They way I have been looking at it lately is, I don't think ill find the right one, but I might have a chance to start something good someday.

I don't think you're the only one that has a missile


I do agree on wanting to be face to face. I've run into too many women on theses sites that if we met, we would never click.

My whole idea has changed to from when I first started on these sites. And knowing what I have gone through with my ex this last three years. OH YA!

I may not explain this right, but ill try anyway


Many people like some of us have posted that they are looking for the right one, or i wont settle for less then what I deserve etc etc.


My question is, how do we really know what the right one is? We seem to spend a lot of time on these sites hoping that we will run into someone that we will click with. but what if what we think we know what we wont isn't really what we need? Just a thought IDN

No, you're not scary


It's people living in a fantasy would and when reality is in front of them. That is what scares them.

if I have to chase someone to keep them interested. the it's a wast of my time. I can see a little bit of it being it's the net. But some don't know their limits.

The other thing I have to look at is and say to myself. I'm the one that picks the person i'm interested in. So if things are not working out. What is it that I'm attracted to that keeps me gong through the same things and try to change it.

When I first started dating sites I was a paying fool

Being on these sites are a grate way to meet people and you can enjoy your time being on the forums. Also I think that dating sites aren't what they were meant to be anymore. I like a lot of the people on here and do have fun, although, I think I have a better chance actually meeting someone off the net, then spending time chatting with someone on the that doesn't really know what they want. Just like most know it's about attraction, location and trying to keep someone really interested and women can be hard to do that with at times.

No, not all men 40 and above are just looking for young girls. from where I stand and your self. Attraction, location, and conversation plays a big part in anyone meeting anyone. From reading your profile. I can't see why you wouldn't be getting emails from older men.

Wanted, blonde 5-8 cleans, cooks and does what she is told. Undercover blonde will work as well, ill keep your secret

Three years now, but for a good reason.

You already answered you're own question.

You have just as much chance as everyone else, but from where i stand as far as dating sites go. There are more people here just to chat an bs then anything else. So expect the long conversations going nowhere. Some may look at what I said isn't giving much hope sorry , but reality is not something you can hide from.

I feel you can to an extent, but that would come with in time of being on the forum. There has been a time when I thought someone was being real with me but found out latter they weren't. Thats when I was new to dating sites and realize I had to open my eyes to things.

Hm, did the under cover blonde come out?

Get an idea on someones personality by them posting on the forum?

LOL just didn't make sense the difference between lying about who you are in person over the internet and as far as I know there has only been one internet killer. There has been many in person and they seem harder to catch in person than online so far......JMO.


Man! your going to keep this going aren't ya


Ok, lets put it this way. I have met a couple women off the net and looking at the pics and actually seeing them were way off. So, in meeting someone through a friend you actually get to see if your really interested in them or not. Being the net is a whole different thing. The lying part does work either way, but people tend to express it more being on the net then being confronted.

Ill end this

For me, i rather be able to see face to face then sit for months looking at a pic and typing.

I like the ones that hide it, because when they come out and I tend to get them to do that. They go all crazy on ya Wait a min! I don't know if that really is good thing or bad

Who cares, as long as I get off. Thats all that matter




Serious though, wanting something and actually getting it are two different things. Everyone is different so who knows whats going to happen. I guess hope for the best and see where things go from there.

This is why the Mormon ladies stop coming to my house

You actually get to spend time with them and kind of see who they are. Being the net. you can be anything you want someone to believe you to be?