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Topic: need some help.
odoyle5000's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:30 PM
i need some help or advice about a relationship. i was dating a girl for 4 months and up til a few days ago we were fine. until she said that she was dating another guy on and off while she was dating me. she broke up with me for him and well i want her back. even though she made me feel like crap i still want her back. i need advice on how i can convince her that im the man she should be with and no one else

RKISIT's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:32 PM
don't try anything ..just move on :smile:

Amylorena's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:33 PM
Anybody you have to convince of anything is not the one. If it was ment to be she would have chose you. It sucks but sometimes you just have to let go.

redhead44613's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:33 PM
Edited by redhead44613 on Fri 07/10/09 01:34 PM
If someone makes you feel like crap why the **** would you wanna be with that person? frustrated

I think you just don't wanna be alone, I used to do the same ****. Not worth it. Find someone better!

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:33 PM
Well, to me it seems she's happier with him, so I say you have to step back, and trust me it's not easy. If she's willing to tell you it's over for him, not much you can or should do.

Just my opinion...


Sorry for your situation.

southern_bee's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:34 PM
so she made you feel like crap and yet you still want her back?i dont mean to be so blunt but hun,did you lose your backbone in the process?if you like feeling crappy about your self and let her walk all over you,if you want to be happy and regrow a backbone move on!flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:40 PM
you can't change people. you can only change yourself. she made her choice....good or bad. it's her decision not yours. reverse the roles...would you want someone to try to convince you that you were wrong for your feelings and choice?

alternativa's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:43 PM

i need some help or advice about a relationship. i was dating a girl for 4 months and up til a few days ago we were fine. until she said that she was dating another guy on and off while she was dating me. she broke up with me for him and well i want her back. even though she made me feel like crap i still want her back. i need advice on how i can convince her that im the man she should be with and no one else


Do you know why she chose him over you? If not, find out. Most likely, there are things he does that you didn’t. You can’t change who you are, but maybe there are parts of you that you didn’t show to her that he did.

Sometimes you like the heart and mind of more than one person and your deciding factor boils down to the way each treats you and which fulfills your needs at that time.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:43 PM

i need some help or advice about a relationship. i was dating a girl for 4 months and up til a few days ago we were fine. until she said that she was dating another guy on and off while she was dating me. she broke up with me for him and well i want her back. even though she made me feel like crap i still want her back. i need advice on how i can convince her that im the man she should be with and no one else


I agree that if she treated you like crap, why would you want that? And I agree with Amy. Anybody you have to "convince" to be with you, is not going to be the one. Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong, other than she made her choice. That is hard for a lot of people to deal with. Move on. And good luck.

MikeCarbellano's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:44 PM
Am I the only person who gets over someone in 5 seconds?

Move on, she is a horrible person for doing that. But don't be dumb and be hung over her.

jaxx15's photo
Fri 07/10/09 01:46 PM
If she is able to do that while it is still "new" then no telling what will happen down the road. Move on.

Anonimoose's photo
Fri 07/10/09 02:15 PM

i need some help or advice about a relationship. i was dating a girl for 4 months and up til a few days ago we were fine. until she said that she was dating another guy on and off while she was dating me. she broke up with me for him and well i want her back. even though she made me feel like crap i still want her back. i need advice on how i can convince her that im the man she should be with and no one else



Even if she hadn't made you "feel like crap" ... if she doesn't want you, it really doesn't matter if you want her. Sorry, bud.

catseyes1's photo
Sat 07/11/09 10:57 AM
Why would you want someone back who treated you like crap? You deserve better than that. Anyways I would not do anything as of now, wait it out. She may come to realize she has lost a good person.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 07/11/09 10:59 AM
Flash some paper


Def03's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:00 AM
If you have to ask...then she didnt really give a damn in the first place.

msmyka's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:01 AM
The harder you try the less she will want you... so don't try. If she cares she will come back, if she doesn't then you can force someone who doesn't care about you to be with you.

brokenwings30's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:02 AM
awww Im sorry,You deserve better,In my opinion you should move on,if she cant see what a good guy you are ,her lossflowerforyou

Def03's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:05 AM

The harder you try the less she will want you... so don't try. If she cares she will come back, if she doesn't then you can force someone who doesn't care about you to be with you.

ouch...did you type that wrong?pitchfork

southern_bee's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:38 AM
well if he wants to be with someone thats has his balls in her purse then thats his choice!id much rather see him happy and out of pain but some people have to either learn the hard way or be a glutton for punishment!

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Sat 07/11/09 01:16 PM


The harder you try the less she will want you... so don't try. If she cares she will come back, if she doesn't then you can force someone who doesn't care about you to be with you.

ouch...did you type that wrong?pitchfork



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