TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Reason?
QUOTE: QUOTE: Ok, not trying to be rude here 
But there dugs  So what is the big deal about somone saying hi to you?
Thought thats what this site was about, just some have a different way of going about it... You're right. Some have a different way of going about things. Does that mean we have to be ok with those different ways? 
I guess I don't take things so serious so it don't bother me, but if It bothers others. To each is own I guess because I enjoy life and welcome people. Other words, I don't swet the small stuff... |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
QUOTE: My experience on dating sites so far is that most people just picture surf, if the picture is liked, contact may be made, if not it won't end off! It's a bit like going to a book shop and just looking at all the covers, not reading the appendix in the book, just picking the book totally by it's cover! I think that's the big problem with internet dating compared to meeting someone in person, ie socially, work, chance meeting in a supermarket etc, you can have a chat in person, it's totally about the person then, not a picture! I agree with some of what you said, and as most know attraction plays a big part in being interested in someone. Now this doesn't mean just because someone might of looked at your pic and found you attractive. That this means they read your profile either. I have had a few emails and IM's in the past that I knew they just looked at my pic and thought we would hit it off
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
Topic:
Reason?
Ok, not trying to be rude here
But there dugs So what is the big deal about somone saying hi to you?
Thought thats what this site was about, just some have a different way of going about it...
Edited by TheShadow on Tue 01/18/11 10:11 AM
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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oldie but goodie!!!
There is no such thing is a nice guy anymore. They are called stalkers today
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
Topic:
Why?? part 2
QUOTE: If you don't want people to judge you, perhaps you should stop judging others? It works both ways. Also adding fuel to the fire doesn't help any either... |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Why?? part 2
The one thing I do agree the most on, people tend to jump to their own conclusions and rearly ask questions. That is where a lot drama does start on post.
The simple thing is to ask if you're not sure on something. It really is not a hard thing to do. |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Why?? part 2
I can agree on some of what you said, but also it's on how you persent yourself in your post is how people will respond to certain things. That goes with anyone on any site.
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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figu
QUOTE: Hummm the sooner men learn we are all that in a hand bag and treat us like Queens the better this world would be...hehehe  
I guess there are going to be a lot of lonely women
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Dating sites when you're not on this one? The reason I ask is I'm on another site where you can say just about anything you want and use what ever word you want. I'm a little more aggressive on the other site i'm on in my post, but usually treat people the same. Just I have been on other sites and seen some people in the past, that act different then when they were on here. |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
Dating sites when you're not on this one?
The reason I ask is I'm on another site where you can say just about anything you want and use what ever word you want. |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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love
Women are right about what?
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Ex Bfs
QUOTE: What is the fastest and most effective way to get over someone you thought you were gonna marry someday but they ended up leaving you? The fastest and most effective way is, deal with it and try to learn from it. because if your looking for a quick way out, it will come back and bite you in the as... |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Where was this persons mind?
I did ask her what she was thinking, she didn't give an answer other then taking the pick off for the night. Later she put it back up so who knows
You can set it to where if you don't want to see the others person post, you have the option not to. At the same time though it doesn't delete her post either. So I chose not to see. It's not something that chose to look at and being on a forum, you can't get away from something like that when the person post a lot. To sum this up, she is not a nice person either. |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
Topic:
Where was this persons mind?
QUOTE: I am sorry, are we really talking a breast feeding pic on a dating web site???? Ok I get that if she is breast feeding, she is new and undrstandably and hopefully consumed by her new baby. So if she is in need of the chat and support we good people here can offer then a breast feeding pic would work in the right forum. If she is trolling for 'love' then The Shadow I am as confused as you are! There is a time and place for everything! Thats The thing though, she is not new to the site. I didn't know who it was till I looked at the profile and all her pics are like from ten years ago, other then the breast feeding pic. Either way whether she was trolling or not. Like you said, there is a time and place for everything. |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
Nope I don't, maybe because it's never happen to me or I have never known anyone that it's happen to.
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Not Sure What I Am To Him?
Stop wasting your time on someone that isn't really interested in you. It will only make things worse for you.
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Where was this persons mind?
QUOTE: Did you try asking the person with the pic you're talking about? Yeah i did, I asked her what she was expecting out of this. Never got an answer. |
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Where was this persons mind?
QUOTE: i haven't seen the picture in question...but i nursed my kids everywhere i went, so it probably wouldn't bother me any. There is nothing wrong in that, but being on a dating site and using it as a main pic. Someone has a loose screw
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
Nothing stops me from loving anyone, I just need a reason to start
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TheShadow
Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14233 |
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Yeah, I Can Pick 'Em, Yup
My ex is in jail right now.
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