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Topic: just wondering if it's rude or mean to...
southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:27 PM
public forums comes with lots of ladies with strong opinions.

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:28 PM


damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


Thanks man, I appreciate that, good looking out. drinks


yeah bro, no problem. all guys get themselves in **** like this sometime in their lives. women just dont understand it.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:28 PM

damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


I don't think the majority of women on this site are ruthless. Those who are here to possibly meet someone are, however, in search of independent, intelligent men who can stand on their own two feet with their spine fully intact.

If asking for a public opinion causes a person to get defensive then they should NOT ask for a public opinion; said opinions are not always what we want to hear.

The comments made usually come from a tough love perspective though. flowerforyou

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Wed 09/02/09 09:29 PM





was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa



true, in some cases it can happen but i wont get into that lol.


See that is being sensible, I very seriously doubt that you would make a second date with a lady regardless the situation if there was something from the beginning that turned you off.....:thumbsup:



its 2 sided. you have to remember there are different people with different needs in this world. say the guy considered it free sex? and lied to her about it. which led to her falling inlove with him and him not having any emotion towards her at all? it happens. im not sure if thats what happened with this guy, but i mean theres always that slight chance.


Sure it happens that way no doubt about it but then why try to use the weight issue as the problem why just not admit that it was not what one wanted and move on. Why make the other look bad in the long run?

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:29 PM


this is yet another fine example of why i choose to stay single lmao


Ohhhhhhhhhh girl never let a few spoil it for you...I just met a gentleman. We have had 2 dates and according to him he loves me just the way I'm inside and out..........So never give up there are still many men that will want you just the way you are without changing you........bigsmile



yeah i know but have you seen the show cheaters and tool academy,im ready adopt 5 cats and be happy by myself lol

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Wed 09/02/09 09:29 PM





was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa



true, in some cases it can happen but i wont get into that lol.


See that is being sensible, I very seriously doubt that you would make a second date with a lady regardless the situation if there was something from the beginning that turned you off.....:thumbsup:



its 2 sided. you have to remember there are different people with different needs in this world. say the guy considered it free sex? and lied to her about it. which led to her falling inlove with him and him not having any emotion towards her at all? it happens. im not sure if thats what happened with this guy, but i mean theres always that slight chance.


Quit lookin for free sex go to the local HO corner, pay ur money an u won't have no problems. drinker

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Wed 09/02/09 09:30 PM



damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


Thanks man, I appreciate that, good looking out. drinks


yeah bro, no problem. all guys get themselves in **** like this sometime in their lives. women just dont understand it.


The worst is yet to come, I'm sure my cells battery will run out of juice tonight from her texts lol.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:30 PM



damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


Thanks man, I appreciate that, good looking out. drinks


yeah bro, no problem. all guys get themselves in **** like this sometime in their lives. women just dont understand it.


What is to understand about someone not being proactive and making good decisions in their life? How many lessons does one have to learn before they start to smarten up? slaphead

My comment is made in general to your general statement that "women just don't understand". :laughing:

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:30 PM






was just a question ladies.biggrin

although i do see where you all are coming from. as for me, i dont judge and if i knew i wouldnt be happy with someone due to their weight i wouldnt put myself in that situation. but mistakes happen.


Well one can hardly say mistakes happen when there has been a second date now can they?whoa



true, in some cases it can happen but i wont get into that lol.


See that is being sensible, I very seriously doubt that you would make a second date with a lady regardless the situation if there was something from the beginning that turned you off.....:thumbsup:



its 2 sided. you have to remember there are different people with different needs in this world. say the guy considered it free sex? and lied to her about it. which led to her falling inlove with him and him not having any emotion towards her at all? it happens. im not sure if thats what happened with this guy, but i mean theres always that slight chance.


Quit lookin for free sex go to the local HO corner, pay ur money an u won't have no problems. drinker


and crab lice!heya red!

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:32 PM

damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


It's not about bein ruthless Hun. We're bein straight forward an honest with him.

Wasn't it Jack who said....You can't handle the truthbigsmile

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:33 PM


damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


I don't think the majority of women on this site are ruthless. Those who are here to possibly meet someone are, however, in search of independent, intelligent men who can stand on their own two feet with their spine fully intact.

If asking for a public opinion causes a person to get defensive then they should NOT ask for a public opinion; said opinions are not always what we want to hear.

