Should you have sex on the first date I say yes if you like the guy

Well if I were to date a guy... No, I would not have sex on the first date...


And if you expect a woman to do that with you, I would guess it's only going to happen when you paid her for it in advance...

No,unless the chemistry is strong and she initiates... then I see no problem.

What he said

Congrats to you and your special guy.

If you really want to build on something and really feel that woman could be the one, you'd be wise to then say "I'd want to, I really do, but I respect you too much to screw this up. Let's wait."

No. I have had several dates with guys I like.

People do it all the time. If you understand that you want sex on a first date based on animal attraction only, then it’s your choice to make. But if you believe you’re doing it because of deeper emotional feelings, you might want to sober up and/or grow up and remember that you can’t possibly know this person well enough to feel anything other than what you want to feel yet.

I second this post

Well, John Jackson if you like the guy then by all mean have sex with him.

what two consenting adults agree to is fine, if they enjoy meaningless sex all the power to them

But realistically you dont know each other, the attraction may be strong but so what?

You dont really know each other.

If you are the type of person that values sex , intimacy and long term committed relationship having sex on the first date isn't your thing.

Because you believe that intimacy is best enjoy after a bond is established.

I personally dont value someone a potential long term partner If she is willing to have sex on the first date or two especially if we were out and drinks were involved.

I would have serious trust issues with her if she is out with friends whether its a girls weekend or vacation somewhere, and she meets a charming guy that has the gift of the gab.

On the other hand if that is what two people want I say go for it and God bless you.

Let them stay blessed...

"Should?"
Yes. Absolutely.
And I believe Trump should start a new branch of law enforcement to set up date cops to enforce what people "should" be doing.
Their uniform is a cross between the cop and leather daddy from The Village People, with big mustaches and open neck shirts with lots of chest hair.
And the cop sits at the table with the daters, his chin in his hands and says "you guys gonna do it now? Huh? You gonna do it? I like your hat, but are you gonna do it now? You need to do it, I'm the fist of the long arm of the law."

back in the day when i was looking for a female , nope
today if i was looken for a female , nope

guess i was just raised different <shrug>
but then again i was never looking for sex , was all ways looken for a relationship

but then again i have never slept with a lady i wasn't daten or married to

never did the one night sleep over type thing
just not my style


too each there own : )

Rut roh...a good guy ;-)

Never saw it as a problem, even remember some of their names, some remain as friends.

It's a must if you wanna move forward

I hope you get your "bobo" checked out frequently and practice safe sex, Im amazed in this day and age on how many people dont practice it.

Well thank you Dr Phil but in the interim wouldn't it be wise to get the facts before condescending ?