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Topic: Kissing
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/20/12 09:58 AM
Is kissing important to you? Do you kiss on the first date? Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well?

19Kate79 Joined Tue 11/13/12 Posts: 32	Thu 12/20/12 11:13 AM
What constitute a good kisser from a bad one? I don't think I'm a good kisser. I once told man he was a good kisser, he told me I was a good hugger. WTH?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14505	Thu 12/20/12 11:25 AM
Is kissing important to you? Do you kiss on the first date? Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well? Yes Yes on the cheek or lightly on the lips Yes sometimes not always Yes probably

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45334	Thu 12/20/12 12:40 PM
Mmm kissing is yummy. If I did not want to I would divert with learned tactics to avoid it.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Thu 12/20/12 12:45 PM
Is kissing important to you? Do you kiss on the first date? Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well? Extremely. Yeah, I'm down. Not at all, I've learned from my twisted experiences. I mean... don't get me wrong, some people really just suck at kissing. But I think that there are definitely people that you feel a natural rhythm and intimacy with when you're kissing, the same way as when you're sleeping with them.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/27/12 12:50 PM
What constitute a good kisser from a bad one? I don't think I'm a good kisser. I once told man he was a good kisser, he told me I was a good hugger. WTH? It's something each person will have to decide. What's good for one person may not seem good for the next.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/27/12 12:53 PM
Is kissing important to you? Do you kiss on the first date? Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well? Extremely. Yeah, I'm down. Not at all, I've learned from my twisted experiences. I mean... don't get me wrong, some people really just suck at kissing. But I think that there are definitely people that you feel a natural rhythm and intimacy with when you're kissing, the same way as when you're sleeping with them. Yes, some people do suck at kissing. Sometimes, I think it's because they're not paying attention to the other person and taking cues from them. If they're that way in bed, too, it could be a bad thing. I've been with a really horrible kisser and made the mistake of continuing in bed. He was also horrible in bed. Does that mean every bad kisser is going to be like that? Maybe not.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 12/27/12 02:27 PM
If a woman is a good kisser, then it is going to enhance my desire to want to explore sex with her. Kissing....well, damn good kissing is just awesome. For me, it is a turn on. If a woman just stinks at kissing, then it will turn me off. And therefore, I'm not likely to want to pursue sex.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Thu 12/27/12 02:32 PM
Kissing was all pretty much the same to me until I met a girl that was simply a bad kisser. VERY WET kisses. Yech! I didn't see her again.

Zero_Effected Joined Sat 12/02/06 Posts: 18395	Thu 12/27/12 03:40 PM
Is kissing important to you? Do you kiss on the first date? Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well? yes.. extremely typically yes.. depends on the other.. if they're hesitant I go for the french double cheek kiss.. if not.. I prefer a gentle, soft kiss.. yes.. alot can be discovered by the way a person kisses (I feel) no.. again.. alot can be discovered about the person (I've found) by the way he kisses

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Thu 12/27/12 04:09 PM
Yes, i love to kiss, but not on a first date,for me it's very personal...and if i'm into kissing already, i have to be sure that his mouth smells fresh and clean,.kissing gives me an insight of things to come for it's like communicating with him in a deeper sense, Bad kisser equals lousy sex?..no idea,...yet.

MzMariah Joined Wed 09/21/11 Posts: 90	Thu 12/27/12 04:26 PM
Yes, very important. I found out how much when I was with someone who wouldn't do that and a lot of things because of religious type hangups, such a shame. I will kiss on the first date, I let that be an emotional decision, have no set rule about it. I think kissing (in gereral, not just the first) is a fair indicator of what's to come. I don't think "bad" is a good way to describe kiss ability.. or sex ability really. Maybe unconnected, pushy, sloppy, inexperienced, I guess I just use different adjectives but yes I do think it's indicative. As babies we learned by mouthing things and we still can in adulthood :D Mwah, mwah!

ashryn Joined Sat 03/12/11 Posts: 383	Thu 12/27/12 04:42 PM
yes love to do it sometimes kiss on the first date if I have butterflies in May stomach lol usually a good sign first kisses can go many ways could be a hint of what's to come but could be deceitful as well and no a bad kisser doesn't necessarily mean bad in bed we all have our talents

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 12/27/12 04:48 PM
To me kissing is very important. Its just so personal.Theres nothing like watching tv and kissing or by the fire at night when the stars are out. Most of the women I have been with were very good kissers. The one who wasn't was just nervous after awhile great kisser.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/27/12 04:49 PM
Kissing was all pretty much the same to me until I met a girl that was simply a bad kisser. VERY WET kisses. Yech! I didn't see her again. It was all the same? Really? Those I've been with had different styles of kissing. Some not far off from others, but no one who kissed exactly the same.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/27/12 04:52 PM
Yes, very important. I found out how much when I was with someone who wouldn't do that and a lot of things because of religious type hangups, such a shame. I will kiss on the first date, I let that be an emotional decision, have no set rule about it. I think kissing (in gereral, not just the first) is a fair indicator of what's to come. I don't think "bad" is a good way to describe kiss ability.. or sex ability really. Maybe unconnected, pushy, sloppy, inexperienced, I guess I just use different adjectives but yes I do think it's indicative. As babies we learned by mouthing things and we still can in adulthood :D Mwah, mwah! Very true! And you are correct. Bad is not always a good way of describing kissing.

Suzanne20 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9261	Thu 12/27/12 06:19 PM Edited by Suzanne20 on Thu 12/27/12 06:19 PM
Kissing is important within a relationship to me. If I kiss on the first date or not totally depends on the chemistry with the person. If a person cannot kiss (by my definition), nothing else is going to happen with them for me.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 12/27/12 08:56 PM
Kissing was all pretty much the same to me until I met a girl that was simply a bad kisser. VERY WET kisses. Yech! I didn't see her again. did u buy her a collar with a little bone for a name tag??????????

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 12/27/12 09:08 PM
Is kissing important to you? Do you kiss on the first date? Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well? yes no not necessarily yes, cant have the latter without the former,, at least I Cant

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Thu 12/27/12 10:37 PM
Is kissing important to you? Yes, I enjoy kissing Do you kiss on the first date? One a first date it depends on the chemistry level, but at the least he gets a kiss on the cheek. Are first kisses an indication of what's to come? No, first kisses are usually awkward, they tend to get better. If someone is bad at kissing, do you think they will be bad in bed as well? No, the way some one kisses can change, with open communication and practice.