Topic: Is it even possible?!?!
willing2's photo
Mon 01/11/10 02:00 PM



Well....is it possible to be a MAN on this site, and find a woman who doesn't want to just get it on within thirty minutes of meeting me??? I mean....THE NERVE!!!rant :tongue: laugh


Must be tough being you Goof...:tongue: laugh


You have no idea. I mean....."gets all in a tissy"....I am not some piece of meat damn it!!! I just wanna be held.sad sad

It'll be ok, Goof.
There, there. Just lay your head down in my lap and let it all out.bigsmile shades

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/11/10 02:08 PM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Awwwww....thanks Willing....nice to have a sympathetic....lap???....to go to????:laughing: :laughing:

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:41 PM

to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart




Mission Impossible.

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 01/11/10 09:04 PM

to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart



Of course it is possible, probable probably not.

no photo
Mon 01/11/10 11:55 PM
Edited by Moblodite on Mon 01/11/10 11:57 PM
I'm confused!!

If she can't hold sex over our head.. she is powerless.

If all I wanted was sex, I'm sure I could find a hooker.
And it would cost me less in the long run!

But since I desire the true emotional ties.. I will wait for the right one.

Aries151's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:02 AM

to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart




Of course, but I'm sure that would still be part of the equation somewhere.

Totage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:31 AM

to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart




It's possible. That's all I'm looking for. Of course, I'm open to finding more, but sex is not even on my list, and I wouldn't even put on my list until there was some kind of relationship that was heading somewhere, and even then it would be on the bottom of the list.

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:42 AM


to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart


My straight answer to u is yes.. its possible. If the man is actually Gay.

More in depth explaination:


searching someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and


Lets analyze this a bit.. shall we?

There is 3 points in this phrase which leads to emotional feelings with final destination*...sex

1... Go out...

When a woman go out with man who just met recently, ofc doesnt mean will have sex that night or even in the near future. But... on the long run there is the possibilty. The men hold to that possibility and if they arnt mature enough they ask for it too early.

2... Have fun

When a woman say to man.."lets go out to have some fun".. ofc doesnt mean that will have sex in the WC of a bar or something.. but in the long run brings again the possiblity of sex. For example... at the end of a good night the mode of women can change to more positive sometimes. Men again hold on to this.

3... Nothing serious

For a man having sex isnt something serious. Making love it is serious but is deferent from sex. So again, "nothing serious" received by men like more chances to have sex with the women sooner than they expected.

*final destination = sooner or later

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The conclusion is that this phrase basically.. ASKS for sex. Agree or Desagree this is how the MAJORITY of males received it.

So...u have to change the way u say things to men. U have to understand how men thinks and avoid the "word traps".

From my personal experience.. usually women know what men want... but in this case i doubt it.

If u looking only for a pure friendship with NO CHANCE of sex...then u should look for other women. Its more safer road.



rofl Well said! Nicely explained!




Totage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 02:06 AM

flowerforyou yes it isflowerforyou but he will hope it will happen in the futureflowerforyou people have needsflowerforyou


Not always true

no photo
Tue 01/12/10 02:49 AM
you are so intelligent, i agree with you 100%. how can you analyize this all like that?? super man

hopefloating's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:13 AM

a man who doesn't want sex?

do they even make those?


lmao!!

yes they do make those....they are called eunuchs!

I don't think I would want to date one of those...noway

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:23 AM
Sure there are alot of respectful men here!


But I love the ones who want sex!!!!! hahahah :heart:

Goofball73's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:37 AM
Chicks man. Always wanting a dude to not want sex, so we help you out. We hold out....but then you have the frickin nerve to get upset at us for doing so! I mean....WTH????? Make up your mind. Tell us what you want, what you really really want.....:wink:

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:42 AM

Chicks man. Always wanting a dude to not want sex, so we help you out. We hold out....but then you have the frickin nerve to get upset at us for doing so! I mean....WTH????? Make up your mind. Tell us what you want, what you really really want.....:wink:


I'll tell ya what I want, what I really, really want...cept you can't handle the truth. :tongue: :wink:

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:44 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Tue 01/12/10 11:46 AM
I Love sex

Sex

and more sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol :heart: :heart:


Come over.

Fix somthing here and there

Have sex


Go home.............................lol:heart:

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:52 AM



Well....is it possible to be a MAN on this site, and find a woman who doesn't want to just get it on within thirty minutes of meeting me??? I mean....THE NERVE!!!rant :tongue: laugh


Must be tough being you Goof...:tongue: laugh


You have no idea. I mean....."gets all in a tissy"....I am not some piece of meat damn it!!! I just wanna be held.sad sad


LOL
lovin it lollaugh

no photo
Tue 01/12/10 11:57 AM

to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart




YES, IT IS!

















He's called your BROTHER.

(That is unless you're from Tennessee.)


Bigstick9's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:04 PM
Ive done the whole lets go out and just have fun not expecting anything at all( YET THINKING ABOUT IT) as guys do.... she had the nerve to say "what? im not attractive enough for you" i looked at another woman at the bar that was looking at me... if you wanna go out and JUST have fun, thats the same if me and goof went to the bar. Just hanging out.... So if you say all you want is friendship then expect JUST that....dont switch it up. We are simply x emotion = x reaction. No hidden factors. oh except for.... hahahaha

CatsLoveMe's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:11 PM
Having a man-friend instead of something more is like buying a set a of tools and never using them. No point in buying the Craftsman if you're not gonna use it.laugh :tongue:

oldsage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:16 PM
Sure it is poss., close to you & the proper age??
THAT is the real problem.