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Mon 02/16/15 07:56 AM

I'm surprised at how many men say they have read my profile yet I clearly state I'm not interested in older men. And I get 5 out of six msg from guys in their 50s or 60s saying how they liked my profile n want to chat with me....really?

You can easily set your Mingle2 filter to specify an age filter. Google how to set an age filter for Mingle2 and then you can get the information. That way when someone over the age tries to contact you, they will be blocked. No feelings will be hurt and you don't have to have the inconvenience to tell them that you are not interested.

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Sun 02/15/15 01:23 PM

Older women are the ones that are mature, less bitchy, more adventurous, sexy, spontaneous, beautiful, will have tried or want to try new things, and most importantly are so much easier to get along with!!!:heart_eyes::heart_eyes:

Older, younger who cares. I would be happy with one with a pulse.

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Sun 02/15/15 01:18 PM

HELLO, IF YOU LIVE IN THE TAMPA BAY AREA, AND ITS SURROUNDING COUNTIES, STOP IN HERE AND SAY HIflowerforyou flowerforyou

LET'S SEE HOW MANY PEOPLE ON JSH, ARE IN THE TAMPA BAY AREAflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I'M HERE, AND SO IS RAE ( FALLENANGEL4U )

I live in Tampa, I totally love Tampa. 813 is a great area code. I imagine there are better places to be. I just don't know where. Definitely a lot of nice people here, traffic can be fun though.

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Sun 02/15/15 12:58 PM

How do I remove someone from my Mutual Match list?
If clicking on the wee box next to their name on your
MutualMatch list does not remove them, you can use this:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/delete_connection/XXXXXXX
where the 'Xs' represent their user-number.

To get their user-number, it is the last digits on their
profile page in the address box, replace the 'Xs' with those.

If you do not have an address bar, right click on their
(deactivated) user-name on their profile, click on 'Properties'
on the drop-down menu, and take the user-number from the URL
(link) provided.

Are matches real? No offense, but I have gotten 28, with no views and no mail. I am really suspicious. Especially since when I went totally honest.

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Sun 02/15/15 12:38 PM
Edited by Cracker813 on Sun 02/15/15 12:38 PM

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Sun 02/15/15 12:31 PM
Well the big 5 0 is coming up. Won't be here. I wish you all the best and I hope that you all find love.

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Sun 02/15/15 12:21 PM
Edited by Cracker813 on Sun 02/15/15 12:25 PM
I really feel your pain. I really do. I have had the same experience. I feel your pain so much that I could not even fathom making fun of you. I had the same experience pretty much since joining when I was 46. I have gotten some emails that is after constantly mining the dating sites for just friendship. I am not even looking for sex, just friendship. I have been ridiculed, mocked, and even scammed out of a couple of hundred. I went through a time of being bitter, but now have pretty much gotten over it.

For a time I thought that maybe no nice ladies would even answer these ads. So I tried an experiment. I changed my profile. I all of a sudden became a really good looking millionaire. I was blown away by the views and replies. I did tell all of the nice ladies that it was a charade. I know it is wrong to lie, but I was frustrated. After just watching a trailer for the movie "Fifty Shades of Grey" I have pretty much figured out what women want.

I have always figured it out after my charade. I have been toying with the idea of becoming a sugar Daddy. That is paying rent and utilities for some non sexual attention. When I thought about it a couple of years ago, ironically my income doubled. I now make twice what I was making when I first joined this site, so all is not lost. I also drive an almost new car and I am starting to look for my first house. Ironically I am starting to enjoy making money, it grants freedom that is not there when you are struggling. Heck I am really excited about getting a Benz, a car a few years ago that I thought was stupid and frivolous.

I used to go to strip clubs, just for attention. THAT is stupid. I don't know the answers. All I know it is extremely harder to meet a nice lady compared when my Dad and Mom met. It is extremely harder to meet a lady compared to when my Grandfather wooed my Grandmother. It seems that the expectations of a suitor is extremely high, almost impossible to reach. When my Dad married my Mom he was just a private in the Army. They are stilled married after 50 years.

