When do I feel lonely?

Most of the time because I still remember how it felt to not feel loney because I felt one with my mate even if we were not physically together.

I suppose there are times when it is worse.

A big one surpriseingly is when I see something interesting, or pleaseing, or stimulateing in a positive way. I want to share it. Reflect it back and forth between us.

Probably the next would be the things that my partner was good at that I now must do still overwhelming me at times.

The last but not necessarily the least is the intimacy that I have with a mate that I don't have with others. The touching and expressing sexuality and love. A person who knows not just the present but also the past and some of what is expected in the future.

The time of day for each of those is different but if I had to list one is when I have to go to bed alone and wake up alone.

If you want an opinion I would give you one but I am not going to be insulted for my personal opinions. It is a very long profile and with out it being on this page it is difficult to reference. If you would invite me I will email you from beneath your profile if invited.

P.S. I see that your profile limits input from women over 51 so I can not address you in email. Sad because I think we have a similiar experience with marriage and I better understand some of your feelings than some.

Probably want to focus on your strengths what makes you desireable to the widest audience. Stateing what kind of people you like. Being upbeat, friendly, smart, and inviting.

I agree with you future counselor.

"How can you make it better?"

How would you persuade someone in the court room?

From what I am told even people who are blind from birth have some cognitive ideas of appearances and have preferences. Size, weight, height ect. that create a mental image that they want.

What is important about this exchange is that it seems to be more important for your opinion to be considered "right" and her opinion "wrong". And that she "Insists" that her opinion is "right" and yours is "wrong" maybe even "morally corrupt" since attraction on appearance is seen as physical versus mental. Two "Right Fighter's" are pretty much guaranteed to have a stressful relationship.

That is true and like rain the first drop is sometimes so gentle you hardly notice it then it just keeps on coming at you until you are saturated and you feel it all the way down to your bones.

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Hate to break it to you, but unless you happen to be the reincarnation of Methusela, you don't really have a choice.

Death is inevitable.

What you do with Life before Death shows up is all that counts.


Yes but if you are loved you live beyond your life in the hearts of other's.

Scent is important. Always a turn off when someone wears my Dad's cologne; immediately demoted to the friend zone.

The smell of my late husband's things or my sons baby clothes can still bring me to tears.

Sure; anyone that gets so closed minded that they can't assess your own decisions then you probably are not going to be flexible enough to adapt to the inevitable changes in the journey life is.

Girl you keep going to places where you get hurt you might want to think about writing and advanced directive and a will. Geeez I can pray for you but you got to help yourself some.

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From what I vaguely know about you; you have worked your bum off on school and making your own way. I think you know what you can and can not afford (usually $200/day)for a holiday.

Tacoma/Seattle is a great place for a Single woman to have a lot of fun. With a ratio of about 5 guys to every woman Tacoma might be a bit of a shock but with a friend your chances of meeting someone nice are good.

If you go to Seattle Pike's Market is great and you can ride the yachts across to Victoria BC for a couple days. Great fun. Take a good quality hooded rain coat you will definitely need it.

You might already done this but before you go in a car with your buddy be safe and make sure you get a copy of his State ID and check him out. I would not give anyone my hotel room number and stay in a little better quality hotel. Have a person at home you check in with dailey but go and have a wonderful time.

Worse come to worse you can always go to Travelors Aid by dialing 411.

LOL probably close to a hundred but none are all that expensive. Lots of flip flops and the slides. That averages less than two pair a year so I don't see it is a big deal.

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Should all over yourself and you can't really blame anyone. What people should be able to handle and can are widely different things many time.

I watch out when people's stories don't make sense. Can barely write a coherent sentence and claim to be wealthy jet setting computer engineers. lol

Does make you wonder doesn't it.

Whoa Krupa did you get up on the wrong side of the bed? I haven't seen that much bashing Mingle and if anything POF is taking it on the chin.

I could be wrong but I don't think Mingle is a charity. Seems to me that they sell plenty of advertiseing. Be nice if they advertised something I was actually interested in buying but do you have any idea how many people try a free site first? I am not knocking it, great business savey, but this ought to be a cash cow. They get my respect for keeping it going. Yea capitalism!

Sorry you are feeling sad. That is no fun. I try to chat with someone when I feel sad and if that doesn't work there is always my favorite a bubble bath to make me feel better.

65* Clear and bright. Wish all those suffering the winter cold could come here for a BBQ. We will get dry as a bone and hot as He-l in July though so it has a flip side.