The comments made usually come from a tough love perspective though. flowerforyou



yeah, i get where your coming from. alongside everyone else whos contributed to this convo. yours just stood out with the emote + your hot, so you know i have to return the favor.flowerforyou

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Wed 09/02/09 09:35 PM
Edited by mscherbear on Wed 09/02/09 09:38 PM


don't have enough info on the relationship to help ya out there...


Alright... We've gone out twice and hit things off pretty well, the only thing is her weight is a bit of a turn off. Is there a way for me to drop hints or something to have her lose some?


No. Move on if you don't like it

Oops--looks like I arrived late to this party!

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:35 PM
waving Hey Bee!


I'm gonna be really blunt here so pull up ur britches boys. When u go to the bar lookin to score, U buy the gurl u got ur eye on a few drinks right? Or u take her out for dinner right? Save urself the aggravation u seem to encounter with this behavior an just go find urself a prostitute. Ur gonna spend the money anyway. Then there's no hassle. Ain't no such thing as "free sex"drinker

no photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:36 PM
That's been my philosophy for years!!!!

You do not pay a hooker for sex.....You pay them so they will leave when you're done.....


waving Hey Bee!


I'm gonna be really blunt here so pull up ur britches boys. When u go to the bar lookin to score, U buy the gurl u got ur eye on a few drinks right? Or u take her out for dinner right? Save urself the aggravation u seem to encounter with this behavior an just go find urself a prostitute. Ur gonna spend the money anyway. Then there's no hassle. Ain't no such thing as "free sex"drinker

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:37 PM

waving Hey Bee!


I'm gonna be really blunt here so pull up ur britches boys. When u go to the bar lookin to score, U buy the gurl u got ur eye on a few drinks right? Or u take her out for dinner right? Save urself the aggravation u seem to encounter with this behavior an just go find urself a prostitute. Ur gonna spend the money anyway. Then there's no hassle. Ain't no such thing as "free sex"drinker


pull up your britches and get a spine..wordlaugh smokin

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:39 PM
What amazes me is to say women don't understand but when women give their opinion on a situation from their perspective of the issue which involves a woman and most likely how she would feel. Then we don't understand.............hummmm so pray tell I guess now men are going to tell women how they feel as well. Shshshsh why even ask a question wanting feed back if ya'll already know how we feel???noway whoa slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:39 PM




damn, lol. the women here are ruthless. you'll never catch me with that problem tho, but this guy can be in desperate need of help if hes coming to people for advice on a forum. so dont down him for trying to get help. your more frowned upon doing nothing or even attempting to take steps to do something.


Thanks man, I appreciate that, good looking out. drinks


yeah bro, no problem. all guys get themselves in **** like this sometime in their lives. women just dont understand it.


What is to understand about someone not being proactive and making good decisions in their life? How many lessons does one have to learn before they start to smarten up? slaphead

My comment is made in general to your general statement that "women just don't understand". :laughing:



your seeing everything one sided. not everyone is the same and not everyone is going to make the same choices. judging someone for doing what they do isnt right. has nothing to do with smartening up, because everyone makes mistakes as an imperfect being each and everyday. he just chose a different route by asking for help on a public forum. and you should know what i meant by women dont understand, because thats a proven fact - women dont understand men and why they like what they like or why they do what they do. same goes for women - unless your trying to say each sex is the same in all aspects.

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:40 PM
Most major cities have escort services. For what u pay on drinks or dinner, U could just get urself an escort, get u some sex an hey! She leaves when ur done an u never have to hear from her again. slaphead It ain't rocket science. shades

southern_bee's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:44 PM
i mean geebus!if your werent attracted to her then why did you even ask her out for a second date.point is you dont like her that way leave have the balls and the spine to break it off with her in a mature way.then get a hooker and have fun with the crab lice!laugh

Skatefluckit's photo
Wed 09/02/09 09:49 PM
this isnt about me, just like you and everyone else i put in my 2 cents. however it was what appeared to be him getting ragged on by 3-4 angry women. (i love women, dont get me wrong) and no, i would never put myself in that type of situation and yes i do have the guts to tell any women off because i speak my mind no matter what anyone thinks or says. back to the topic at hand, dude if your still out there i never did answer your question, but like the women have said, id just tell her how it is. your not attracted to her, your sorry you waste her and your time and move on.

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