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why can't men respect a woman's choice to remain abstinent until marriage? i have encountered several who feel that even though i was married once, that i can continue to have sex. i feel like god commanded me to remain pure until i enter a union in holy matrimony. therefore, i choose not to until i remarry if that is god's will.
anyone else have similar problems? |
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I get what you are saying. I think our society has become a place where sex is more casual and that is why you get that pressure
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you haven't met the right one yet...
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i'm still not willing to die for my 70 virgins either, so i'd have to say, more power to ya
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dirtyblone, i would really like you to wage in on my topic.... http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/127610
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i dont see any problem with it
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Me respect that very much. I am in favor of shotgun weddings in such cases.
 seriously though I think a couple is considered married if they are in love with each other. 
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why can't men respect a woman's choice to remain abstinent until marriage? i have encountered several who feel that even though i was married once, that i can continue to have sex. i feel like god commanded me to remain pure until i enter a union in holy matrimony. therefore, i choose not to until i remarry if that is god's will. anyone else have similar problems? Oh, my gosh!! My brother was dating and wanted to marry my divorced friend and he couldn't get that, either. He was so retarded, ended up meeting a woman after she'd been to a male stripper show, just had to get him some.... Lost my friend's respect and he married the one from the male stripper show. My friend is better off, dodged a bullet. My brother never deserved her! |
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seriously though I think a couple is considered married if they are in love with each other. but even in the begining... there is more to a man than his ****. he should show respect even if he doesn't agree with it. which comes to a point that if the man can't respect it... then he isn't a good guy. |
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why can't men respect a woman's choice to remain abstinent until marriage? i have encountered several who feel that even though i was married once, that i can continue to have sex. i feel like god commanded me to remain pure until i enter a union in holy matrimony. therefore, i choose not to until i remarry if that is god's will. anyone else have similar problems? Oh, my gosh!! My brother was dating and wanted to marry my divorced friend and he couldn't get that, either. He was so retarded, ended up meeting a woman after she'd been to a male stripper show, just had to get him some.... Lost my friend's respect and he married the one from the male stripper show. My friend is better off, dodged a bullet. My brother never deserved her! Disaster averted by such a wonderful principle. 
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Quit using Gods will as an excuse to not feel sexy. This God you speak of has many other wills that I am sure you are not so passionate about.
Your clitoris is nothing more than nerve endings that feel good, why is sex so bad. Dont look at guys like losers because they have the confidence to be a good animal true to their animal instincts. If there is a God that is so small he will be upset at my sexual experience, I dont like him already! |
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i look at it this way , if a man really wants her he can wait and just turn to the Hand
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Do you buy a car without taking it for a ride?
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seriously though I think a couple is considered married if they are in love with each other. but even in the begining... there is more to a man than his ****. he should show respect even if he doesn't agree with it. which comes to a point that if the man can't respect it... then he isn't a good guy. |
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Do you buy a car without taking it for a ride? Would you buy your wife? |
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Quit using Gods will as an excuse to not feel sexy. This God you speak of has many other wills that I am sure you are not so passionate about. Your clitoris is nothing more than nerve endings that feel good, why is sex so bad. Dont look at guys like losers because they have the confidence to be a good animal true to their animal instincts. If there is a God that is so small he will be upset at my sexual experience, I dont like him already! i never said sex was bad nor use god as an excuse not to feel sexy. i am just saying that i am tired of being pushed away because of a personal conviction. if a man truely loves a woman, he will wait for her. |
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Do you buy a car without taking it for a ride? Would you buy your wife? JUST JOKIN
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I just think its hard because i think sex is a part of being in a relationship with someone.. and i'm not suggesting rushing into it... but at the same point having a sexual connection is important to a long term relationship.. so i can see why some people would be wierd not having sex before marriage
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Quit using Gods will as an excuse to not feel sexy. This God you speak of has many other wills that I am sure you are not so passionate about. Your clitoris is nothing more than nerve endings that feel good, why is sex so bad. Dont look at guys like losers because they have the confidence to be a good animal true to their animal instincts. If there is a God that is so small he will be upset at my sexual experience, I dont like him already! i never said sex was bad nor use god as an excuse not to feel sexy. i am just saying that i am tired of being pushed away because of a personal conviction. if a man truely loves a woman, he will wait for her. 
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i think the main thing should be... if you aren't comfortable with it... than don't settle for someone who wants to.. all it means is they aren't the right person for you.. stand up for what you believe in and you'll find someone who loves you because of it
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