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Besides that OP, why not admit that you like the fact the girls you date have daddy issues and hang on your every word.
Why not be honest with yourself and everyone else that it makes your life easier to have a partner who lets you do as you like and believes that it makes them appear mature to do so. The control freaks and the girls with daddy issue have to have someone to love, right? So no harm no foul. |
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i've dated older before and have no daddy issues.
my father is the greatest man i've ever known and is a wonderful parent and devoted husband. i don't think that just because someone dates older/younger, they automatically have issues. |
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Edited by
Dragoness
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Tue 03/30/10 03:20 PM
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I have dated older and I don't know if I have daddy issues and most women don't know if they do.
Dating older did not work out for me so I am assuming that I don't have daddy issues. I believe if someone specifically dates only older men, they either have an agenda or issues, same for dating only younger. Goes for both sexes. Again I will say there is no harm and no foul if both parties are getting what they need from the other but to deny there is an issue there is not being honest with oneself or everyone else for that matter although being dishonest with yourself is more harmful. |
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OH! a sock!
quick! pick it up! |
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Edited by
papersmile
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Tue 03/30/10 04:16 PM
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smartass (beats a dumbass at least)
you don't have to pick up anything at all and i will still keep loving you. you've just got it all and have totally and forever endeared yourself to me. (not bad for a dumbass redneck  )
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I can't stand LIES.
 I would rather know what I'm dealing with no matter what.
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Why do any of you care who I date? It's got nothing to do with you. i don't care. i'm just curious as to what sort of women like to date men who refuse to pick up after themselves. I do pick up after myself. Socks on the floor was an example someone else gave and I thought it was as good an issue as any to make my point with. Panties drying on the shower rod was only an example of something a woman might do that may annoy some men. It could easily be be anything. I knew one woman that complained her man hung his underware on the door knob. I've known women that didn't shave all winter. So, socks on the floor is simply whatever thing a man does that bothers women while panties drying on the shower rod is whatever a woman does that bothers her man. Get it? |
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I've seen a number of women posting about the "crap" or "bullsh!t" they have to put up with from men, but I've never understood what it is. I'm curious to learn if it's something that's simply the nature of men, like not even seeing a mess, or if it's something else. So please ladies, explain to me exactly what this BS is you have to put up with from so many men. I think the only reason anyone cares about who you date might stem from the fact that you start threads such as this, wonder why you get a bunch of BS, then post pix of your latest find from the cradle. It all goes back to that you date young because their BS detectors aren't fully developed. They are happy to be treated the way daddy respects them. (I'm being totally generalizing here and know nothing of these girls other than they are cool hanging out w/someone nearly 3x their age and with you posting kissyface pix w/them w/in a week) Seems to me you are the common demoninator and are pretty set in your ways to even see that things so small that are so easy to do to keep your partner happy. When in a relationship, mature adults take their partners happiness into consideration in everything they do without question or complaint. It's called compassion, consideration, respect, etc.. Walking together - happy - down life's path hard concepts.. but.. you keep starting these threads.. maybe one day something will sink in. You have made exactly the point I am asking about. You said "...their BS detectors aren't fully developed." What BS are you talking about? The new girl I'm seeing knows I have a low paying job, drive a cheap car, that i have bad teeth and that I may be seeing other women. WTF is this BS women like you keep bringing up? I have never said one shouldn't think about their lover's happiness. What I am saying is once you start taking responsibility for another person's emotions you begin giving that person more value than you give yourself. No one respects someone that doesn't respect themself. Yes I do things for my woman. But, I do not change myself for her. I am who I am and cannot change. She must love me warts and all or leave. If she isn't mature enough to understand this I'm better off without her. |
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Scoundrel sure can stir up ladies.........  I start threads about things I am genuinely curious about. For some reason they always seem to turn into a battle between the sexes. I don't usually learn anything, but it does usually reinforce what I already knew. |
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it's jMO of course, but this all sounds so benign to me. only a robot could really give someone what you're looking for. we all start out as blank pieces of paper. fact is, a 19 year old will experience life and bring those into her world, and at 32, she'll be that undateable woman to you just because she's lived a little now and knows what she wants and doesn't want, just like you. i just don't see anything of long term substance coming into a relationship built on two different realities of the world. but, it's what works for you that matters. I can only date a woman that's willing to date me. If a 45 year old turns me down, but a 25 year old says yes, I'm going to date the 25 year old. I don't see anything wrong with this and don't understand why someone else might. Maybe the 45 year old's BS detector isn't working properly because I'm a good, honest, hard working man that doesn't BS about anything. I say exactly what I want and exactly what I'm willing to give. I live by my own moral code and I never play head games. I'm fun and playful. I tease and flirt. I'm a hell of a catch for any woman. I'm also happy in my life and don't need complaining about some non issue that doesn't matter anyway. There are too many real problems in life to sweat the small stuff. |
