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You know, I have never complained about the way any woman behaved in any relationship I've been sense high school. I accept them unconditionally as they are. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/268535 what's that you said about not complaining?  You are taking me out of context. I have NEVER COMPLAINED TO A WOMAN I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ABOUT THE WAY SHE BEHAVES. I do however complain that women (in general) complain so much. I love sterotyping conversations...lol for me , personally, the men I have chosen (and I'm saying me)have been eye wanderers and quite immature, hardly ever wanting to confront problems in the relationship...instead trying to run away from communicating. That's the BS I put up with for years!! Also, if they didn't get the attention (sex usually) they wanted, they felt justified in seeking it elsewhere. However, if I ever did that, I'd be labeled a whore! ALL men aren't bad...but neither are ALL women over 20 years of age nags and *******. If someone in their 20's is what you want...I;m sure you two would have alot in common...just sayin'...  It sounds to me like you are complaining about men's natural behavior, our evolutionary programming to have sex with as many women as we can. If this is the case it's natural for you to resent it as that's your evolutionary programming. Just saying what? That I must be a hell of an interesting man to attract a beautiful, young woman that men everywhere, both young and old, are trying to get with? Thank you! lmaooooooooo...if that's how you take the "just sayin" remark...then there's nothing left to say that would make any sense to you. A 20 year old might see you as a father figure if they're from a dysfunctional family..THAT is all I could see that would make sense to me, here comes that "just sayin'" remark again..  
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You know, I have never complained about the way any woman behaved in any relationship I've been sense high school. I accept them unconditionally as they are. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/268535 what's that you said about not complaining? You are taking me out of context. I have NEVER COMPLAINED TO A WOMAN I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ABOUT THE WAY SHE BEHAVES. I do however complain that women (in general) complain so much. I love sterotyping conversations...lol for me , personally, the men I have chosen (and I'm saying me)have been eye wanderers and quite immature, hardly ever wanting to confront problems in the relationship...instead trying to run away from communicating. That's the BS I put up with for years!! Also, if they didn't get the attention (sex usually) they wanted, they felt justified in seeking it elsewhere. However, if I ever did that, I'd be labeled a whore! ALL men aren't bad...but neither are ALL women over 20 years of age nags and *******. If someone in their 20's is what you want...I;m sure you two would have alot in common...just sayin'... It sounds to me like you are complaining about men's natural behavior, our evolutionary programming to have sex with as many women as we can. If this is the case it's natural for you to resent it as that's your evolutionary programming i'm really amused here's a lady who is giving you examples of possible BS and crap for which you specifically asked and here comes you attemtping to negate her reasons and telling her it's something else. maybe some BS that women put up with is men who think they know everything, attempt to speak/think for someone else, and hear only what they want. |
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i'm really amused here's a lady who is giving you examples of possible BS and crap for which you specifically asked and here comes you attemtping to negate her reasons and telling her it's something else. maybe some BS that women put up with is men who think they know everything, attempt to speak/think for someone else, and hear only what they want. Ding Ding Ding, we have a winner. 
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I love that smiley, yellowrose! I mean, the soda AND the popcorn. It cracks me up every time you use it for some reason.
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I love that smiley, yellowrose! I mean, the soda AND the popcorn. It cracks me up every time you use it for some reason.   |
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Edited by
LeighAnna9
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Tue 04/06/10 08:44 PM
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I'm assuming my earlier post in this thread was overlooked, so I'm reposting it since the OP wants to know what "crap" women refuse to put up. Read it carefully, I don't want to post it again, I hate repeating myself.
 "I usually don't respond to threads like these but it's Thursday and I'm feeling punchy, so here goes, the "crap" I refuse to put up with from any man: Lying- in any form, I don't believe in "little white lies" a lie is a lie, if you can't be completely honest with me, move along, cheating, making promises they have no intention of ever keeping, ignoring me, abuse- mental, verbal, physical or emotional, not having enough time for me, selfishness, poor hygiene, never having anything positive to say about anyone, treating me like a maid/servant, pressuring me to do things I'm not comfortable with, trying to "handle" me, ie. telling me what they think I want to hear and then going off and doing whatever they damn well please, not calling when they say they will, being unavailable all the time, everyone comes before me, excessive arrogance, no ambition or drive to be anything more than what they already are, not listening, devaluing everything that is important to me, jealousy, trying to control me, expecting me to always build up their ego while not giving a **** about mine, being inconsiderate of my feelings, making lame excuses, and cowardice. I'm sure I've missed a few, but that's what I've come up with so far. I'd rather die alone than spend 5 minutes with any man who thinks he is so freaking amazing that I'm supposed to put up with his "crap" just to be with him. Relationships should be about give and take, if one person is doing all the giving, and the other person is doing all the taking, that's not a relationship, it's a business arrangement, and unless the pay is huge, it's not worth it to me. Life's too short; if someone isn't what you want in every way, it's best to just move on. That's what I always do. "
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 I'm assuming my earlier post in this thread was overlooked, so I'm reposting it since the OP wants to know what "crap" women refuse to put up. Read it carefully, I don't want to post it again, I hate repeating myself. "I usually don't respond to threads like these but it's Thursday and I'm feeling punchy, so here goes, the "crap" I refuse to put up with from any man: Lying- in any form, I don't believe in "little white lies" a lie is a lie, if you can't be completely honest with me, move along, cheating, making promises they have no intention of ever keeping, ignoring me, abuse- mental, verbal, physical or emotional, not having enough time for me, selfishness, poor hygiene, never having anything positive to say about anyone, treating me like a maid/servant, pressuring me to do things I'm not comfortable with, trying to "handle" me, ie. telling me what they think I want to hear and then going off and doing whatever they damn well please, not calling when they say they will, being unavailable all the time, everyone comes before me, excessive arrogance, no ambition or drive to be anything more than what they already are, not listening, devaluing everything that is important to me, jealousy, trying to control me, expecting me to always build up their ego while not giving a **** about mine, being inconsiderate of my feelings, making lame excuses, and cowardice. I'm sure I've missed a few, but that's what I've come up with so far. I'd rather die alone than spend 5 minutes with any man who thinks he is so freaking amazing that I'm supposed to put up with his "crap" just to be with him. Relationships should be about give and take, if one person is doing all the giving, and the other person is doing all the taking, that's not a relationship, it's a business arrangement, and unless the pay is huge, it's not worth it to me. Life's too short; if someone isn't what you want in every way, it's best to just move on. That's what I always do. " it's pointless leighanne...he only hears what he wants...lmaoooo but good read |
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Thanks Lady. I reposted it in case it was overlooked. I won't be posting again, beating my head against a brick wall hurts after a while.
