Topic: What Crap?
papersmile's photo
Tue 03/30/10 01:04 AM
Why do any of you care who I date? It's got nothing to do with you.


i don't care.

i'm just curious as to what sort of women like to date men who refuse to pick up after themselves.

MeShell77345's photo
Tue 03/30/10 04:08 AM

I've seen a number of women posting about the "crap" or "bullsh!t" they have to put up with from men, but I've never understood what it is. I'm curious to learn if it's something that's simply the nature of men, like not even seeing a mess, or if it's something else.

So please ladies, explain to me exactly what this BS is you have to put up with from so many men.


I think the only reason anyone cares about who you date might stem from the fact that you start threads such as this, wonder why you get a bunch of BS, then post pix of your latest find from the cradle.

It all goes back to that you date young because their BS detectors aren't fully developed. They are happy to be treated the way daddy respects them. (I'm being totally generalizing here and know nothing of these girls other than they are cool hanging out w/someone nearly 3x their age and with you posting kissyface pix w/them w/in a week)

Seems to me you are the common demoninator and are pretty set in your ways to even see that things so small that are so easy to do to keep your partner happy. When in a relationship, mature adults take their partners happiness into consideration in everything they do without question or complaint. It's called compassion, consideration, respect, etc.. Walking together - happy - down life's path

hard concepts.. but..

you keep starting these threads.. maybe one day something will sink in.

newarkjw's photo
Tue 03/30/10 04:12 AM
Scoundrel sure can stir up ladies.........laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 03/30/10 04:37 AM
This all started with a pair of socks....

I always said....


Socks and underwear...




Are sooooooooo overrated!!!!:heart:

no photo
Tue 03/30/10 06:04 AM
Both genders certainly seem to pull a lot of crap.

rara777's photo
Tue 03/30/10 06:05 AM

When the crap hits the fan I step around it & move on. I don't care to beat the dead horse & stir up the flies.


:thumbsup: There ya go. Good point. :thumbsup:

LewisW123's photo
Tue 03/30/10 06:09 AM

Scoundrel sure can stir up ladies.........laugh



Maybe that was the actual point of this thread. I have to admit, I have enjoyed reading it. laugh

Quietman_2009's photo
Tue 03/30/10 08:06 AM



BECAUSE IT DOESN'T FRIGGIN MATTER!!


and because it doesn't 'friggen' matter to you, it shouldn't friggen matter to anyone else either? frustrated


There are too many things that really do matter. Why argue about the BS that really doesn't matter? When you get involved with someone you have to take the good with the bad. If leaving socks on the floor is as bad as it gets I'd say you found yourself a good man.

It seems a good number of women want to throw the baby out with the bath water. As I've said before, if he or she does or doesn't do something that bothers you take a minute and decide if you can live with it or not. If you can never mention it again. If you can't get out of the relationship.

Do you really want to spend your energy fighting about socks or some other little thing? It just doesn't make sense to me.


let me rephrase:

if he wants a blow job, he'll pick up his socks. bigsmile


I pick up my socks

I even go buy more socks just so I can pick em up

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 03/30/10 08:17 AM
Lmao!!!!!
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :banana: drool :heart:

bastet126's photo
Tue 03/30/10 08:44 AM

it's jMO of course, but this all sounds so benign to me. only a robot could really give someone what you're looking for. we all start out as blank pieces of paper. fact is, a 19 year old will experience life and bring those into her world, and at 32, she'll be that undateable woman to you just because she's lived a little now and knows what she wants and doesn't want, just like you. i just don't see anything of long term substance coming into a relationship built on two different realities of the world. but, it's what works for you that matters.

MeShell77345's photo
Tue 03/30/10 11:11 AM
^^ what she said.

if it works for you and that's what you want.. rock on.

... does your 18 yr old son hook you up?

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 03/30/10 11:32 AM


I've seen a number of women posting about the "crap" or "bullsh!t" they have to put up with from men, but I've never understood what it is. I'm curious to learn if it's something that's simply the nature of men, like not even seeing a mess, or if it's something else.

