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Thu 07/24/08 05:12 PM



i was on here because the girl i was engaged to cheated on me and i came on to meet some one to help me i wasnt on here looking for anyone but then i met some one and i left her


You came here for the same reason we all did to find someone else. Rule one in finding someone:
BE HONEST

Whether you realize it or not you are doing the same thing you did before. When you use sympathy to have someone attach to you emotionally you will get more pain. Learn from your mistakes.

Coming on here when you have just been screwed over is a mistake. Believe it or not if others are mean to you forcing your departure would likely be the best thing. Get your head together before finding someone. Do not use sympathy as a tool to get someone else.

(Franshade you got this one wrong.)


not sure what I got wrong?


Read the thread. This is how he works. He lost his last girlfriend as she cheated on him. So he came to a singles site for "advice"? Google "relationship advice", I don't think you'll get any hits for singles websites.

He came to get his revenge on the woman who cheated. He wanted to get layed. He found a great opening line which was to use sympathy. It worked. He found another who felt sorry for him and now he is doing it again.

He wants sympathy not advice. What advice can you give him other than do not get involved on the rebound. Stay honest. Stop using sympathy to attract women to you as you will have the same thing happen.

Your big warm heart was taken in by him Franshade. That is how he finds his relationships. He either stops that now or it will get him more pain. I view him as a player. He is dishonest and using.

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Thu 07/24/08 02:14 PM

i was on here because the girl i was engaged to cheated on me and i came on to meet some one to help me i wasnt on here looking for anyone but then i met some one and i left her


You came here for the same reason we all did to find someone else. Rule one in finding someone:
BE HONEST

Whether you realize it or not you are doing the same thing you did before. When you use sympathy to have someone attach to you emotionally you will get more pain. Learn from your mistakes.

Coming on here when you have just been screwed over is a mistake. Believe it or not if others are mean to you forcing your departure would likely be the best thing. Get your head together before finding someone. Do not use sympathy as a tool to get someone else.

(Franshade you got this one wrong.)

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Thu 07/24/08 03:05 AM
Boo boo uh oh boo hoo.

Ooooga wooga shooga mo. Ooo oooo boogie mmmm woo woo. oobity wooo whoa. Shoogity swah.

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Wed 07/16/08 04:55 PM

me either till last night...I understandflowerforyou :cry:


Why the tears? Turn that frown upside down!

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Wed 07/16/08 04:53 PM
Where did that donkey kong thread go? :banana: rofl :banana:

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Wed 07/16/08 04:22 PM
Snowing. We should get 14 inches tonight.

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Wed 07/16/08 04:21 PM
We just had a post about this problem last night. Take your head out of the plastic bag.

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Wed 07/16/08 04:17 PM
"WHAT DID I DO WRONG"

I'm not too sure jumping back into the swimming hole is the smart thing to do. Have you ever heard of rebounding? Sometimes your thoughts are not as clear when you are just getting over someone.

When did this engagement happen and when were you last with this guy romantically?

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Wed 07/16/08 03:43 PM
I know one. She's in love according to her profile.

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Wed 07/16/08 03:39 PM
You running out of victims? laugh

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Wed 07/16/08 03:35 PM
Yes and yes.

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Wed 07/16/08 03:33 PM
Walk a mile into a mine and turn out the lights. It will give you pause to think. I can cope with it but it's freaky.

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Wed 07/16/08 03:14 PM

ive got a toenail missing noway

That's weird! I think you're genetically advanced.

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Wed 07/16/08 03:07 PM
I sing in strong, low tones.

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Wed 07/16/08 03:05 PM
*throws rice* flowerforyou

Oh wait they're moving. blushing sick

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Wed 07/16/08 02:35 PM
You can have mine!

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Wed 07/16/08 12:48 PM
You get pick of the litter now. :smile:

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Wed 07/16/08 12:44 PM
It comes and goes. I feel really lonely right now to the point that I feel sick. If you think too much about anything it will get to you. I am going to go distract my mind and wait for this feeling to pass.

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Wed 07/16/08 12:39 PM
I think I'll go play my new game or maybe watch the tour de france.

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Wed 07/16/08 12:36 PM
Or do you just live it and see what happens?