For me I would like to go on a date to an arcade/amusement park. We would play a little pinball and some old arcade games like Asteroids, Pac Man, etc, etc, etc.

Then we would ride the bumper cars. Then off to a game of Goofy Golf. Followed by dinner and dancing.

Any that didn't lead to a second one even though I really wanted them to?


Women have adam's apples.
They are just smaller than a mans.
They can be prominent on skinny women.


Why do you have to make it clear to a bunch of internet strangers?
And why should anyone believe you?

Just to be clear, I will always believe you had a passionate affair with the transgender person you went on a date with.


See?!?! Proof of my assertions! People in relationships take down their profile...

What good are assertions of truth on here? They're pointless.
If you don't want someone to believe something about you, you have to keep it to yourself.

I drove home confused and removed my profile from that site for a long time.

What good are assertions of truth on here? They're pointless.
If you don't want someone to believe something about you, you have to keep it to yourself.


What are you suggesting then? that people here in the forum tell bunch of lies to each other?? and the reason why the OP is here in this forum coz he wants other people to believe in him that is why he is voicing it out and not keep it for himself!


Why do you have to make it clear to a bunch of internet strangers?
And why should anyone believe you?


Yes we are BUNCH of INTERNET STRANGERS and that is how you looked at us, at least we're not BUNCH of SCAMMERS and mind you I have made a few friends in your so-called "Internet Strangers" who came to our home in Los Angeles and they were fine and we're still communicating. I think I would believe him more rather than believe in you!!!

Mine was a blind date from a dating site that turned out to be a guy. Ouch! He/she was portrayed to be a female. Luckily I noticed the adams apple so I didn't put any moves on him/her. He/she looked quite attractive though. It was difficult to tell. My gaydar was going off like crazy but my eyes were like that's a woman. I felt very weird. I didn't know his/her situation. Maybe I was wrong. But mostly I was in shock. I was starving so we went ahead and ate dinner together. Everybody was acting normal like nothing was wrong. I felt like everybody in the room was staring at us but nobody was.

During dinner I made it very clear that I was a straight male. I brought up the obvious and asked why in the world would you say you are a straight female. He/She claimed to have gone on many dates with straight guys. Some bolt but some stay. I asked if anybody ever kick his/her azz. The reply was no. He/she claimed to have pleasured quite a few straight guys and that didn't make them gay. I was extremely uncomfortable at that point. Dinner was finished and so was I. To make it clear, there was no contact of any kind between us. I paid the entire bill and left in a hurry. I drove home confused and removed my profile from that site for a long time.

HMMM spicing it up for dinner?

Rough Sex! Yes! What........ What's going on?




Oh.... Yeah, I'm not really into that kind of rough sex.

I have had a couple girl friends that wanted to be "Fake Raped" but I just gave them a weird look and said that's not going to happen.

I'm not interested in forcing anything.

Wow Harmony, great post! Thanks for sharing!

I have to agree with you. Stay in the marriage till it's just a dead husk?

If it's over and you have tried to recover it a few times, and you see the mountain looming bin the distance, don't ride it into the ground. Get out while you still can salvage love in your heart.

hmmm...if you have multiple "lives" shouldn't you call yourself a Catboy?

I'm too shy to even say what I want here so I'll just go back to my room and be quiet

Maybe young guys that dress up like old women.

<--------Too hot to handle

May not KILL but certainly can make life more difficult

Hi there Mingle community, I just wanted to discuss why are people so engulfed in finding "love"? I was in a long term relationship for 6 years, but of course it came to an end, I took a break from dating,I took some time to evaluate my life and improve myself. After all of that I am back in the game to hopefully find someone, but often you see people jumping from relationship to relationship, honestly it puzzles me. I think sometimes when you break of a relationship you need to take time and look at your life and see if another relationship is the best thing for you at the moment, but who knows. Anyways thank you for reading, I hope all of you have a great day!! :)

Josh