Wise man once said "If it bleeds, we can kill it "

Wise man was right, as usual.

heh cheers!

for sure, the cliche of getting flowers(red roses, yuck!) and going to a fancy restaurant is not my idea of a "perfect date".

Wal in the woods, small campfire, blanket, picnic basket, sitting and relaxing, chatting. And if I know him, then more...

walking on the beach watching the sunset
Oh and talking and running and getting piggy back rides and being silly

Christmas through New Years on Maui in a private beach front bungalow with jacuzzi tub on the balcony and an over sized shower built for two.
A fully stocked refrigerator and wine cabinet...
fresh fruit and seafood served on silver platters with cloth napkins.
Matching robes and slippers bedside..
Sunsets, strolls on the beach, hikes through the bamboo forests, swimming with dolphins... trading full body massages, intimate conversation, relaxation, laughter and lots of great sex.

I'd also like to add the possibility of skinny dipping if near to a decent pond or lake of water. Decent being clear, not muddy, and no snakes, of the reptile kind!

(Wishing I could spell tonight)

Sex, dinner, andddd shopping?


Maybe toss in the spa.


EDIT: Repeat.

A perfect FIRST date would be something like meeting for coffee in the afternoon, followed by some kind of game like pool, darts or bowling. Then we have a little something to eat and go to a blues or jazz bar to see a live band. It takes several hours, but it's a lot of fun and by the end we know one another pretty well.

My perfect date would be female, alive, human, and consentual. I like to let her decide what she wants to do. I'll throw out some ideas. She'll throw out some ideas. We both decide together on what we will do. Once there, I simply enjoy the ride. Enjoying her company as well as her enjoying mine.

Ends with sex, she doesn't stay over

My first thought is the one that leads to a second.

It'd involve stimulation, both intellectual and physical.

Anywhere and any day now sounds good to me.

first date?

Kayaking or hiking to a waterall somewhere or an amusement park.
Plent of stuff to do even if we don't hit it off...still have fun or at least try.


Perfect date with an already significant other?
Bringing a tent, hiking to a secluded spot, taking in nature, bring a lantern and a book....takes all weekend.

Oh no! It's that word 'perfect'. lol. I would pick something and somewhere we both wanted to go. The convo must be flowing otherwise i'm gone.

Hi everyone this is my 1st day. I am ready 2 have some fun so holla@ me.

Hmmm the perfect date? (one moment let me shift gears my thinking transmission in in reverse this morning for some unknown reason)
A perfect date would be me and that special lady having a wonderful conversation and feeling closer together with each word said as we both know so much about each other now and ending up in the middle of the county in a empty hay field laying under a clear sky staring at the stars and the moon, listening to the coyotes sing, and maybe even a little bondfire

Perfect date to me would be with one that I want to wake up to in the morning. It would not matter what we did or where we go.........it's all being with the one you really want to be with,,,,,,,,

Ohh and ya don't find that on a first date at least not in my mind....

ahhhhh the perfect date. id sit back, think what would be more preferable; eating dinner at her house the park or at a bar and grill. well id prefer a bar and grill first followed by a passionate movie or somthing agreed on between both of us. on the way if your reading this and see that your roses have been plucked from your flower garden it was for a legitimate reason. your seeds have sprouted to make someone happy and they keep coming back for more. thank you to the gardner