I like what Paul Newman said about his 50 year marriage with Joan Woodward.
Why go out for a hamburger when you have a nice steak waiting for you at home.
A lucky man to have a woman at home he still adored even after 50 years and not interested in changing the menu or wanting to sample something new as he already had the best, she was the one he wanted and won the heart of.
When your with the one you love that loves you, there is no one that can give you more than what you already have.
Paul Newman could have had almost any woman in the world in his day that he wanted, he found the one he wanted that wanted him back and never lost his interest or love for her as his choice.
Love is magic.
His winning smile radiated that he was happy and it was the key to his success and fame. This is what the love of a good woman in a man's life can do in bringing out the best in him and visa versa. One is enough for anyone when you realize what you have is a one of a kind and that person chose you out of all the choices in the world.
At a big gathering of stars and important people gathered to honor academy award winners and nominees and upcoming stars to mingle and party as the evening is still young and the party gaining momentum Mr. Newman apologizes for wanting to leave such a fine gathering so early to be somewhere else he needs to be and say's goodnight to all with a smile.
What else cold be more important to be than amongst his colleagues and friends honoring his latest success that could be more important. His smile told all that knew him well that he was headed home as he had a nice steak waiting for home at home and something to smile about when he got home.

steak sounds good

Well said, Phd!

A man and a woman in love do not need to look beyond each other for anything. Paul Newmen after 50 years of marriage was asked if he ever messed around with any women other than his wife during his career and all that offered themselves to him.His reply was why should I go out to have a hamburger when I have a steak at home.
Love is the answer to being happy and satisfied in a relationship. A woman in love that is totally into her man can keep him completely satisfied with more than he could ever keep up with so the excuse he needs an open relationship to mess around with other woman is a flag that his mate is not doing it for him and if he wants her to accept this behavior and go out and sleep with other men then he doesn't care if he loses her to another man. I f she needs to go out and find a man outside of the relationship to hop into bed with to give her what she is not getting at home to satisfy her sexually or the need to be touched then her mate is not her mate.
The people that live the the lifestyles of the rich and selfish will never be representatives of the common people and yet every election we get to see the rich ply for our votes to get into office to do the bidding of special interest groups that put up the money for their campaign but lie that they are going to fight for changes that are correct the wrongs being done to the common people.They lie ,they get our vote and the office to make changes and then they do for the wealthy like themselves that put up the funding to get them in office to do their bidding and carry out the agenda that has been planned out in advance, and nothing for public who's vote was gotten with lies that were never part of the true agenda the candidate intended to keep.
Again and again we get played by these two groups that represent the rich so no matter wich way we vote or who gets in office we think things are going to change but they are not. A rich man will never give the poor a fair shake on any kind of deal and we keep falling for the same old flim flam and deception every election. The rich are never going to represent the interests of the working class citizen and spend our taxes on anything that will give give the poor releif from the oppression of the rich and powerful that have everything rigged for their best interests and the people in place to ensure that nothing is going to chance to give us a far del. Never give a sucker a fair deal is the rule over the working class and poor. The rich do not get richer by giving anyone a fair break and we are all fools for continuing to vote for rich people running for office with millions and millions in campaign donations provided by corporations investing millions so shier representative gets the office to push things that they will profit from a hundred times their donated investment so their man was the man to get in office and joe citizen gets nothing but deceived again the internet has made the purchasing of both sides candidates totally obvious as either side plays out the same agenda . This all playys out on a stage with verbal battle and debate in mock battle like a tug of war. The losing side will throw the election at some point having divided the publics power or who is the better candidate and they will get the one they intended to win anyway and the public will think that they had influence because they vote and made a difference. Rep or Dem either way we get the same in action it's as a flim flam that defense and prosecution attorneys play out in courts every day as being against each other on the stage and go play golf to settle the case in private before the case is closed in court. The act of opposition as enemies in court is all an act for show as both sides are feeding out of the same pool of funds to battle again in court another day and neither side ever going broke. We the citizens need to realize that we are being manipulated my the media and those on the big screen and realize that almost every thing that is not a documentary is about fake people and fake stories being played out as if these things are real just to entertain us and steer our thinking and reactions about what is going on in the world so we never see the true picture or react to the things we should be demanding the media to keep us informed of like the poisoning of the pacific ocean by radiation of the japanese fukashima nuclear reactor plant meltdowns that has created a situation that out of control and is sending poison to us in the usa and nothing is being done to stop it by letting humanity gang up on it and dump a hundred million tons of concrete on the entire area to stop the poisoning of the ocean that the world depends that is one ocean that will in time become a body of atomic water poisoned with elements that kill anything that lives and if nothing is done to stop is being poisoned soon by japans reactors the end of life on earth will be doomed to extinction. Japan has refused to allow other countries access openly to help without restrictions of access and the world needs to tell them to stand aside if they are not going to do what needs to be done to contain the leak no matter what it takes or we will with the nations of the world joining to save our world if they can't figure it out.People are getting sick and tired of political factions controlling the media keeping the public from knowing about things like this world disaster from being the most threatening thing to all of humanity to ever happen so the people of the world can have some say about it and what is going on that is a threat directly to every human being on earth now and in our new future. Global warming and making more atomic energy plants will do no good if the ocean of the entire world becomes empty of all lif and rain on land is radiated from the poison in the oceans water supply that waters the land as the source. Humanity wont have to worry about atomic war or global warming or about who isn't being honest in world governments because when the ocean poisoned and all living organisms and fishes transfer their death from radiation to each other in the food chain everything in the see if eaten will be a curse of death and all of these creatures will die also from radiation poisoning see fukashima update 2015 on youtube or google it and know what is being kept from the people of the world in a massive coverup. I have been trying to not react and keep this to myself but I think people need to know about this if our lives will be cut short so we can each do something special with the short time left rather that wait for months or years before the media tells us that this evil is upon us and there is nothing we can do because they let it go to long .