So please ladies, explain to me exactly what this BS is you have to put up with from so many men.


I think the only reason anyone cares about who you date might stem from the fact that you start threads such as this, wonder why you get a bunch of BS, then post pix of your latest find from the cradle.

It all goes back to that you date young because their BS detectors aren't fully developed. They are happy to be treated the way daddy respects them. (I'm being totally generalizing here and know nothing of these girls other than they are cool hanging out w/someone nearly 3x their age and with you posting kissyface pix w/them w/in a week)

Seems to me you are the common demoninator and are pretty set in your ways to even see that things so small that are so easy to do to keep your partner happy. When in a relationship, mature adults take their partners happiness into consideration in everything they do without question or complaint. It's called compassion, consideration, respect, etc.. Walking together - happy - down life's path

hard concepts.. but..

you keep starting these threads.. maybe one day something will sink in.


:thumbsup:

DaveyB's photo
Tue 03/30/10 12:33 PM

Why do any of you care who I date? It's got nothing to do with you.


Unlike you I like women, and people in general. I think everyone deserves to be treated with respect as long as they treat others with respect. So when I see a situation where it is unlikely that someone, particularly a younger person is getting that, it bothers me... But then that's JMO :smile:

Dragoness's photo
Tue 03/30/10 01:47 PM
Edited by Dragoness on Tue 03/30/10 01:49 PM
People who date younger as a preference usually have control issues.

It is easier to control and manipulate the inexperienced, period.

I have dated both older and younger. The young men want to be dominated and controlled to a certain extent. They also believe they fall in love almost every time so it is a boost to the old ego. I found that I did not like to be that painful lesson for them so I quit dating the younger impressionable men because I am a mature woman who knows and they are not yet.

As for older, the generation gap is a ***** to get through. The older men also felt that I should take all they say as gold, which wasn't happening because I am just not made that way.

So I am making an adult decision to not date younger because they are too easy to take advantage of and not date older because I don't have daddy issues.

MOOC

bsdetector's photo
Tue 03/30/10 02:00 PM
Edited by bsdetector on Tue 03/30/10 02:02 PM

Why do any of you care who I date? It's got nothing to do with you.


You're right that who you date has nothing to do with anyone on this site unless you would try to date one of their teenage daughters. I know if you ever even looked at mine it would make my skin crawl.

However, obviously YOU care what people think. Why else would you use that photo? You care because you want to show off. LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT WHO I CAN GET. I think you're a laugh

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 03/30/10 02:17 PM
Can't ya just feel the love pouring out here?


Now where the h@ll did I put my socks?

MeShell77345's photo
Tue 03/30/10 02:33 PM

Can't ya just feel the love pouring out here?


Now where the h@ll did I put my socks?


remember, you picked them up so you could get that blowjob. :wink:

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 03/30/10 02:38 PM
Ok, soooooo, where issssss it?????????

no photo
Tue 03/30/10 02:41 PM


i'm curious as to whether you photoshop the women making out with you in your photos? and do you post them so that we think you're in high demand?

that's kind of cool how you have so many different babes in your life.

interchangable. like socks. laugh




Sense you asked, the young lady in the photo to the left is someone I started dating last week. I met her on another free dating site. She is 5'7" and weighs about 135lbs. She is also 19 years old.

(Edit)

I will freely admit that I drop women that are not up to my standards. Attracting women isn't so hard that I have to put up with drugs, nagging or manipulation. These are my deal breakers. Other than these things I ask nothing of her. I expect the same in return.


I'm 43. My son is 16. I prefer not to date his friends, or guys that could be. Gross. noway surprised

papersmile's photo
Tue 03/30/10 02:42 PM


Can't ya just feel the love pouring out here?


Now where the h@ll did I put my socks?


remember, you picked them up so you could get that blowjob. :wink:


i think that was robin. laugh and i think i just might add socks to his birthday list. drool