is closed. How hard is it to just ask if it is urgent? Or explain this is a really good game he has a bet on. She asked she didn't order him to do it. If she is pissed the likelyhood is the husband doesn't get that she needs his help.

I think the real thing most spouses are more worried about is are they getting straight answers on issues they are vunerable too. Cheating, money problems, unequal household or parenting responsibilitys, health issues. It is kind of hard to play the cards you are delt if you don't know if you got all the cards on the table. Trust is eroded one word and one action at a time for me.

I don't want some one to pretend to love me or agree to do something then be griting his teath at me and resents what he is doing.

I suppose that is possible but generally a stalker forces unwelcome attention and continues to pursue when told to stop.

They listen to a long story.

They are concerned if you are thirsty, hungry, or tired.

They seemed relieved when you set next to them.

They know how you drink your coffee.

You tell them you like a shirt they wear it again.

They call and see if you made it home.

They care if you wear your seatbelt.

They introduce you to people.

They ask what you like on the radio.

They suggest something they are going to do with you in the future.

They tell you things about their school age friends.

Their eyes smile when they look at you.

They will step between you and a threatening situation.

They stock the kind of food only you eat.

They keep distance between you and any borderline friends or co-workers that might be upsetting.

They will linger when it is time to seperate.

They ask about people you care about.

If it is raining they want to get the car or hold you close under the umbrella.

They like to see the two of you in a mirror.

They want to have firsts with you. ........

Come on honey I can die a happy woman. lol

I always get a complete name and address. And put it in my home calendar. Then if something comes up I need to know I have it. I figure someone who does not want to give me that probably has something to hide; usually a spouse and I don't need to go out with them.

It is kind of a kick in the butt to people to remember that love is nice and it's ok to express it. Good way to re-invigorate dud relationships. Great time to stock up on stuff to do weddings. Even if you don't have a love in your life it does make you remember that you can feel it.