Ooooh Poor Baby. Doesn't sound like fun. Least now you have it behind you.

Welcome to the playpen.

I am up the river from you at Sacramento. I am not your generation but a lot of sweet young things up this way so you might want to take a ride this way on a sunny day.

Jump in the forums and get some exposure and some of the shy will say hello.

LOL Does this game offer major medical if I break anything?

Oh Yeah like I want to draw attention to my belly!!! ROFLMBO.

What you are going through is exactly why I don't date seperated or recently divorced.

There used to be a term for recently divorced called "Walking Wounded" and I have found it is often very accurate.

Sounds like these two people mistaken anger for passion and get off on the drama. Some people are adrenalin junkies.

I think I would send each, the wife, and the ex boyfriend a registered letter to tell them "No more contact." Then stay the heck away from both of them. They sound like they are "CRAZY" and you could get caught in the crossfire.

You are not going to be able to figure this situation. Insanity never makes sense. lol

Too weird for me probably loose interest in them.

Maybe something serious came down in their life and just don't feel like dumping on you or involving you in it.

So many people looseing jobs innernet is probably not more important than extra gas to job hunt.

I owe some emails and I just am having a time keeping up between all the demands on my time. It is one thing to relax and chat and another to feel like you have the energy to persue something personal.

Yes, but I will never tell and you would never guess in a million years.

You are KIDDING aren't you? You would WANT to be in a relationship with someone who was a theif? Or was so far behind in providing for THERE child past or present that they are going to be locked up?

I don't think this profile is doing you any favors.

For a strikeing brunette with pretty eyes not one of your photos don't look straight at the viewer and engage them with a smile. With black on black you don't show the shape you have, minimize your size and infact amplifys it while looseing your pretty hair; which you need to get out of your face unless you want to look like a belligerent pre-teen.

You might want to focus on the fact that people look for a person that they can be interactive with to date and develope a relationship with.

Talking about reading romance novels is not going to generate a conversation with the majority of men unless you plan to read them or play out the pornographic part. And while I am sure there are some young men who enjoy ballet, opera, and musical theater it is going to be a rather small percentage. Whining about your family enjoying you performing seems kind of snide.

While it is fine to want to travel to these exotic locations it sounds like you have no plan to cover the costs except for the same way you were able to travel as a child. For the majority of men in there early twenties the potential of being able to fund world travel is slim and none. You will be lucky if a peer has a $100-200 a month for his ENTIRE social life.

If you are a college student you have a vast variety of things you could be enjoying on campus as well as out in the community. You need to mention your favorites.

If you want a relationship with a man you might want to talk about what that means to you?

Where would they go? Their parents don't want them, the siblings are often no better off? Many would have to leave behind a child or have to take the kids to shelters that are always over full. Many of the sleeping shelters have no bath facilities. With the "anti homeless laws" it is not like you can get off the street once you are on. What beds do exist are used for the sick and dying. Most publiccly funded hospitals are closed and unless a peson is in imminent risk of dying they don't have to let them in the ones that are left. Many don't have high school diploma or a car or a job.

They have been allowed to be bully's all their lives so why would they change when there is no one big enough around to stop them?

Sad fact is now days it is not that uncommon for women to be equally abusive toward husband's.

They have been allowed to be bully's all their lives so why would they change when there is no one big enough around to stop them?

Sad fact is now days it is not that uncommon for women to be equally abusive toward husband's.

Krupa you got it bad Dude!!!! lol

Thanks for a cool poem.

I always think of some big old burly guy seeing his own child for the first time.

I tend to know almost immediately if it could fly or not. BUT no matter how certain I feel I take my time to be sure. I will say the great love of my life so far told his best friend that he had met the woman he was going to marry after two dances at a birthday party. I think if it is the "Real Deal" you will know.

Neither just teeny-bopper dumb.

For a really good looking guy the pictures are not helping you connect very well. Can't name what that expression is about.

The text gives a lot of information, I can't believe I am saying it but it might be too much. The flow isn't real good because you keep switching directions

I will say you sound like you have a lot on the ball and you are one of the few I would point friends to and say you might want to check this guy out.

Hope you have a lot of fun. Welcome to the playpen.

The IMPORTANT thing is to NOT wait until it lands on your desk to find where you can get help. Getting a part time job gets your foot in the door if you do get laid off and before all the part time jobs are gone.

It is important to get your paperwork ready to apply for assistance programs and writing a current resume.

Sorry I am too lazy to write it twice. Go to the parenting thread and look up Kids eating habits. I wrote and extensive post of that and another on Potty training. Hope it is helpful. Grandma Joy