What advice can I give you, well unfortunately none. None especially since I haven't had one date. Ironically when I do tell ladies on here that I am not looking for sex, almost all of them will ask if I am gay. Trust me, that hurts. I really wish you the best in your search. Take care and God bless.

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Sun 07/06/14 11:01 AM

Looking for sexy black men that like thick white women.....
No offense, but it is hard to tell what you are like through your profile. You look nice in your picture, but it is somewhat vague. You are probably nice looking and have a nice looking face, but it is somewhat hard to tell. A couple of more closer up photos would highlight your attractiveness. In your profile all you say is hi, it is hard to figure out your personality by that. Most likely you are a diamond in the rough, but it is hard to see your shine. No offense, I do wish you the best in your search.

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Sat 07/05/14 11:22 AM
Edited by Cracker813 on Sat 07/05/14 11:22 AM

HELLO, IF YOU LIVE IN THE TAMPA BAY AREA, AND ITS SURROUNDING COUNTIES, STOP IN HERE AND SAY HIflowerforyou flowerforyou

LET'S SEE HOW MANY PEOPLE ON JSH, ARE IN THE TAMPA BAY AREAflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 07/05/14 10:49 AM

Hi, yeah been on mobile site & full site. But I still won't upload :-(
I am not trying to be smart, but I would just go to my laptop. if you don't have one which is understandable with all of the phones now days, just go to a library and use their computers. I truly believe that a photo makes a big difference.

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Tue 07/01/14 06:42 AM

all you need is love. love existed before money
Dude, I was going to rip into you for a couple of comments, but what would that accomplish. Instead all I am going to do is wish you the best success in your search. First you don't know how lucky you are. You are young, nice looking women love that. There are a lot of nice younger girls your age that would love to know you. Occasionally I will write some of them and they will write back. Why they love attention. You are a gold mine. Don't give up the pursuit of making money, find something you love and figure out how to make money at it. Money is not evil, just the love of it. You could make the same comparison about cars being evil, but you don't see people giving them up to get on public transit. One other thing is please leave the mid 40's to early 50 year old women alone. That is my territory. Just kidding though, there is no territory. It is hard to compete with a fellow like you for a lady any age. Just saying that love is great and money is just a tool to trade for things.

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Mon 06/30/14 03:17 PM


Thousands go without water as Detroit cuts service for nonpayment

Welcome to the "NEW and Improved" America!

When crony corporations control the water, food, utilities, and now our healthcare... while outsourcing our jobs and enjoying tax breaks and welfare we pay for them..... this is our reward!

http://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-detroit-water-20140629-story.html#page=1
That is not fair. I mean come on, how would you like it if you went to work and weren't paid. Would you be some rich guy that was scamming society. Also down here in Florida, if you don't pay your electric bill, water, or cable bill, believe me they will cut your service. I bet if your boss stopped paying you, most likely you would sue and quit. There is a renewal in Detroit, both private and Government. The local bankrupt Government has to balance their books and that means people using their services has to start paying for their services. It is only fair.

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Mon 06/30/14 12:44 PM


What is your opinion ? If you have money and material means ? Should u date someone who dose'nt ? :smile:


Oh goodie... another topic my vast experience with men gave me the wisdom and now the opportunity to share my life's lessons over... :tongue:

Husband #1 had college education, career and money and didn't want me working, so he supported me in a fashion I became accustomed too.

Husband #2 had a high school diploma and was working, living independently when we met. After he asked me to marry him and we wed, he quit his job and relied on me to support him for the most part while he worked out at the gym daily... smokin left a bitter taste in my mouth. ohwell

Husband #3 had no high school diploma but was an extremely hard worker and we pulled together building a life we both enjoyed.

Of these three experiences, I have to admit that I enjoyed being spoiled by #1, but divorced him so I could have a career of my own.

#2 taught me that no amount of love or "good lovin" is worth taking on all the responsibility for two people to survive.

#3 once again spoiled me because I experienced what it's like to work with a partner to build a life we could both be proud of, even when we didn't so much agree personally.

