"This is a respond to the woman who wrote a topic entiteld ( men are players)"

And you don't think at least some men are players? Isn't that a bit niave on your part

"I just want to findout how did u know we r player"

Powers of observation. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, lays eggs like a duck it is pretty good bet it is a duck.

" unless you were cheating on your boyfriends first."

Ok so with this jump to conclusion if anyone hears you complaining about cars being stolen then we should just take you to jail for grand theft auto?

"I want to refresh your memory"

If you have to refresh anyones memory doesn't your point belong on a previous thread? Or did you forget where you are?


"that issue depens on the person that you r dealing with."

No I think the issue depends on not dealing with someone who is a cheater and how to identify that type of character. If you are not dealing with a cheater you don't have a problem.

" there are many women cheat on there hasubands"

And so two wrongs make a right? Just because women do something wrong it is ok for guys? Considering the cost to society and inparticularly dependent children when the bread winner abandons the family I see a male cheating much more harmful.

" boy friends and thier families "

When anyone cheats there is a cost to the lover and family but that is not exclusive to female cheaters.

"just to have fun and full thier plusures."

It is pretty clear you don't understand the real reason most cheaters cheat. If you interview them you will often have them tell you it has nothing to do with sex or that the paramour is not the lover that they frequently enjoy at home.

" want to let u know"

We really don't need to know since the majority of Mingler's are vehemently against cheating but wax away.

" it is your fault for not taking care on your man"

The aids epedemic transferance in spouses proves most cheaters are in fact getting taken care of.

"and let him slipt from your hands"

You make a huge assumption that anyone can hold onto a cheater tightly enough to keep them from cheating. Cheaters are remarkably resourceful and devious to accomplish their thrills. Where a cheater slips through might be a hand but more likely his not being able to keep his own to himself. Or boredom and desensitation from over use of his own hand.

"to another girl"

The person a cheater goes to is rarely known to the mate of a cheater. Women, (not girls that is kind of a creepy concept) often involved with a man have no clue he has a spouse.

" I dont plame the men"

So just because a cheater is a guy because he just can't live without a certain quota of sex? How sexist is that?

" somtimes because when thy find no time for them"

So if a man wants sex he has no responsibility to assist the lover in having fewer responsibilities and distractions so that they are motivated to be a lover. How do you explain a husband who cheats while a spouse is working to support him, or while she is hospitalized, or even delivering their child?

" the start looking for what they missed in another woman "
So who is leading who to who? A woman who may not even know a man is cheating with her or the man who is actually cheating and leaving and innocent spouse alone and in effect hurting two women.

Somehow your reasoning has BIG holes in it.

Everyone wishes for world peace, I think. Or at least nearly everyone.

For me....it would be for people to mind their own damn business.

THAT would bring about World Peace.

What about once you're in a long term relationship, I mean past the "dating" stage... what's the protocol there?