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I've seen a number of women posting about the "crap" or "bullsh!t" they have to put up with from men, but I've never understood what it is. I'm curious to learn if it's something that's simply the nature of men, like not even seeing a mess, or if it's something else. So please ladies, explain to me exactly what this BS is you have to put up with from so many men. Now see that's crap b/c I am single and divorced and I don't complain about men's crap.... Can we stop generalizing and sounding negative? I'm going with Paper once again... And leighann's comments were overlooked as well... Could this be another case of "The OP not hearing what they want so they overlook all answers that don't go with their train of thought?".... I get so tired of those types of posts... If you can't open your mind to what others are saying when you ask then you shouldn't ask.. That's mean for all posts where the OP does this... 
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..i always thought that profiles were meant to entice,but some just seem like an extensions of a bytch session from the past ..one that will play itself through on a date...one that i'll be sure to avoid ... 
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Please follow the instructions..........read very carefully for you are not getting your point across here..........hehehehe
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dang it Kristi. I almost broke my monitor. and I have a head ache too
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Please follow the instructions..........read very carefully for you are not getting your point across here..........hehehehe 
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You know, I have never complained about the way any woman behaved in any relationship I've been sense high school. I accept them unconditionally as they are. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/268535 what's that you said about not complaining? You are taking me out of context. I have NEVER COMPLAINED TO A WOMAN I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ABOUT THE WAY SHE BEHAVES. I do however complain that women (in general) complain so much. I love sterotyping conversations...lol for me , personally, the men I have chosen (and I'm saying me)have been eye wanderers and quite immature, hardly ever wanting to confront problems in the relationship...instead trying to run away from communicating. That's the BS I put up with for years!! Also, if they didn't get the attention (sex usually) they wanted, they felt justified in seeking it elsewhere. However, if I ever did that, I'd be labeled a whore! ALL men aren't bad...but neither are ALL women over 20 years of age nags and *******. If someone in their 20's is what you want...I;m sure you two would have alot in common...just sayin'... It sounds to me like you are complaining about men's natural behavior, our evolutionary programming to have sex with as many women as we can. If this is the case it's natural for you to resent it as that's your evolutionary programming. Men's natural behavior? I don't think so. I've never been with a man that acts like that. |
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You know, I have never complained about the way any woman behaved in any relationship I've been sense high school. I accept them unconditionally as they are. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/268535 what's that you said about not complaining? You are taking me out of context. I have NEVER COMPLAINED TO A WOMAN I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ABOUT THE WAY SHE BEHAVES. I do however complain that women (in general) complain so much. I love sterotyping conversations...lol for me , personally, the men I have chosen (and I'm saying me)have been eye wanderers and quite immature, hardly ever wanting to confront problems in the relationship...instead trying to run away from communicating. That's the BS I put up with for years!! Also, if they didn't get the attention (sex usually) they wanted, they felt justified in seeking it elsewhere. However, if I ever did that, I'd be labeled a whore! ALL men aren't bad...but neither are ALL women over 20 years of age nags and *******. If someone in their 20's is what you want...I;m sure you two would have alot in common...just sayin'... It sounds to me like you are complaining about men's natural behavior, our evolutionary programming to have sex with as many women as we can. If this is the case it's natural for you to resent it as that's your evolutionary programming. Men's natural behavior? I don't think so. I've never been with a man that acts like that. OMG I so missed that Winx.. That's one of the most assinine statements I've ever heard.... I'm really thinking topics like these are lost causes and by posting in them we're just pushing a lost cause along... I think I'm done with any of these, the most I got out of it was the feeling of throwing up at the raging ego of the empty pointless abyss.... |
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..i always thought that profiles were meant to entice,but some just seem like an extensions of a bytch session from the past ..one that will play itself through on a date...one that i'll be sure to avoid ... guees you'd love my profile then...lmaoooo 
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..i always thought that profiles were meant to entice,but some just seem like an extensions of a bytch session from the past ..one that will play itself through on a date...one that i'll be sure to avoid ... guees you'd love my profile then...lmaoooo I peeked.
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Sits down with the ladies, eating popcorn and enjoying the show. 
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