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Topic: Falling in love to someone who's taken (married)
AngelHappiness's photo
Sat 11/11/17 10:07 PM
Would you still continue loving someone who's taken. Will you he in a relationship with him knowing that he has a special feeling for you too (but he has a wife and kids)?

Jack's photo
Sat 11/11/17 10:24 PM
. So who is it. Your girls husband he drives you crazy. Your so turn by him..

RustyKitty's photo
Sat 11/11/17 10:43 PM
There are lots of fish in the sea... find your own fish.

AngelHappiness's photo
Sun 11/12/17 12:46 AM

No ... if he is still with her and the children he has made his choice . You deserve much better waving
thanks sis :blush::blush::blush: he is just a friend anyway.. never been into a relationship more than friends.. but yes I like him.. i know somehow he has that feeling too.. he tells all eh and he's always sending a message but he never court :blush::blush::blush:(just nice and thoughtful message showing that he cares)... he is separated but not divorce... just asking... thanks for your reply... guess it's better to remain friends

Khanzada55's photo
Sun 11/12/17 01:36 AM
LOVE has nO boundries Xo i think yes

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 11/12/17 05:48 AM
Hummm as the saying goes if he is cheating on the one he is with~~~~~~then what makes you think he is not cheating on you with her???

Hello men/women that tell someone they are seeing they are not sleeping with the spouse/gf they are living with has you fooled....

If you think it is true love they have for the one they are cheating with then wake up....

Grass looks greener on the other side till you are locked in with the gate shut then all of a sudden the grass looks greener on the side they just came from image that?????slaphead

All I can say is back off and find someone that believes in being with one person at a time that they can give their time and attention too...

Would you want to have kids with a person like that to have him/her follow those same footsteps with you???


Crystle's photo
Sun 11/12/17 05:58 AM
Absolutely Not. I have been the woman cheated on and I would never put someone else through that. It’s narcissistic.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 11/12/17 06:13 AM

Would you still continue loving someone who's taken. Will you he in a relationship with him knowing that he has a special feeling for you too (but he has a wife and kids)?


That is not my idea of love. It is more like infatuation.

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 11/12/17 06:18 AM


No ... if he is still with her and the children he has made his choice . You deserve much better waving
thanks sis :blush::blush::blush: he is just a friend anyway.. never been into a relationship more than friends.. but yes I like him.. i know somehow he has that feeling too.. he tells all eh and he's always sending a message but he never court :blush::blush::blush:(just nice and thoughtful message showing that he cares)... he is separated but not divorce... just asking... thanks for your reply... guess it's better to remain friends


I would wait for the divorce ...to know he is serious about leaving his wife ... before I would go any farther with him other then friends ... he can or might go back to his wife ... and you want to make sure thats all over ... but after I would go for it if you really like him and he you ... unless he was unfaithful with someone else ... stay friends or your will get hurt ...

no photo
Sun 11/12/17 07:10 AM
no I'd stop hoping. If he was to cheat on his wife with you, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you if he was with you,

GrownUpLady2's photo
Sun 11/12/17 08:38 AM
Exactly. I broke off with a man because I found out he was living at least part time with another woman because I refused to be a home wrecker....then I found out months later, she is just a friend and is a lesbian...WHY won't men talk and just tell you the damn truth?

soufiehere's photo
Sun 11/12/17 10:13 AM
Some can rationalize cheating.
Others cannot.

Until you find someone who finds it morally unacceptable,
there will be wiggle room.

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 11/12/17 10:53 AM

WHY won't men talk and just tell you the damn truth?


Because some men think when they lie they are telling the truth. They do not believe in following the rules set up by common decency.

Ladywind7's photo
Sun 11/12/17 12:33 PM
No way! They are a family and he doesn't deserve them if he is cheating.
Imagine if the wife and children were you, how betrayed you would feel if they find out.

Jake555444's photo
Sun 11/12/17 08:12 PM
True story. My last girlfriend was with someone. She told me she had feelings first and was leaving him but due to a child she had to be careful. So I waited and eventually we were together. Or so I thought. If some one is with someone else leave them alone. If they will do that to someone they will do it to you.
Watch who you give your heart not everyone cares.

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 11/13/17 01:37 AM

Would you still continue loving someone who's taken. Will you he in a relationship with him knowing that he has a special feeling for you too (but he has a wife and kids)?


I would never date someone that is "separated", until they are divorced they are still married in my opinion, and I have known a few couples that separated for someone else, only to be back together again in less than 12 months. As others have said, for some the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence. My advice would be to date single people.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 11/13/17 09:29 PM
Ugh. Running around just to be with someone is just too exhausting. It's like working out, going on a diet, and then having your Nazi trainer yelling at you for eating those Cheetos. Just so not worth the aggravation.

AngelHappiness's photo
Wed 11/15/17 06:34 AM
Thanks all for your reponse.. learned a lot. :blush::blush::blush: i am glad that there's a forum here where we can ask for other people's opinion

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/15/17 06:36 AM

Would you still continue loving someone who's taken. Will you he in a relationship with him knowing that he has a special feeling for you too (but he has a wife and kids)?


loving them? yes
be in a relationship with them? no.

If they are of the same anatomy, from the same family, or have taken vows of commitment to another ... they are off limits. Period.

no1phD's photo
Wed 11/15/17 10:15 AM

If he is separated and not divorced .. keep your distance if you are hoping for more than friendship . likely his children will be his priority .. not you waving
..well.. I would hope even if the person was divorced their children would be their priority...

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