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no photo
Tue 08/21/18 07:37 AM
What do you not want to see - when browsing a potential match for interests and about their criteria.

Which things are a Red Flag, that you want to avoid if at all possible?

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 08/21/18 07:44 AM
I don't look for the negatives, I focus on the positives.
When you look for negative, you usually find negative.
Its better to search with a positive mindset than a negative one.

I know that when I find the right woman for me and she thinks I am the right man for her, my searching will be over. It only takes one real match.

msharmony's photo
Tue 08/21/18 07:44 AM
bathroom selfies

profiles that reflect negative personality or bigotry or bougieness

photos of their possessions without them in it (car, house, et cetera)

shirtless indoor photos

alot of photos with a drink in their hand

a photo of them where there is no bother to be clean or neat ... (I figure they have more than one to choose from, and that is the first impression they chose to make)

screen names that are sexually suggestive

photos with guns

soufiehere's photo
Tue 08/21/18 07:52 AM
I avoid like the plague:

- Anyone who rules out their own age group, they are delusional.
- Like Tom, overall negativity, they tend to really be like that.
- Even a hint of bigotry, that is like walking into a fire.
- Often, you can spot in their profile if they tend to use ridicule
as a dating tool, they will do that in real life, too.
- Trying to impress, do they really think that defines them?
Often, it does.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 08/21/18 08:04 AM
Empty profiles.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 08/21/18 08:17 AM

bathroom selfies

profiles that reflect negative personality or bigotry or bougieness

photos of their possessions without them in it (car, house, et cetera)

shirtless indoor photos

alot of photos with a drink in their hand

a photo of them where there is no bother to be clean or neat ... (I figure they have more than one to choose from, and that is the first impression they chose to make)

screen names that are sexually suggestive

photos with guns


I sign this. And add odd locations, London/Scotland for example slaphead

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 08/21/18 09:26 AM
If the person is a law officer, then I avoid the person until the statute of limitations has expired. indifferent



















Wait. Did I say that out loud?

bigsmile

shovelheaddave's photo
Tue 08/21/18 09:48 AM
if they are religious enough that they feel the need to talk about religion/their love for jesus on their DATING profile would be a huge turnoff for me...

a LOT of misspelled words...

empty profiles with the phrase 'if you want to know about me,ask me',cuz that means that they are lazy,and/or narcissistic if they think that people should want to talk to them,just because they graced us by taking the time out of their busy day to join a dating site...

no photo,or photos that don't show them,cuz that means that they are either insecure,or are married and trying to sneak around without getting caught,and/or narcissistic [see reasoning in last reason]

a filthy house in the background of their photos...

the phrase 'why cant I find a decent/real man',cuz that means that decent men avoid them like the plague,for some reason...

the phrase 'my kids are my life',cuz that means that they are boring,and probably wont be able to make any time for someone else in their life that doesn't have to do with their kids...

negativity,or talking about how bad their ex/experience with men has been...

a lot of bad/tasteless tattoos that can be seen....

spending all of the profile telling people what they DONT WANT,instead of using it to describe themselves!

die hard trump supporters!

Rock's photo
Tue 08/21/18 09:53 AM
Verbosity.


no photo
Tue 08/21/18 05:12 PM
" no "

But but but...I want it!

What do you not want to see

I've found I can handle pretty much any sight...it's the smells that I really have a problem with.

What do you not want to see - when browsing a potential match for interests and about their criteria.

Oh.
What I don't want to see is anything that precludes me from contacting them if I find them attractive and would want to contact them.
I've found most things to be situational and requiring context.

Which things are a Red Flag, that you want to avoid if at all possible?

For me, personally, anything that indicates they aren't looking to get off the internet asap and actually date, face to face.




no photo
Tue 08/21/18 05:17 PM
I can't date a smoker.

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 08/22/18 01:02 AM

Someone that is only 'Separated', because until divorced they are not single and free to marry.

Gs2Awesome's photo
Wed 08/22/18 02:35 AM
Now ask, how many who are picky are still alone.

Aroundtheworld37's photo
Wed 08/22/18 02:50 AM

Now ask, how many who are picky are still alone.

Lol it’s true ....sometimes I see things people say or complain about and it makes me think dam I know why yo *** is single rofl

oldkid46's photo
Wed 08/22/18 11:39 AM
looking for marriage
odd animals in the house
negatives toward men or sex
overly religious
my kids are the center of my life

no photo
Wed 08/22/18 01:20 PM
young widowers who are civil engineers whoa

Easttowest72's photo
Wed 08/22/18 02:34 PM
Smoking

Indoor pets

Separated or odd username

Looking for hookups.

Sunglasses on in every pic.

No full pic.


no photo
Fri 08/24/18 01:33 AM
young widowers who are civil engineers whoa


These def kill me!!! :persevere:

no photo
Fri 08/24/18 01:34 AM
" no "

But but but...I want it!

What do you not want to see

I've found I can handle pretty much any sight...it's the smells that I really have a problem with.

What do you not want to see - when browsing a potential match for interests and about their criteria.

Oh.
What I don't want to see is anything that precludes me from contacting them if I find them attractive and would want to contact them.
I've found most things to be situational and requiring context.

Which things are a Red Flag, that you want to avoid if at all possible?

For me, personally, anything that indicates they aren't looking to get off the internet asap and actually date, face to face.






Mos def!!

no photo
Fri 08/24/18 01:36 AM
Hookups.
My kids are my priority(why are you on here if they are priority,just wait for them to grow up then...) :information_desk_person:

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