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Wed 06/10/09 05:49 PM
For once I would like to have some one care for me instead of me always ending up being the caregiver.

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Wed 06/10/09 04:15 PM
I would give it a try. On a scale I could afford. Crafts tend to go in cycles of popularity and marketability. Make a display portfolio of what you have made and want to sell could help. Do your homework before you get into deep. Good Luck.

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Wed 06/10/09 04:02 PM
It is entertaining but I don't know how effective it will be. Good luck. Welcome to the playpen.

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Wed 06/10/09 03:29 PM
Love the sky works but don't buy the ground works. I can think of better things to do with my money than blow it up. Too many injuries I would like to see only professionals be able to shoot them off. With California as dry as toast not like we need any help catching fire.

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Wed 06/10/09 03:15 PM
Not this weekend. Maybe in a year or so.

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Tue 06/09/09 10:27 AM
Everybody needs a refresh day now and then. Maybe today is yours. Takeing a bubblebath and doing something creative helps me re-energize. Useing my calendar helps me break down tasks in manageable bites. Letting go and letting others help may not get you the exact result you want but if it is a good result and you are not exhausted then it is a good result right? Good luck. HUGS.

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Tue 06/09/09 10:15 AM
Yes because some of the most unlikely matches have turned out to be the happiest. Look how people meet today?

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Tue 06/09/09 10:06 AM
Calling all men anything seems a little over the top. While the name may apply to a few, in the negative connotation, it seems self fullfilling to assume it applys to all. People do pick their partners. Seems like taking more time to do so and doing less name calling would yeild a better result.

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Mon 06/08/09 08:31 PM
If you put your foot down and say no job no more free ride you have to be prepared for the fact that you may have no future relationship with your child. Personally I feel it is more valuable to give your child the boot in the can to get started on being and adult rather than crippleing him for the rest of his adult life by bailing him out of his own consequences. Keep in mind how you allow him to treat you is exactly the way he will treat his wife and ultimately his kids.

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Mon 06/08/09 08:14 PM
78. Not the most flattering pictures. Text was mediocre. Surely you want more in a relationship than it to only be interracial. Doesn't give a solid perspective for your personality, interests or values.

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Mon 06/08/09 08:07 PM
Wasn't worth the aggravation.

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Mon 06/08/09 07:52 PM
Home-made cherry crisp for everybody!

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Mon 06/08/09 07:47 PM
Just makes the case for thinking before you leap. You don't have to take somebody home just to get a date.

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Mon 06/08/09 07:39 PM
STOP MUMBLEING!!!

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Mon 06/08/09 07:32 PM
Sorry for the let down. Always other fishes in the sea. You will learn to believe only what you can verify. Wheather in pretend or real relationships. A Prince Charming is still a Fairy tale frog.

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Mon 06/08/09 07:11 PM
If you can support a wife on SSI and a bus pass then your choice of women don't have much of a standard of what they expect out of life. Since SSI isn't enough to keep even one person off a poverty level existence it sounds like the greedy one is the one wanting something for basiclly nothing. Since you don't suggest you are going to offer anything to the relationship except abusive judgemental name calling juat shows their wisdom in avoiding the situation.

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Mon 06/08/09 06:31 PM

I just wonder if anyone here has ever met anyone? Does not work for me very well. I am a nice gentleman interested in a serious relationship,, guess I am the only one here like that. Oh well, live goes on.


Actually you are not but hard to see photo's and minimal text it is hard to find a lot of personality to respond to. Insulting the majority of people on the site is not going to get you glowing reference with too many.

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Mon 06/08/09 02:13 PM

I have a friend in AA and he says he does not understand people in ANON or ACOA, because all they talk about is their feelings and needing to have their feelings validated...


That is because so called helping professionals don't have any better answers how to make those folks feel better than to talk about it. Unfortuneately all that does is keep people stuck rather than getting their life in check and moving on. Probably has something to do with the huge amount of money to be made for simply listening to people whine and handing out the same old diatribe of the popular matras.

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Mon 06/08/09 01:41 PM
Hate to say it but all I can think of immediately is I don't ever want to fly our of Canada again. After setting four hours on the ground the air crews let a fully loaded plane take off that was not airworthy and after a harrowing emergency landing that had even the stewardess crying it is kind of hard to forget.

How ever the people I actually met there were really nice.

Kind of sucks that they seem to pay more for everything than Americans and that in large areas of the country they have to haul potable water. Also seems odd that without some of the crippleing expenses Americans pay for healthcare they still seem economiclly depressed. In fairness that observation is almost a decade old.

If you can drive in it is exquisitely beautiful place and my treatment there by general population was extreamly polite and helpful.

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Wed 06/03/09 11:31 PM
I sure believe it is possible. I don't know how it would have continued if he hadn't died but it felt like one long honeyingmoon as long as we were together from day one on. Maybe we were motivated by the fact that he could be deployed at any minute but we just liked being together and it was easy to be romantic. I also think it had a lot to do with we both made a point of trying to be the best spouse rather than pick each other apart. Worked for us.

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