With all this experience, I can honestly say that I don't want another man I have to support. I want a man to partner with so we can help each other get where we both want to go.


Wow thanks for sharing life experience. I would love to be husband number 1, a winner in life who is able to give the love of his life the life that she deserves. Husband number two if your testimony is correct, in opinion is a real loser. What kind of a man lives off his wife. If he was disabled and helped her out while she was bring home the bacon, that would be admirable, but to just quit to me that would be a loser. Unfortunately I am most likely like husband number 3, when younger I didn't embrace correction nor discipline and now I struggle to get by. Fortunately I have a decent job, with ability to work generous amounts of overtime if the chance of marriage came up. Nice thing about getting older is that you do grow up. The smart kids grew up in their teens and twenties. Bouncing off your life experience kind of illustrates my ambitions.

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Mon 06/23/14 05:51 AM

What is your opinion ? If you have money and material means ? Should u date someone who dose'nt ? :smile:
Oh give me a break. People with money have been dating people with no money forever. Numerous Sugar Daddy dating web sites. Even though it looks funny at first it is accepted. If I had a daughter, I would rather she marry someone that could support her and the grandkids than some bum with no prospect in life.




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Tue 06/17/14 08:31 PM
Edited by Cracker813 on Tue 06/17/14 08:35 PM
I have some news for you CindyLLe. Most whites share the same stock as Indians. Basically we as a people sort of came from the same place that they are now. For some reason God wanted us to migrate West which we did. Indio European is another name for whites. Also Aryan, which was revered by the Third Reich as well as the Swastika were Indian symbols. Aryan is just Sanskrit for Noble or nobleman. Until the twentieth century a lot of borders have shifted all over the world and languages have been born out of common dialects. One example is that English and Dutch are just dialects of the German language. Ironically the German Language was not really established until the printing press, and the translation of the Bible from Latin to German. If you look at a common Indian you will find his features are probably more like the white people's features than compared to the Africans or Asians. Ironically the name Caucasian came from the Caucus region of Asia, not someplace in Europe. If you are a Christian, and you literally believe the Bible, the three wise men were probably Indians.

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Tue 06/17/14 08:12 PM
As much as I support a secure border and hate illegal immigration, I cannot help feeling sorry for these youths. It is really sad that prosperity doesn't take root in those Latin American countries. I never had kids unfortunately, but I could never see sending my kid thousands and thousands of miles away just so they would have a chance of a better life. I have always hated the fact that the Government of Mexico won't secure their country, steal their resources, and basically deny their citizens the basic rights that most Americans take for granted. If it wasn't for other countries investing in Mexico, there wouldn't be any middle class, just the horribly poor and the thieves in the Government. Hopefully before I go into the ground, Mexicans will be as prosperous as the Canadians; and the Central Americans will be on their way. I don't see it with their horrible socialism. Ironically the Germans lost multitudes of people to the US before they adopted freedom.

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Tue 06/17/14 02:34 PM
When J Howard Marshall wheel chair was pushed in that strip club in Dallas. The eyes of Anna Nicole Smith met J Howard's Marshall and true love blossomed. Him being an old multi millionaire tycoon didn't really matter. Ironically I think he did it because his family truly loved him so much that they couldn't wait for him to die, so in the end he screwed them. Like in the song of Ol Frank she cried all the way to the grave that he laid, and she smiled all the way to the bank.

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Mon 05/12/14 04:22 PM
I thought this thread was for ugly people. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAsad sad

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Fri 01/18/13 07:53 PM

just curious why do u want to delete it, I am new and wondering if there is something wrong I should know about this site
Or maybe, since she is so pretty, that some lucky guy has found her and made her real happy. No offense to Mingle people, but I originally signed up so one day I would find some nice lady and would have the need to delete my account. BTW I do sincerely wish YOU the best success in finding your one.

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Fri 01/18/13 07:46 PM
Edited by Cracker813 on Fri 01/18/13 07:58 PM

Hey, I turn 40 Jan 7th.

Yay, HAPPY BIRTHDAY