Hi Frank, how did you know the OP has been a member for over four years. I looked at her profile but I didn't find it.

Makes sense to me.

Anyway, all any of us can do with missives from strangers, is guess.

I'd guess that someone who doesn't punctuate, either doesn't want to, doesn't care what you think of what they may or may not be saying.

Relationships are defined by the people.
Relationships don't exist floating around looking for the "right" people to complete it.


A man and woman can be friendly towards each other without sex.
They can be friends, with purely friendly motives, only for a short period of time.

Gender was created for a reason, though.
When a man or woman chooses to spend enough time around someone of the opposite sex their underlying subconscious is being told he/she is consciously choosing the other to mate with.
So over time the naturally occurring sex hormones are associated with that person.
They can't help but look at each other with sexual desire.

They can choose not to act upon it, believing they can do better, and actively choosing to try and bang someone else.
Or they can ignore it and pretend it doesn't exist.

Either way it leads to a lot of subconsciously driven behavior.
More ribald, innuendo, or inappropriate jokes about sex. More physical closeness. Arm touching, smiling, back patting, hugging, sitting closer.

At best people try to force the other into a labeled relationship that helps them deny sexual attraction. i.e. viewing each other like a sibling.
If someone has ever said "she's like my sister" or "he's like a brother to me!" it means they've had sexual impulses, and still do, they've just created this relationship label in order to deny them and help them not act upon them.

But their subconscious behavior continues to drive them towards sex with them.

In many cases that leads to overcompensation and subconscious behavior.
Things like more physical closeness like slapping them on the arm when they make a sexual comment.
Or pushing the person far away, setting up weekly, monthly meetings at restaurants, something that provides a table, something physical to keep them apart, or connection via Facebook and social media, which allows feelings of extreme happiness, allowing a reward like a fat chick and chocolate "I worked out an hour yesterday, I only ate salads all week, I'm excited that I get to eat 6 bars of chocolate tomorrow!"


Men and women can be "friends" but their subconscious behavior will always be driven by sex after they hit puberty.

Their motives in continuing any "friends" relationship will always be based on sexual impulses.

Which ultimately helps sabotage any future relationship with someone else.

e.g. a girl is "just friends" with a guy. They have a close "friend" relationship. New dating material comes along. The "just friend" either "confesses" their true feelings, starts getting competitive for attention and affection, or backs off i.e. changes the "friend" relationship.
If the "friend" backs off, it changes the woman. It changes how the woman sees the new guy. How she saw the new guy was based on who she was as a "just friend" with a guy, with having that underlying sexually based motivation.
If she was "just friends" with someone of the same sex, different motivations, different relationship, wouldn't change how she saw the new guy.


It's stupid to believe men and women can be "friends" without any kind of sexual undertones and motivation to the relationship.

Men and women develop sexual feelings for their parents around puberty.
It's why men and women in many cases choose a partner like their parents, or siblings. Or the exact opposite when past feelings went unrequited and there was some level of pain.


Everyone thinks with their genitals.
A lot of your brain and body are set up to.
Some people simply acknowledge it while others deny it and refuse responsibility for what is truly motivating them.


You can't separate sex from mating/procreation.
Gender exists for mating/procreation purposes.

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I've wondered about that too, and how the universe came to be in existence, where did it all start, what was there before it started to exist. Gives me a headache thinking too much

Hello Frank, you're right about nailcap, I hope he comments on this, will be interesting to read his two penny worth, I bet even the great Einstein would take a bow

It doesn't matter until you want eggs for breakfast.

tsk tsk tsk city slicker all chickens are referred to as chickens
be they cock or hen



Born and raised on a farm,hate the city life,live in the country.Maybe in the US you don't differentiate between males and females in the avian domain but everywhere I have lived chickens were always the egg layers.In Australia we call them chooks.Try selling a cock as a chook and you'll end up on the BBQ

We were the bad neighbor. Typical immigrants... 13 people in a one-bedroom apartment to save money so we can send money to our poor families. Loud Saturday night parties. We didn't steal your parking space because we didn't have cars... but I assure you, we wanted to... steal your cars.

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