You shouldn't feel stupid. My sons always tell me I don't trust anyone, and that's not true. It's sad that we have to learn as life goes along that not everyone can be trusted. It's hard enough in person to get a "read" on people, but online I guess it's even harder. Beachfarmer is right that it's not good to go through life with your guard up, either. There's a happy medium there, and you'll find it!

I'm always very diplomatic, but if I have bad service or got food I didn't order, etc., I'll nicely bring it up, and if that doesn't work, I'm not opposed to telling management that perhaps the server I had shouldn't be working with the public. Everybody has a bad day, but some people just shouldn't be in customer service type positions. On the other side of the coin, I'm a firm believer in positive feedback, too, and when I get good service, which is most of the time, I also make sure to thank the server, and will let management know that, too.

Funny! Wonder if he has had many long term relationships, if his time is that limited

I want to live in a lighthouse in Door County, WI .

Sorry, feisty. Guess my heart has never been broken, in relationships anyway. I've been disappointed in the outcome of a few, but never been heartbroken. I always figure there are worse things that could happen than a relationship ending, ie: poor health of my kids, etc., but that's just me. I guess I've met a lot of nice people on here to chat with, so I've enjoyed that. Hope that you find someone nice!

Thanks, and hope yours is a good day, too!

I miss those days of school clothes shopping! My oldest son loved it, but my youngest son enjoyed clothes shopping about as much as I do. He was a good sport about it. I went with a friend yesterday and we shopped for her grandkids. I need a grandchild!

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I've sure never been called hardhearted. I'm the opposite! Some of it is me, but a lot of it not

Men who are honest, respectful and believe in fidelity (oh, and aren't abusers!) .

I choose one .

Negative on that .

I think I got the wrong ones, twice, and somebody must have gotten mine .

I sure hope it exists, and I believe it does!

I have a lot of acquaintances, but only a few I consider true enough friends to share everything with .

Great job! I can't carry a tune, but I sing anyway!

Thanks, Steve, and back at ya!

I will definitely keep Jen and her family in my prayers. It sounds like she's been through so much, and I will pray that the treatment works, and that she will be well.

Thanks for the sites and info on free samples. I'm currently on disability, and I'll take anything free I can get until I'm able to go back to work (fingers crossed!). Have a good day, everyone!

Happy Birthday!!!!

You are indeed a handsome man, and more important, a very nice person!