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Topic: just wondering if it's rude or mean to...
Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 09/02/09 08:42 PM
My mind is now traveling to the "Thighmaster" commercial..mmmmmmm gooood times.rofl

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/02/09 08:56 PM
Wow and this is coming from a guy that says on his profile he tends to look at the eyes that looks does not matter for they tend to fade...............

All I can say I'm one lucky gal that I did not meet someone that thought this way......The way I see it either you like me for who I'm now or move one..... I can loose the weight for someone if that is what I want but being rude can't be fixed within a person.....

What gets me is I assure you those of us that are overweight we know it we don't need someone to tell us...... As some have said get into a more active life style and eating habits I promise you they will follow suit and not think a thing about it.

And well if one is any good in bed as they are with throwing out the words believe me they will work off some of that weight along the way and never have to say a word.... That is if they have what it takes..whoa

4974's photo
Wed 09/02/09 08:57 PM
hint to all men...when a girl is truly happy she tends to loose weight...

madamx7316's photo
Wed 09/02/09 08:58 PM
if you dont like her for what she is then why bother....

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:04 PM
nobody is perfect and im sure wed love to hear about your flaws..if its that big of a drama,then just break up with her.us ladies are always struggling with our weight and for some dude to tell we just met tells just to loose a few my high heels would be bringing blood.

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:09 PM
was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:14 PM

was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa

Balky's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:17 PM
Alright I'll probably break it off with her... any suggestions on how to? she's already starting to fall pretty hard here.

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:17 PM


was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa


may i get my weapons out now?ppppplllleaaassssee?flowers

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:17 PM
Men don't like it when women try to change them, so why they wanna try an change a woman?????

Hint: Accept or move the fudder on to someone else drinker

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:19 PM

was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


What? Mistakes happen? spock

Talk about not taking responsibility for your own actions ... It's not a mistake when someone asks a person for a SECOND date! slaphead :laughing:

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:20 PM

Alright I'll probably break it off with her... any suggestions on how to? she's already starting to fall pretty hard here.


Well if it so happens that you met her from this site she may do it for you...... shshshhs

noway

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:21 PM

Alright I'll probably break it off with her... any suggestions on how to? she's already starting to fall pretty hard here.


How old are you? Pull up your big boy pants and just communicate with her. Why do you need 'man training' from an internet forum?

I'm not saying YOU specifically, but single people who cannot conduct their own business is another single person's worst nightmare. scared

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:21 PM


was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa



true, in some cases it can happen but i wont get into that lol.

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:22 PM
this is yet another fine example of why i choose to stay single lmao

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:23 PM



was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa



true, in some cases it can happen but i wont get into that lol.


See that is being sensible, I very seriously doubt that you would make a second date with a lady regardless the situation if there was something from the beginning that turned you off.....:thumbsup:

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:24 PM
damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.

Balky's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:26 PM

damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


Thanks man, I appreciate that, good looking out. drinks

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:26 PM




was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa



true, in some cases it can happen but i wont get into that lol.


See that is being sensible, I very seriously doubt that you would make a second date with a lady regardless the situation if there was something from the beginning that turned you off.....:thumbsup:



its 2 sided. you have to remember there are different people with different needs in this world. say the guy considered it free sex? and lied to her about it. which led to her falling inlove with him and him not having any emotion towards her at all? it happens. im not sure if thats what happened with this guy, but i mean theres always that slight chance.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:27 PM

this is yet another fine example of why i choose to stay single lmao


Ohhhhhhhhhh girl never let a few spoil it for you...I just met a gentleman. We have had 2 dates and according to him he loves me just the way I'm inside and out..........So never give up there are still many men that will want you just the way you are without changing you........bigsmile

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