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it's jMO of course, but this all sounds so benign to me. only a robot could really give someone what you're looking for. we all start out as blank pieces of paper. fact is, a 19 year old will experience life and bring those into her world, and at 32, she'll be that undateable woman to you just because she's lived a little now and knows what she wants and doesn't want, just like you. i just don't see anything of long term substance coming into a relationship built on two different realities of the world. but, it's what works for you that matters. I can only date a woman that's willing to date me. If a 45 year old turns me down, but a 25 year old says yes, I'm going to date the 25 year old. I don't see anything wrong with this and don't understand why someone else might. Maybe the 45 year old's BS detector isn't working properly because I'm a good, honest, hard working man that doesn't BS about anything. I say exactly what I want and exactly what I'm willing to give. I live by my own moral code and I never play head games. I'm fun and playful. I tease and flirt. I'm a hell of a catch for any woman. I'm also happy in my life and don't need complaining about some non issue that doesn't matter anyway. There are too many real problems in life to sweat the small stuff. live life, be happy. that's all we can really be responsible for. i say, good luck to you 
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Why do any of you care who I date? It's got nothing to do with you. You're right that who you date has nothing to do with anyone on this site unless you would try to date one of their teenage daughters. I know if you ever even looked at mine it would make my skin crawl. However, obviously YOU care what people think. Why else would you use that photo? You care because you want to show off. LOOK AT ME! LOOK AT WHO I CAN GET. I think you're a laugh Yes, and I have to wonder if any of these teenage girls posing in his profile pics are aware that their pics are being used as an "ad" to show how incredibly desirable he is for the purposes of finding OTHER young ladies... 
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Yes, and I have to wonder if any of these teenage girls posing in his profile pics are aware that their pics are being used as an "ad" to show how incredibly desirable he is for the purposes of finding OTHER young ladies... An ad for how desirable I am? Is that what you see? LOL Do you find me more desirable because of these pics? If not then that must not be the reason Inpostd them. Yes, all the ladies know the pics are on the web. They are all tagged on my face book. |
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Scoundrel sure can stir up ladies......... I start threads about things I am genuinely curious about. For some reason they always seem to turn into a battle between the sexes. I don't usually learn anything, but it does usually reinforce what I already knew. I'm a strong believer in the way one presents things and responds "often" sets the tone for how it's received and others react to it... |
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Edited by
MeShell77345
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Wed 03/31/10 02:04 PM
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I am who I am and cannot change. cannot or refuse to? ... this is the type of BS that is detected with a proper BS detector. Change is one of the only constants in life... dirty socks ... wet panties... and bad teeth.  (I really am just busting your chops, this doesn't affect me, but I'd be concerned if my neices in your preferred dating pool age were to hook up with the likes of a scoundrel like you.) |
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it's jMO of course, but this all sounds so benign to me. only a robot could really give someone what you're looking for. we all start out as blank pieces of paper. fact is, a 19 year old will experience life and bring those into her world, and at 32, she'll be that undateable woman to you just because she's lived a little now and knows what she wants and doesn't want, just like you. i just don't see anything of long term substance coming into a relationship built on two different realities of the world. but, it's what works for you that matters. I can only date a woman that's willing to date me. If a 45 year old turns me down, but a 25 year old says yes, I'm going to date the 25 year old. I don't see anything wrong with this and don't understand why someone else might. I think that is one of the key points TS.. 45 yr olds, won't date you b/c they won't put up with the things you've stated you won't do to make them feel comfortable.. Whether you meant them all literally or not you've stated these things as "fact".. So rather than look at yourself and say "hmmmm maybe I should reflect and see if I can do things different if I meet a person worth it", you instead make blanket statements about middle aged women.. You and I have gone round and round before on this topic regarding blanket statements bashing/trashing women your age b/c they won't date you... I'm a hell of a catch for any woman. I think that's a matter of perception... I know you're not a hell of a catch for me in any way shape or form... You may be a helluva catch for a woman that wants your personality traits but to say for "any" woman is stretching it a bit, even for your ego... I'm also happy in my life and don't need complaining about some non issue that doesn't matter anyway. There are too many real problems in life to sweat the small stuff. Once again, a "non issue" to you may be an issue to someone else.. If you don't care about someone enough then it remains a non issue.. Once you care about someone deeply you should be willing to compromise and work on things.. If not then the only person you truly love would be yourself and I'm going to wager that you won't be physically able to date 19 yr olds in another 10 or so years.. |
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Yeah the crap of the crappy crap of the crappiest. Women are more open about it. Men tend to just look down at the floor instead.
