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| Topic: Your Opinion of Women Who Put In Little Effort? | |
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I completely understand that if a woman isn't interested she won't respond back, or she will let you know upfront that she isn't interested, or she will respond with one or two words each time. She does this because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
But I've come across women who respond back with half to one sentence. So you write her two paragraphs and she responds back with half a sentence. If she isn't interested why on earth is she even bothering to respond back like this? |
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My guess would be she’s not paying attention to what she’s doing in completing a sentence. To some women it’s polite to respond back even if they’re not interested.
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Many people say that they want some kind of response, even when it's not what you want.
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I guess she does it to turn you off, so you wouldn't want to contact her again
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Try not to be so needy.
You'll find women who care enough to make the effort. Stay needy, and your hand will be the closest you get to sex. |
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I completely understand that if a woman isn't interested she won't respond back, or she will let you know upfront that she isn't interested, or she will respond with one or two words each time. She does this because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. But I've come across women who respond back with half to one sentence. So you write her two paragraphs and she responds back with half a sentence. If she isn't interested why on earth is she even bothering to respond back like this? Boredem |
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I completely understand that if a woman isn't interested she won't respond back, or she will let you know upfront that she isn't interested, or she will respond with one or two words each time. She does this because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. But I've come across women who respond back with half to one sentence. So you write her two paragraphs and she responds back with half a sentence. If she isn't interested why on earth is she even bothering to respond back like this? It's their choice. |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Fri 05/12/23 11:52 AM
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Not certain as I myself don't do that, but the main reason that I can think of is that they are kind of okay with talking to you but aren't interested in anything more.
So you're okay, but haven't really piqued their interest to get really engaged and talking. If this happens a lot you may want to have another look at what you write. Is it needy, boring, or in any other sense not really interesting conversation? Does it offer things another can pick up on when replying? Do you show interest in them, what they have in their profile, ask questions like "I do / have /feel/ think/ read/ watch XYZ. You do/have/feel/think that way too?" Convos are a 2-way street. If you find it isn't working out a lot, 50% of that is your own doing. Meaning you also have 50% chance and power to change it round! Plenty of good pointers on how to get an interesting conversation started on the net! |
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I've had a similar experience with guys, I've initiated the contact and no reply. Accept it and move on. I didn't realize there were so many "female" Scammers though! It's like a whole new industry! And what's not cool is that it works because if good, caring people...
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I call it benign indifference.
In other words; not really interested. |
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Your Opinion of Women Who Put In Little Effort? The same as for men who put in little effort. Though the women whine less. |
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Yeah ! Forget about the women ... they know exactly how much they are worth . I worry about us guys who don't put in much effort to find out what a woman really wants ...
Speaking for myself ... I have no clue ... I guess once I figure out why a round pizza comes in a square box and is eaten in triangles , I will be close to finding out something .... till then I will nibble my Kit Kat !!!! |
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Slim is all talk and no action. Go meet KitKat in person.
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Slim is all talk and no action. Go meet KitKat in person. thats easier said than done Cat...and in case you haven't noticed ... my crush is basically one sided .... due to numerous factors.... not exactly ideal to go out and arrange a meet , where the result is already predetermined... OT : i like women who show initiative..... |
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Not certain as I myself don't do that, but the main reason that I can think of is that they are kind of okay with talking to you but aren't interested in anything more. So you're okay, but haven't really piqued their interest to get really engaged and talking. I'm with Crystal on this one... Sometimes you may not be interested in a relationship with the person, but you MAY find friendship with them... Even if you become friends, your interests may differ and you haven't found any common grounds that the op maybe interested to talk about... Speaking for myself, I'm very passionate about some things and I waffle away, and at other times, I just say, I'm sorry, it (the topic) has no interest for me... And that's the most you'll get from me lol |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 08/10/23 03:03 PM
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I completely understand that if a woman isn't interested she won't respond back, or she will let you know upfront that she isn't interested, or she will respond with one or two words each time. She does this because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. But I've come across women who respond back with half to one sentence. So you write her two paragraphs and she responds back with half a sentence. If she isn't interested why on earth is she even bothering to respond back like this? Your whole post is passive aggressive. You start with the words, ‘I completely understand’ but the rest of your post says you don’t. You say you write two paragraphs but she responds with half a sentence. Your disdain for women who don’t kowtow to your every whim is clear in this in sentence. A relationship can’t be be built on quid pro quo. Your last sentence and the ‘why on Earth’ expression in this case is an underhanded pejorative aimed at women you know nothing about. There could be a plethora of reasons why. She might be very nice and feel she has to acknowledge your message. She may be socially awkward, you’ve heard lots of people say, ‘I’m very shy at first but I’m ok once I feel comfortable, then you can’t shut me up’ The same thing happens on social media. She may have lived with or dated a tyrant in the past, in which case your two paragraphs would have terrified her even though it was meant well. There could be many more reasons why. Read the replies a few times and stop and think what you’re being told before rattling off your own reply. Less is often more |
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I completely understand that if a woman isn't interested she won't respond back, or she will let you know upfront that she isn't interested, or she will respond with one or two words each time. She does this because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. But I've come across women who respond back with half to one sentence. So you write her two paragraphs and she responds back with half a sentence. If she isn't interested why on earth is she even bothering to respond back like this? Your whole post is passive aggressive. You start with the words, ‘I completely understand’ but the rest of your post says you don’t. You say you write two paragraphs but she responds with half a sentence. Your disdain for women who don’t kowtow to your every whim is clear in this in sentence. A relationship can’t be be built on quid pro quo. Your last sentence and the ‘why on Earth’ expression in this case is an underhanded pejorative aimed at women you know nothing about. There could be a plethora of reasons why. She might be very nice and feel she has to acknowledge your message. She may be socially awkward, you’ve heard lots of people say, ‘I’m very shy at first but I’m ok once I feel comfortable, then you can’t shut me up’ The same thing happens on social media. She may have lived with or dated a tyrant in the past, in which case your two paragraphs would have terrified her even though it was meant well. There could be many more reasons why. Read the replies a few times and stop and think what you’re being told before rattling off your own reply. Less is often more Very hipocrytical when you don't reply to messages yourself |
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Edited by
Blondey111
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Fri 08/11/23 06:56 PM
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My opinion of women who put in little effort … girls rule .. boys drool
 It must be hard to be rejected but the worst thing to do is to dwell on it . If someone doesn’t put in effort .. you are not a priority to them . Find someone who is interested and wants your attention 
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You're her backup plan maybe
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girls rule .. boys drool It must be hard to be rejected but the worst thing to do is to dwell on it . If someone doesn’t put in effort .. you are not a priority to them . Find someone who is interested and wants your attention Girls rule  and boys drool 🤤 Hahaha that's the first time I've heard that phrase... Its ticklish  I'm gonna have to remember it to wind up my kids  and change words round accordingly when chatting to my son/daughters 🤣 Yep, I have to agree with Blondey111, no point in dwelling blah blah blah... Just close the book on that chapter, and try to move on... Good luck too  🤞 |
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