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Fri 01/06/17 12:44 AM
I relate most things to my self

It would be nice to be able to relate some of those things with on other individual on a regular basis

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Wed 01/04/17 10:50 PM

When you wanted to stay coz you are inlove yet you see him doing his own thing. Making you feel not part of his life and it makes you unhappy. Would you still stay or not?

Are you in love with cray cray or him?

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Wed 01/04/17 10:40 PM
I'm looking for older women does that mean I will be catching up with time?

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Wed 01/04/17 08:07 PM
So what was god defying when he put us here

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Wed 01/04/17 07:54 PM

what r the advantages and disadvantages if ever u fall inlove to a married man who s 25 years older?????

One advantage would be that you experience what you believe to be love and possibly learn from the experience.

The disadvantages would be relative to the intricacies of the situation and there consequences.

If the age difference was part of the attraction the chances of outgrowing a parent child relationship are high for both participants

some questions I would ask

Is the wife aware of your relationship?

What are the consequences of adultery in the country you are in?

What do you expect to gain from pursuing the relationship?

What is stopping you from pursuing this relationship?
Its not clear to me whether you have actually reached the status of mistress yet and its easier to ask than sift through the thread to find out

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Wed 01/04/17 06:42 PM
326flowerforyou

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Wed 01/04/17 06:40 PM
organise a singles night

then fight off the opposition

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Wed 01/04/17 06:18 PM
They say Truth is in the eye of the beholder

And I aint beholding right now

I think I may wait till latter before I create a falsehood for myself:banana:


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Wed 01/04/17 08:19 AM
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Wed 01/04/17 06:25 AM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Wed 01/04/17 06:26 AM
Every human interaction is a power exchange
Some allow the exchange
some make it a struggle
some over price
some under price
Some over spend
some under spend
Some recognise the appropriate currency. Others don't then blame others for using the wrong currency

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Wed 01/04/17 06:11 AM


Would depend on the form of the substance or the substance of the form
Otherwise I know not of what you speak :smile:

My experience is it seems not a lot of WOmen are into substance and complicated minds lol

And I am offended by that but hey s#it happens:banana:

Geez I think I'm starting to see the point in drinker

but the question was pick only one tongue2


OK
With substance my imagination can create form

With form my imagination would be working overtime trying to create substance.

So my either or choice would be for substance:tongue: frustrated explode winking

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Wed 01/04/17 02:41 AM
Would depend on the form of the substance or the substance of the form
Otherwise I know not of what you speak :smile:

My experience is it seems not a lot of WOmen are into substance and complicated minds lol

And I am offended by that but hey s#it happens:banana:

Geez I think I'm starting to see the point in drinker

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Tue 01/03/17 08:05 PM

Guess what, one night stand is more healthy than a long term monotonous relation


Veracious veins are aggravated by long periods of standing!

What unhealthy effects do you attribute to long term monotonous relation where one can choose to lay, sit, kneel or swing in a hammock ?

Sounds pretty monotonous standing all the time

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Tue 01/03/17 07:50 PM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Tue 01/03/17 07:53 PM

This is a poor attitude for raising children. In the moment, it may make them 'happy' to eat five pieces of chocolate cake. Knowing, however, that such a diet is unhealthy for their bodies, its a poor choice to sit idle and accepting just because they are 'happy'.

Its easier to deny unhealthy side effects will have any significant effect on future happiness than to ask the difficult question of whether it is in the long term interest of self, others or the environment.



Why then, do so many grown ups take this approach to other grown ups? Why do we convince ourselves that 'happy' is all that matters and that correction that may interrupt or 'judge' that happiness is hateful,,instead of loving?

To judge whether something is in your own long term best self interest is difficult enough.
Let alone trying to work out what is in an others best long term interest.
Same with the environment.

short term is valued over long term or long term is put into the hands of the gods

As soon as someone has their value system questioned it is easier to attack the questioner than to question ones own value system. Especially if the value system you utilise is borrowed from ideology instead of exhaustive self examination of reality.

Denial creates short term happiness

Now creates the delusion of long term

Future is what we make of it



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Tue 01/03/17 01:27 AM
Its interesting how the smoke detector alarm is activating randomly. Is it from the fire on the next island or is it in need of replacement?
Don't know that its a good thing I have learnt to sleep through it:-)

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Fri 12/30/16 04:38 AM





Congratulations to all past winners

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Thu 12/29/16 11:53 PM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Thu 12/29/16 11:55 PM
I read some where that people prefer to talk about them selves and others rather than talk about ideas.
Guess thats why Im not a social butterfly :butterfly: or even an :angel:

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Thu 12/29/16 11:43 PM
uh ha :thumbsup:

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Thu 12/29/16 09:49 PM
Edited by SimpyComplicated on Thu 12/29/16 09:50 PM




The OP must not be happy, because she deactivated. ohwell


oh that is sad... but I don't like being sad so I will continue
being happy.

because.........




Maybe the op has gone to her happy place
Maybe she has gone to shoot her husband
Maybe both

I don't have a partner even one that needs shooting

Fortunately one of my happy places is mingle2


oh ((((((SimpyComplicated)))))) flowerforyou

that is the sweetest thing one can ever say about Mingle2

me too!!!!!!
:heart: :heart: :heart:

waving smitten

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Thu 12/29/16 09:42 PM

I understand the 'threat' if a dog lunges at you,, I understand protecting oneself from a lunging dog,, but shooting a dog JUST for barking? that is BEYOND ridiculous

https://www.yahoo.com/celebrity/federal-court-rules-police-shoot-162939226.html

A federal court in Grand Rapids, Michigan, ruled that police can shoot a dog while entering a home if the animal “moves or barks” in the officer’s presence.


I would say that this comes about because police are in hyper defence mode because the know a good percentage of the population which is not easily identified see police as corrupt oppressors and they also know the dogs will be influenced by their owners.

It can be said that police should be less corrupt and oppressive.
It can be said that the populace should support and encourage their police to do the right thing.

I know what wont work is making each other the enemy.

It will take both sides to de-escalate for both sides to get out of hyper defence mode.

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