Topic: Date with a stranger
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Mon 05/09/11 09:53 AM

I sold my car to a stranger last friday, he asked me out on a date and I said I would love too....

Im not sure how he feels about it now, having driven my car for a few days. LOL. He may be having second thoughts...frustrated


laugh laugh

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Mon 05/09/11 12:33 PM
I would like to talk to them on phone and see how it goes and then meet them.

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Mon 05/09/11 12:39 PM
My first date with my late wife was a blind date.

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Mon 05/09/11 12:52 PM
Stranger danger.


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Mon 05/09/11 03:17 PM

Stranger danger.


Got chocolate?

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Mon 05/09/11 03:27 PM
no way in hell :wink:

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Mon 05/09/11 04:09 PM
ell if she's paying WTF not?

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Mon 05/09/11 04:15 PM
did she say "please?"

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Tue 05/10/11 10:41 AM

Stranger danger.




Don't be a wuss, this guy looks legit.

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Thu 06/16/11 02:37 PM
If hes really nice, i would. Time waits for no one.

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Thu 06/16/11 04:35 PM
Edited by MrBiscuit on Thu 06/16/11 04:36 PM
No way, I'm no fool. I don't want to associate with someone I can't stand. I'd think it was just another attension seeker, and they never last a week anyway.

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Thu 06/16/11 04:37 PM

How many of you would go on a date with somebody who just asks you out on the first Message??


I would, if she met all of my regular compatibility criteria. Of course, I'm an idiot.


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Thu 06/16/11 04:37 PM

How many of you would go on a date with somebody who just asks you out on the first Message??



I think this is one small difference between online and real life. In real life, if a person walked up and said a few things, and asked me out,, I may go(its the only way to get to know them, other than phone calls or emails anyhow)


but if we are on a COMMUNICATIONS venue like the internet, I would take that as the opportune situation to have whatever conversation we might have on a 'date',,,,its actually why I prefer online,, theres more conversation and less of the physical distractions,,,

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Thu 06/16/11 04:55 PM

How many of you would go on a date with somebody who just asks you out on the first Message??


I guess that depends on what the first message says...and if there are dirty pictures involved (turn on? turn off? you decide! LOL!)

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Thu 06/16/11 06:27 PM

How many of you would go on a date with somebody who just asks you out on the first Message??


Not me.

That's like meeting a guy on the bus.

Who is he really and where is he going?

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Thu 06/16/11 06:30 PM

I have many times. I prefer to talk on the phone first though. Anyone can say whatever they like on the internet. If you meet them first in a public setting you can assess them quickly. I just say for a quick drink-that way you aren't stuck with them if you're not
interested and I do it during the week, not on the weekend.

I don't have time for constant emailing back and forth and I've been disappointed in the past thinking I was really going to like someone and then find out they are nothing like they write. This way I avoid all of that.



this :thumbsup:

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Tue 06/21/11 11:37 AM
My first online date was at Olive Garden where he suggested we get the soup/salad combo because it was inexpensive. He then joked.."thats a big purse, do you have your spare panties and toothbrush in there?" Needless to say, that was our first and last date.

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Tue 06/21/11 04:22 PM
u are right..wht up

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Thu 06/23/11 05:56 AM
depends what he says in the first message:tongue:

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Fri 06/24/11 05:49 AM
I prefer to talk on the phone first, meet in a public place for coffee, etc., then figure it out from there. I don't know if you'd actually call that a date.

In Sweden, lots of people go out for "fika", as it's called. Generally for coffee or a smoothie and some kind of pastry. It's not considered a date, just a social meeting of sorts because you could have fika with your teacher or your best friend's dad or just about anyone and it doesn't mean a thing.