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Hey TS
since when do you care about the BS detectors?? Haha live your life have fun stir it up Date who ya want. When ya want. Were ya want. How ya want leave a trail of socks wherever ya go!!!!!! Bs detector. Lol. Where exactly is that located. In my uterus? In my pinkie? In a mans penis?? Where??? Haha. What a funny name! Lol. Just my lil ole humble opinion only!!!! (kiss)  |
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I think that is one of the key points TS.. 45 yr olds, won't date you b/c they won't put up with the things you've stated you won't do to make them feel comfortable.. Whether you meant them all literally or not you've stated these things as "fact".. So rather than look at yourself and say "hmmmm maybe I should reflect and see if I can do things different if I meet a person worth it", you instead make blanket statements about middle aged women.. You and I have gone round and round before on this topic regarding blanket statements bashing/trashing women your age b/c they won't date you... Firstly, the vast majority of women I talk to over about 35 turn me down before they take the time to know the first thing about me other than I know how to dress well. So, they know nothing about any of the issues you speak of. I say hello, introduce myself and shake hands. A 20 something smiles and warms while an oder woman eyes me suspiciously. Older women appear to assume I'm after something. One female poster on this forum that has met me face to face suggested that many women may think I'm "too good to be true." Those are her words. I have spent a great deal of time looking at myself. I've been on the road of self improvement most of my life. If I speak generally it's because what I am saying is generally true. I go out often and talk to 30 or 40 different women a week and have been doing so for about 10 years now. I think that's a matter of perception... I know you're not a hell of a catch for me in any way shape or form... You may be a helluva catch for a woman that wants your personality traits but to say for "any" woman is stretching it a bit, even for your ego... Well, I'm smart, fun, live an interesting life that I enjoy, I'm healthy, a good lover and never lie or play head games. My ego is healthy. That means that I'm comfortable in my skin and confident in what I know. I'm open minded. I know exactly what it would take to change my mind about any opinion I have. Yeah, I'm a hell of a guy. Many people in the forums think I'm arrogant. But, that because you can't hear the tone in my voice and see my body language when I'm say9ng something. I'm really very charming. Ask anyone that's met me face to face. Once again, a "non issue" to you may be an issue to someone else.. If you don't care about someone enough then it remains a non issue.. Once you care about someone deeply you should be willing to compromise and work on things.. If not then the only person you truly love would be yourself and I'm going to wager that you won't be physically able to date 19 yr olds in another 10 or so years.. Once again, it's stupid to argue about something like socks on the floor or a shirt with a hole or a silly hat he likes to wear. There are too many things in life that really matter. Why would you want to spend your energy arguing about socks or some other silly thing is beyond me. Is your man beating you? Cheating? Spending three times more than he makes every week? Does he take hard drugs? Drink to excess? These are things worth arguing over. These are big issue that can cause real problems. If your man doesn't have any of these problems why would a woman argue about the small stuff? When my woman does something that annoys me I remind myself how much I love her, smile and kiss her. But, maybe I'm stronger than most. I don't know. I only know a few of really happy couples. They all have the ability to ignore this small stuff. They all love each other enough to let the small things go. I suggest you talk to some couples that have been together longer than 20 years and ask them if they argue about things like socks in the floor or forgotten milk. |
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I am who I am and cannot change. cannot or refuse to? ... this is the type of BS that is detected with a proper BS detector. Change is one of the only constants in life... dirty socks ... wet panties... and bad teeth. (I really am just busting your chops, this doesn't affect me, but I'd be concerned if my neices in your preferred dating pool age were to hook up with the likes of a scoundrel like you.) I am ADD. No, I cannot change this. Any woman that wants to be with me must get used to me forgetting things. There is nothing I can do about it. I have already answered your other points. |
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