Women have the lock men have the key.. now if a Mans key was only meant to open one lock.. I would imagine it would be so... But a men's key fits all the locks.. ok almost all of the locks some locks are a little too big or a little too small ..same thing goes for the keys.. oh and sometimes the key holder doesn't know how to jiggle the key properly to get it into the lock ...you know to open up the lock lol.. sometimes those locks can be a bit sticky and tricky lol..... but my point is if we are only meant to be with one person our entire lives ! our keys Would only fit one lock.. ..
geez I thought finding a date was hard enough.. now I have to find the lock that fits my keys ..
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So you feel you are a key holder? One size fits most so they say, but those usually don't really do the trick.

But feeling the need to unlock as many locks as possible ... quite a heavy load to carry around.

Me, I'm looking for a man who doesn't wield a skeleton key ... I've found that those usually aren't all that satisfying... maybe too much wear and tear, lol ...

I guess I'm looking for a more specialized key... one that opens my and soul so the rest feels like heaven as well

Awww... you always know exactly how to make me feel special one of a kind

Lol ... you called me a naughty Domme... meaning I'm going to have to make you tone it down a bit and spank that sexy hiney with virtual slaps
... but ... you are special! I've even seen pretty glass storage jars in the shops saying "No1"... I even considered getting myself one, so at least I have my own No1. To stick it in the kitchen of course, which is where a good subbie should be

I like the details about the lock and the key and the he jiggling the key just right to open it and not all keys being the same size as there are more than one lock and not all keys are the same size and some just will never fit to unlock the locks needing something else to unlock the heart and the answer is love and though it can not be seen visibly like the key or the lock it has the power to pass through the hardened metal parts and pass right into to the heart of the soul when all of the other locks have have with patience and some guidance and help of a woman the secrets to open them can be learned so they all are lined up and jiggled open but the the one that needs to me opened the most to find the treasure is the heart and it must be opened with love. Though unproven I believe that it is the ability to bring love and affecting into the relationship with women by men that can take the experience of love making to the next and possibly the highest level understanding of the mystery.
I have to admit I would like to have a volunteer to try this with as the touching of souls is thought be a possibility that could be achieved in a spiritual transfer between souls.
Such a shared experience with a woman would prove that love is a real thing that is a a real thin in the soul that can be felt despite the unbelievers of spiritual things like the soul and love being within the soul and can be given to another as a gift and felt lick radiant energy is felt coming from a source.

Beautiful. You can open many locks but they are all cheap and meaningless until you find the lock of the woman whom you truly love. Then you won't spend so much time opening the wrong locks and wasting your life away.

As few as three years ago, I'd of probably made some grandiose argument for monogamy and the benefits of being with just one person.



That being said, I've been left alone long enough that I'll take what I can get, and if she want it open, I'll leave it open. I'm confident enough to know that, given enough time, I'll end up being the only one she wants to be with.

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