Topic: just wondering if it's rude or mean to...
RKISIT's photo
Thu 09/03/09 03:19 PM



To ask a girl to lose some weight?
i ask them that when i don't want to be with them anymorebigsmile



And it works for ya too, uh? laugh
sometimes it does but other times they won't let goscared

msmyka's photo
Thu 09/03/09 03:20 PM
Edited by msmyka on Thu 09/03/09 03:20 PM
I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 09/03/09 03:21 PM

I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead



Myka, we wouldn't date a guy that asked everyone how to deal with every situation anyway... :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 09/03/09 03:21 PM

I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead


Oh good, it wasn't just me that saw it.smokin

msmyka's photo
Thu 09/03/09 03:24 PM


I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead


Oh good, it wasn't just me that saw it.smokin


Just call me Captain Observant tongue2

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 09/03/09 03:25 PM



I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead


Oh good, it wasn't just me that saw it.smokin


Just call me Captain Observant tongue2


tongue2 rofl

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Thu 09/03/09 06:01 PM

I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead


Maybe it's all fictional and he's just getting ideas for his novel?:wink: laugh

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Thu 09/03/09 06:37 PM
Calleigh, Indnprncs. Love, love, loved you calling out this "person".

Did anyone miss his post where he said something about "Glad to be a legend..........blah, bah, blah"? Looks like somebody weally, weally needs some attention. Even if it's negative. We have the option of not responding and/or ignoring. Something tells me he can't be for real. No-one can be THAT dysfunctional. Waddaya think ladies?

Myka, love, love loved your comments too.


That's right! Chew 'em up and spit 'em out.

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Thu 09/03/09 07:07 PM

Calleigh, Indnprncs. Love, love, loved you calling out this "person".

Did anyone miss his post where he said something about "Glad to be a legend..........blah, bah, blah"? Looks like somebody weally, weally needs some attention. Even if it's negative. We have the option of not responding and/or ignoring. Something tells me he can't be for real. No-one can be THAT dysfunctional. Waddaya think ladies?

Myka, love, love loved your comments too.


That's right! Chew 'em up and spit 'em out.


Yeah, I'd like to think no one could be that clueless and still be breathing, but then again, you never know.:wink: laugh flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 09/03/09 08:16 PM

Calleigh, Indnprncs. Love, love, loved you calling out this "person".

Did anyone miss his post where he said something about "Glad to be a legend..........blah, bah, blah"? Looks like somebody weally, weally needs some attention. Even if it's negative. We have the option of not responding and/or ignoring. Something tells me he can't be for real. No-one can be THAT dysfunctional. Waddaya think ladies?

Myka, love, love loved your comments too.


That's right! Chew 'em up and spit 'em out.


Thanks BL.. I agree with Calleigh.. I think he's real b/c some are just that um dense and clueless while egocentric...

Darknight1981's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:11 AM


I went back and did some reading here and it seems to me like you just straight up used this girl to get your willy wet and should be down right ashamed to have done so. Instead you seem to be bragging about the fact that shes falling for you under false pretense... Just keeps getting better all the time.

Although you probably didn't mean to you have now let every woman on this site know what you are about so we can stay away from you.

Thanks, I guess slaphead



Myka, we wouldn't date a guy that asked everyone how to deal with every situation anyway... :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


These guys just keep setting themselves up for failure! laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:22 AM
THAT WOULD BE RUDE!!!

purplehorses's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:06 PM
no way, no how, never...EVER ask a woman to lose weight. you know nothing about why she's overweight or how she feels about herself.

if you don't like it, move one. just break up with her tactfully, be careful not to inadvertently insult her because of her weight. its an issue that can't be understood unless its been experienced.

good luck to you!

ledi180's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:07 PM
YES, it IS rude.

southern_bee's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:08 PM
how in the hell did this get to this many pages?laugh

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Sun 09/06/09 07:14 PM

how in the hell did this get to this many pages?laugh


we can't let it die a peaceful death....sad

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:16 PM

how in the hell did this get to this many pages?laugh


I'm not entirely sure.

Like I said back on page 5 this OP only needed one post in response to the question.


southern_bee's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:17 PM


how in the hell did this get to this many pages?laugh


I'm not entirely sure.

Like I said back on page 5 this OP only needed one post in response to the question.






i know i know i agree

writer_gurl's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:18 PM
It would be the same if she said would it be rude or rude to ask you to wear some cool clothes on a date...huh

southern_bee's photo
Sun 09/06/09 07:19 PM

It would be the same if she said would it be rude or rude to ask you to wear some cool clothes on a date...huh


or get a bigger hot dog lmao