My worst breakup has to be my last one. The girl I was with at the time and the ex before her decided that they both liked each other more than me and I was dumped for my ex GF and called a cheater by both of them...

I was once dropped off at the library to pick out movies for the weekend and he was supposed to pick me back up an hour later after running a couple of errands, he never showed and I had to take the bus home to find all of his stuff gone. I didn't have a clue he wanted out. That was rough. Cowardly bastard!

Text message...

I've only been dumped once in my life and it was my last ex. We had a fight, he said he was leaving early for the weekend to go to his parent's in Arkansas and "clear his head". He called me on Sunday of that weekend and said he would not be coming back and he wanted a divorce. Oddly enough we had been fighting about him wanting to move back to Arkansas to be with his family. A month or so later when I got my AT&T sim card back from him it had voice messages on there from some woman saying how much she loved him and couldn't wait for them to be together. By the end of that year they were engaged. But his official story line is still that I would not quit my job (that I love and pays me well) and move him back to Arkansas to be with his family so he left me. Oh yeah...and this was also about 2 months after I had to have a hysterectomy.

I thought of another one that was more embarressing.


When I was a junior in high school I had started seeing this one young lady. Now we hadn't been together too long when valentine's day came around. Me, trying to be a romantic, I sent her a half dozen long stem roses (all I could really afford).

Well, the flower shop always dropped those things off at the school so they could be handed to the appropriate person over the lunch hour. This valentines was no exception. She got them.

Then she proceeded to go into the lunch hall, throw them at me, and in a rather loud and near screaming voice she told me how she didn't really like me and that she was only seeing me so her old boyfriend would take her back and stop cheating on her (which apparently he did).

I took this verbal abuse in front of the entire school, the mocking laughter still rings in my ears as I think about it. Yeah, that kind of sucked.

I've been dumped by text message also...after he sent his little text, I called him (he answered!) and I told him what I thought about the whole thing!

The disappearing act is as bad.... A 5 year relationship with 2 of those yrs being engaged .... he up and just disappeared, left me with the diamond.... I haven't talked to him since...good riddance!

Woooo high five for keeping the diamond, you go girl!

I was stationed in California, and my wife and I were from the same small town back in New York. We went back for vacation one year, and she took my daughter in the van we had driven there to "visit family". A day later, she called and said she wasn't going back with me. I spent the next 5 days on a Greyhound bus to return to our empty house on base. Didn't see my daughter for 15 years after that, and our divorce was done completely without any input from her, as I had no idea where she or my daughter was.

Calling me up with a fake story she believed coming from her jealous friend, who was afraid she was gonna loose her, because she was hanging out with me more times than with her. (she has no other friend)

So she told her some giant BS about me, and I could never convince her to this day that none of that was true.

Basically being dumped, because of a jealous friend, and she still hasn't figured it out and even continued to spread the BS about me, that not a word is true.

This is not only bad as being dumped, but bad as hurting my reputation and I lost about 5-10 good friends because of it. Pure evil.

That happened to me, too, Drew. I kept writing her letters. She was like my whole world and I was really infatuated with her. I guess her mom really liked them because she never got them. She married my best friend while I was still writing the letters. I always wondered why she never wrote back. We seemed so close before I went to Basic. My best friend was the first one to tell me about what happened. I guess that was why we were best friends because we could communicate. I had no hard feelings towards him; Atleast he was honest. You're a better man than me, Gunga Din.

I dated a lady for a couple months. The day before Valentine’s Day she sent me a John Dear E-mail entailing my lack of being there for her and she had been seeing a guy on the side that was spending more time with her. I had already made reservations for Ruths Chris for Valentine’s. Needless to say I was distraught for a minute. She did leave a lot of clues of her disinterest in me in the last couple dates. It would have been better for her to have told me sooner. I was driving an hour one way for every date for her plus I was working full time and going to school full time. I did what I could but it was not enough.

You are lucky you got him to answer, my ex did not answer and would not answer, and did not even tell me why he wanted to end things. The next week I overworked myself helping move my dad's pet hospital from one location to the next, and then I was over it.


Again you are lucky you did not see him again... I don't quite have the luck since that ex who just up and disappeared keeps reappearing, and asking for me to take him back, and all the while, I keep telling him, that I won't and can't, no matter how much I still have feelings for him, I am smart enough to know that I do not need that in my life, and that I deserve better.

i was dumped by a man I've known for 25 yrs infact we were high school sweet hearts, while i was on vacation back east and when i got back he hit me with the news. that while i was gone he met a woman 32 yrs OLDER and married her after knowing her a month. at that time we were going with each other and lived with one another. chit the woman could b his mother. EWWWWW that's just sick in my book sry.

OMG what a dick

i was kicked in the nads

you know all the women i go after seem to do that...i'm sensing a pattern here....

Can't say that I have ever been dumped. Well atleast not since Jr High. Kind of childish to do that to someone, I think.

She called me on her honeymoon.

that's rough.

I don't know what's harder to do, protecting myself from a suprise kick or controlling my right hook reflex that follows soon after. Thank goodness it's been many many years since it happened to me.

When I was in my early twenties, I was dumped by a girl saying sex with me was boring. Only to learn she quickly got together with a guy twice my age who could'nt perform sexually. That befuddled my mind to the point it physically hurt.

Another time I was dumped for being an 'elitist jerk' as she put it. This was the evening after I spent 16 hours on my day off volunteering, collecting and delivering food donations instead of spending time with her. I thanked her and said I prefered the title Arrogant Humanitarian.