I don't know, I think shutting down the borders just might be a good idea for now. Being that the biggest outbreak is in Mexico, and they aren't doing a very good job at containing it, it will at least cut down on those that are infected there from coming over here and spreading it more then what is already done.

It's okay Kim. You know, most people don't know what's involved in the process until it's too late.

Personally for me, if it got to that point, I'd have to find the cat a new home. I couldn't live with myself by putting them through that.

OMG, that sends chills up my spine every time I hear it since I now know the process. They literally remove the entire claw from the cat's paw. To me that's just cruel and inhumane.

When my brother was about 6 years old, he asked my mom for a quarter to buy candy. She said yes and told him to get it out of her purse. My grandmother seen him going in the purse and snatched him up by his ear and scolded him for it. Til this day, he will not go into any purse, no matter what the reason. He was scarred for life, lol.

But in answer to the original post, I honestly think that most men will do just about anything like that for the woman that they love. I would almost bet that they don't analyze their decision based on how their guy friends would view them for doing it. They just do it.

On the flip side of this question, I really can't think of that many things that us women would do for our man that would seem really "guyish" to the point that our female friends would say "Really?, you did that for him?".

I agree. Both are outstanding actors and yes they do have their differences but to say one is better then the other, sorry but I just can't do it!

What I can't figure out is, if you think she is stuck up or stuck on herself (however you want to put it) AND you feel like she is blowing you off like you are the scum of the earth AND when she finally did get in touch with you, you treated her rudely (your words), why are you still interested in her?

I wasn't too worried about it in the beginning, but now I'm not so sure. I hope they are making more out of it then what there really is, for everyone's sake.

I was going to suggest to go to "Settings" and then "regions" and add Scotland to your regions but it's not listed.

I guess the only other option would be to ask a moderator for assistance.

How well do you know her? Have you been around her enough to see whether or not her family is telling the truth? If not, then you never know what goes on behind closed doors and maybe she really is lazy and not putting forth the effort they think she should be.

Can someone send me the memo that was sent around on what we can and can't post on this site so as not to get people's panties in a wad, cause apparently I missed it.

Well, I guess I should just let it go.

One of my favorite sayings is "The more you stir the pot, the more it's gonna stink!".

She'll find out sooner or later, and if she doesn't then either way it really doesn't effect me in any way.

As for paternity, whether he acknowledges it when the baby is born, or if it is done by DNA testing, it will be proven that he is the father. But if he wants to waste time and put out extra money to prove it, then so be it. That's on him.

So I'm getting the consensus that:

A. If you were in her shoes, you wouldn't want to know

and

B. I should just let it go and let her find out on her own, just for my own sanity.

I'll have to check it out.

I've avoided him as much as I could during this pregnancy up until the last two weeks.

So you think I should just let her find out on her own?

As a matter of fact, I'm in the process of getting background information about him for Child Support. That information should be included. The only problem is, is if it is true, the divorce wouldn't be finalized until August as that was when they were filed.

Thanks Sherry.

Ohhhh that is just so wrong!!!

Thanks Keith!

I just found the "ex"-wife to the father of my child. I say "ex" because he told me a couple of months ago they were reconciling, but on her profile on MySpace it says that she is divorcing him. He told me a lot of other lies as well, and it makes me wonder what lies he's told to her too.

Anyway, when he told me they were getting back together, he stated that she didn't know about the baby, and that he didn't want her to know because it would mess things up between the two of them.

So do I tell her or keep her in the dark and let her find out on her own? Would you want to know? What would you do? What do you think I should do?

I am really torn as to what to do, and I can't make up my mind!

My 2 daughters and my family.