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Topic:
Whats the point...
Edited by
TheShadow
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Tue 01/18/11 03:41 PM
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About stressing over small things that don't really matter in life. I'm on a couple sites and have seen many post about thing that are everydays life things we all deal with. So knowing that more then half of it is really not something to stress over. Why do people do it and what do they really get out of it by doing it? Just because something does not matter to you, why do you think it shouldn't matter to someone else? And by creating this thread, aren't you worrying about the things that don't really matter to you? There is a big difference between asking a question and worrying. To take a gander at someones typing and not asking a questiong is misss leading the topic... Hear  Lets put it this way. When someone post a topic and doesn't use  or or say they are in that mood. Can you see the other that is posting a topic? See now you can take what I just said in many ways. To take a guess and not really know. Is really not a smart move? So can you guess my mood now 
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Reason?
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Ok, not trying to be rude here  But there dugs  So what is the big deal about somone saying hi to you? Thought thats what this site was about, just some have a different way of going about it... You're right. Some have a different way of going about things. Does that mean we have to be ok with those different ways? I guess I don't take things so serious so it don't bother me, but if It bothers others. To each is own I guess because I enjoy life and welcome people. Other words, I don't swet the small stuff... I enjoy life and enjoy meeting new people, too. However some people like the OP described are just weird. UM, this is the net
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Topic:
Whats the point...
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..there is no point,all the bitchin' in the world doesn't change a thing,they obviously have nothing better to do...  So ***** a little and then do something about it... |
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Topic:
Whats the point...
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I guess it just shows that some deal with stress better then others do.. Myself I try not to complain or stress out over the little things. And tend to keep the big things to myself as well... At times that is even hard to do... I guess for some it just feels better to get it off their mind but what they don't realize at times it seems more like whining to others...  I know we all stress on things at one point or another, and some know I have done enough of that this last couple years. I guess I'm looking at is when it come to small things i'm glad I don't because the mood it can put you in and we all know it's the little things that can add up. So I guess getting it out is better then blowing up
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Topic:
Whats the point...
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About stressing over small things that don't really matter in life.
I'm on a couple sites and have seen many post about thing that are everydays life things we all deal with. So knowing that more then half of it is really not something to stress over. Why do people do it and what do they really get out of it by doing it? |
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Topic:
Reason?
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Ok, not trying to be rude here But there dugs So what is the big deal about somone saying hi to you? Thought thats what this site was about, just some have a different way of going about it... You're right. Some have a different way of going about things. Does that mean we have to be ok with those different ways? I guess I don't take things so serious so it don't bother me, but if It bothers others. To each is own I guess because I enjoy life and welcome people. Other words, I don't swet the small stuff... |
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My experience on dating sites so far is that most people just picture surf, if the picture is liked, contact may be made, if not it won't end off! It's a bit like going to a book shop and just looking at all the covers, not reading the appendix in the book, just picking the book totally by it's cover! I think that's the big problem with internet dating compared to meeting someone in person, ie socially, work, chance meeting in a supermarket etc, you can have a chat in person, it's totally about the person then, not a picture! I agree with some of what you said, and as most know attraction plays a big part in being interested in someone. Now this doesn't mean just because someone might of looked at your pic and found you attractive. That this means they read your profile either. I have had a few emails and IM's in the past that I knew they just looked at my pic and thought we would hit it off
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Topic:
Reason?
Edited by
TheShadow
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Tue 01/18/11 10:11 AM
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Ok, not trying to be rude here
But there dugs So what is the big deal about somone saying hi to you? Thought thats what this site was about, just some have a different way of going about it... |
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Topic:
oldie but goodie!!!
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There is no such thing is a nice guy anymore. They are called stalkers today
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Topic:
Why?? part 2
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If you don't want people to judge you, perhaps you should stop judging others? It works both ways. Also adding fuel to the fire doesn't help any either... |
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Topic:
Why?? part 2
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The one thing I do agree the most on, people tend to jump to their own conclusions and rearly ask questions. That is where a lot drama does start on post.
The simple thing is to ask if you're not sure on something. It really is not a hard thing to do. |
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Topic:
Why?? part 2
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I can agree on some of what you said, but also it's on how you persent yourself in your post is how people will respond to certain things. That goes with anyone on any site.
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Topic:
figu
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Hummm the sooner men learn we are all that in a hand bag and treat us like Queens the better this world would be...hehehe   I guess there are going to be a lot of lonely women
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Dating sites when you're not on this one? The reason I ask is I'm on another site where you can say just about anything you want and use what ever word you want. I'm a little more aggressive on the other site i'm on in my post, but usually treat people the same. Just I have been on other sites and seen some people in the past, that act different then when they were on here. |
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Dating sites when you're not on this one?
The reason I ask is I'm on another site where you can say just about anything you want and use what ever word you want. |
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Topic:
love
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Women are right about what?
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Topic:
Ex Bfs
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What is the fastest and most effective way to get over someone you thought you were gonna marry someday but they ended up leaving you? The fastest and most effective way is, deal with it and try to learn from it. because if your looking for a quick way out, it will come back and bite you in the as... |
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Topic:
Where was this persons mind?
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I did ask her what she was thinking, she didn't give an answer other then taking the pick off for the night. Later she put it back up so who knows
You can set it to where if you don't want to see the others person post, you have the option not to. At the same time though it doesn't delete her post either. So I chose not to see. It's not something that chose to look at and being on a forum, you can't get away from something like that when the person post a lot. To sum this up, she is not a nice person either. |
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Where was this persons mind?
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I am sorry, are we really talking a breast feeding pic on a dating web site???? Ok I get that if she is breast feeding, she is new and undrstandably and hopefully consumed by her new baby. So if she is in need of the chat and support we good people here can offer then a breast feeding pic would work in the right forum. If she is trolling for 'love' then The Shadow I am as confused as you are! There is a time and place for everything! Thats The thing though, she is not new to the site. I didn't know who it was till I looked at the profile and all her pics are like from ten years ago, other then the breast feeding pic. Either way whether she was trolling or not. Like you said, there is a time and place for everything. |
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Nope I don't, maybe because it's never happen to me or I have never known anyone that it's happen to.
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